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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Guys had to do it, sorry. I've blocked males from messaging me. It was constant! Feel bad because I talk to some lovely men on here and didn't want to block gender on account of that. But I've finally been worn down to a nub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've already spoken to them they can still mail you, but unwanted messages won't be a problem now

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

And you felt the need to share this revelation. I just dont get it. Are we ment to beg you to allow us to talk to you. This isnt to get at you but it seems folk have an over inflated sense of their importance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I can understand, I'm constantly getting the "want sucked mate ? " messages from guys on here. Get excited when you see wee yellow box saying you have a message then your heart sinks when you see it's from a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I can understand, I'm constantly getting the "want sucked mate ? " messages from guys on here. Get excited when you see wee yellow box saying you have a message then your heart sinks when you see it's from a guy "

There's something about that that's so bleak and funny.

Never had filters off myself. But aye, probably just leave it that way.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Bitch

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"And you felt the need to share this revelation. I just dont get it. Are we ment to beg you to allow us to talk to you. This isnt to get at you but it seems folk have an over inflated sense of their importance"

Definitely not. I don't do look at me posts. But I genuinely talk to men by message who I now thought I couldn't becaus of this blocking measure.

I don't need to do look at me posts. I have enough friends in here already.

I wrote something previously that was a bit prickish and if anyone read it I am sorry

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

It's something I don't have a problem with, other than literally once in a blue moon.

Should I complain?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Ok, viewpoint from the resident Jessie.

OP, that's entirely your choice who you set your filters to exclude. I know my galpal had the same issue with too many mails from fellas until I showed her how to set filters. It's a shame, but a fact that folk get unwanted mail from admirers but that's Fab/Online for you. At least now IF you feel like replying privately from a thread to another fella you can do (unless they've also set their filters). The tools are there to be used. Use them.

Of course, you do realise I can't pester you for rumpy pumpy OP, but hey I can always flirt with Furry & co

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's something I don't have a problem with, other than literally once in a blue moon.

Should I complain? "

I don't get messages from women (when I have the filters off)...

Who do we complain too?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"Yeah I can understand, I'm constantly getting the "want sucked mate ? " messages from guys on here. Get excited when you see wee yellow box saying you have a message then your heart sinks when you see it's from a guy "

Sorry, my bad

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Guys had to do it, sorry. I've blocked males from messaging me. It was constant! Feel bad because I talk to some lovely men on here and didn't want to block gender on account of that. But I've finally been worn down to a nub"
send the guys my way

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's something I don't have a problem with, other than literally once in a blue moon.

Should I complain? "

Ha ha - grass is always greener

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Ok, viewpoint from the resident Jessie.

OP, that's entirely your choice who you set your filters to exclude. I know my galpal had the same issue with too many mails from fellas until I showed her how to set filters. It's a shame, but a fact that folk get unwanted mail from admirers but that's Fab/Online for you. At least now IF you feel like replying privately from a thread to another fella you can do (unless they've also set their filters). The tools are there to be used. Use them.

Of course, you do realise I can't pester you for rumpy pumpy OP, but hey I can always flirt with Furry & co "

Feel free to pester me on the forum

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yeah I can understand, I'm constantly getting the "want sucked mate ? " messages from guys on here. Get excited when you see wee yellow box saying you have a message then your heart sinks when you see it's from a guy

Sorry, my bad "

Joking aside, though, I've had messages from people asking me this and I've said no thanks they've said fair enough and then we've got chatting and become friendly. It's the people that don't take no that are the issue.

I am sure if I was bombarded with women asking the same thing and I wasn't interested it would be an issue, too. Alas - that is yet to happen

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yeah I can understand, I'm constantly getting the "want sucked mate ? " messages from guys on here. Get excited when you see wee yellow box saying you have a message then your heart sinks when you see it's from a guy "

Absolutely. And it's a shame because mostly they are guys that just want fun, too. It's just the ones that absolutely can't imagine why I'm not interested and keep going that bug me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's something I don't have a problem with, other than literally once in a blue moon.

Should I complain? "

Complain? Sooooooo not like you sweetie pie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you felt the need to share this revelation. I just dont get it. Are we ment to beg you to allow us to talk to you. This isnt to get at you but it seems folk have an over inflated sense of their importance"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Sometimes I feel like blocking them, tired of them not reading the profile. Did it once for a few days after being pissed about by 5 guys over a weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you felt the need to share this revelation. I just dont get it. Are we ment to beg you to allow us to talk to you. This isnt to get at you but it seems folk have an over inflated sense of their importance"

I do see where you're coming from,BUT, I see similar posts about single guys from girls and couples all the time, In this world of so called equal rights, why can't a guy post and complain and ask what others have done to deal with said problem, some guys probably don't block because it means they'll at least get some msgs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you felt the need to share this revelation. I just dont get it. Are we ment to beg you to allow us to talk to you. This isnt to get at you but it seems folk have an over inflated sense of their importance

I do see where you're coming from,BUT, I see similar posts about single guys from girls and couples all the time, In this world of so called equal rights, why can't a guy post and complain and ask what others have done to deal with said problem, some guys probably don't block because it means they'll at least get some msgs "

This

Plus... there are people who actually coverse intelligently and humorously about forum posts in a pm. Alas blocking or filters sometimes means you can't give and or receive messages from people you might want to message or they you. For example a fun one like FPF

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"And you felt the need to share this revelation. I just dont get it. Are we ment to beg you to allow us to talk to you. This isnt to get at you but it seems folk have an over inflated sense of their importance

I do see where you're coming from,BUT, I see similar posts about single guys from girls and couples all the time, In this world of so called equal rights, why can't a guy post and complain and ask what others have done to deal with said problem, some guys probably don't block because it means they'll at least get some msgs

This

Plus... there are people who actually coverse intelligently and humorously about forum posts in a pm. Alas blocking or filters sometimes means you can't give and or receive messages from people you might want to message or they you. For example a fun one like FPF"

Exactly guys thanks

It seems I can message people and then they can reply to me - but that now means people almost have to wait for me to engage with them - which seems, somehow, unfair.

Obviously women and couples can still contact me. I'll just sit back and wait for the messages to roll in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I try to reply to everyone. I am straight and happy enough in my own sexuality that I can take it as a compliment, say a polite "No thank you" and move on. I recon people either get carried away with "horn" blindness or just batch mail and pray that someone says yes. Good luck to them all

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"To be fair I try to reply to everyone. I am straight and happy enough in my own sexuality that I can take it as a compliment, say a polite "No thank you" and move on. I recon people either get carried away with "horn" blindness or just batch mail and pray that someone says yes. Good luck to them all"

I reply to everyone too and have actually got chatting to people who propositioned me and we have a bit of a laugh. But it's the people who don't take no and keep asking. They say close your eyes or we will turn lights out you'll never know it's a guy

I always try to be nice

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"Feel free to pester me on the forum "

You have no idea the sh1t I'd get into with Furry & the Bromance Buddies. I'd be inundated with Mail!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Feel free to pester me on the forum

You have no idea the sh1t I'd get into with Furry & the Bromance Buddies. I'd be inundated with Mail! "

1, 2, 3 (clicks fingers) and back into the room....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to pester me on the forum

You have no idea the sh1t I'd get into with Furry & the Bromance Buddies. I'd be inundated with Mail!

1, 2, 3 (clicks fingers) and back into the room.... "
wakey wakey ya dozy mare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys had to do it, sorry. I've blocked males from messaging me. It was constant! Feel bad because I talk to some lovely men on here and didn't want to block gender on account of that. But I've finally been worn down to a nub"

I dont mind if blokes proposition me, as long as they take no for an answer, but if they persist they need to be ready for me releasing my inner cheeky c*nt

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Guys had to do it, sorry. I've blocked males from messaging me. It was constant! Feel bad because I talk to some lovely men on here and didn't want to block gender on account of that. But I've finally been worn down to a nub

I dont mind if blokes proposition me, as long as they take no for an answer, but if they persist they need to be ready for me releasing my inner cheeky c*nt "

Exactly! A firm but fair no

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