FabSwingers.com forum: Ever felt out of place...

By *andy_Fraser OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

On here?

I know that there are always people who complain about not getting sex on here, but then they're not getting that you need to put in more effort than actually looking and getting to know people.

But have you ever felt like you're just too "Vanilla" for a place like this? Everyone else seems to have flirty fun and in some case more.

It's probably just me, as I never feel settled anywhere, but the fact I don't get flirting or sex references doesn't help.

Anyone got any tips or advice to help?

Mandy

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Hiding your profile might not help if folk can't see what you're about.

(And before anyone gets their Inner Bitch on, I meant that constructively).

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I reckon everyone goes through that from time to time. I generally find we gravitate towards like minded people as we would at a party or a bar and don't worry that we are too vanilla or too... Extreme.

One mans meat is another mans poison and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite a reserved person by nature and don't generally engage in sex chat on here which probably is reason I haven't had many meets but I'm quite content with who I am and how I act. Everyone is different, just be yourself and I'm sure you will meet some like minded people

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By *andy_Fraser OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hiding your profile might not help if folk can't see what you're about.

(And before anyone gets their Inner Bitch on, I meant that constructively)."

It's only been hidden for about 30 minutes, whilst I "work" on a few things on it.

Mandy

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've felt out of place in many situations. I've no words of wisdom other than always stay true to yourself. Theres no one better at being you than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here?

I know that there are always people who complain about not getting sex on here, but then they're not getting that you need to put in more effort than actually looking and getting to know people.

But have you ever felt like you're just too "Vanilla" for a place like this? Everyone else seems to have flirty fun and in some case more.

It's probably just me, as I never feel settled anywhere, but the fact I don't get flirting or sex references doesn't help.

Anyone got any tips or advice to help?

Mandy"

I feel like this all the time! It's not just you. We all look for different things on here.

I'm going to attempt to go to the Christmas social, I've been on and off here for a couple of years and still not sure I have the confidence to walk through that door...and that's just a social!

As others have said, just be you. You'll find your way.

Much love

Shorty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite a reserved person by nature and don't generally engage in sex chat on here which probably is reason I haven't had many meets but I'm quite content with who I am and how I act. Everyone is different, just be yourself and I'm sure you will meet some like minded people"

In some ways, that's a good thing not engaging in "sex chat". Actions speak louder than words after all.

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

I'm not vanilla but don't seem to fit in here but don't really give a fook

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've never really fit in. I just blag my way through life.

I am who I am.

I don't want to change to fit what people think I should be.

Just be yourself. If people can't accept you the way ou want to be, find some that do

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

I'm with you on this never really fit in but at the end of the day I'm not going to change who I am.

Don't you change being you either

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Daily,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Semi permanently.

I think you'll find we all do at times if we're honest

Stick with it and try not to let it get to you

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