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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Stolen from the lounge...

Seen a few status updates and meets posted recently saying kids would be at home but would be in bed. Saw something similar in lounge earlier.

What do you guys think about having meets while kids are in bed?

Personally I wouldn't but wouldn't make judgments on people who did. I get if you have a baby they aren't going to know what's going on whereas older kids are a bit different

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't think id be comfortable with it kids can wake up at anytime and would be very un settling if they caught you with there mother in a compromising situation

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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just to clarify it wasn't just mothers who were posting the meets, fathers and couples as well

K X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong on so many levels

And I make no secret..I do judge the folk that do it

When a leg over becomes more important than your family life

Have a look at yourself

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Not a situation i would like even a baby can wake and cry interrupting a meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally dobt judge the folk happy to do it. Some people cant get babysitters if they have no family close by i just personally dont think id get really into the fun

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By *eekingSinCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We were offered a meet with a cpl at theirs a while back and as they hadn't any free time, they told us the kids would be upstairs sleeping.

We didnt go but get that some people don't have free time for meets and their only solution is when the kids are sleeping.

xx

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By *eekingSinCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

..plus being quiet and not waking them isn't an option for us!!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago I was invited over to a couples place for fun. Asked me to come round after nine as the kids would be in bed then. I declined their kind offer as I'm a parent myself and could never live with myself if kid was to come downstairs and witness something they should never see. Doesn't matter what precautions you take, you can never be a hundred percent certain if kids are at home they won't walk in on you and the damage it could potentially do to them to see such things

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Wouldn't play with small people in the house. Don't care about playing with housemates in the house x

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Nope kids & fab should be completely separate.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I wouldn't meet anyone when they're kids were in the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable having a meet in the house when the kids are home.

I knew my boyfriend 6 months before I let him come over while the kids were here.

How do you explain it if they wake up!!!

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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable having a meet in the house when the kids are home.

I knew my boyfriend 6 months before I let him come over while the kids were here.

How do you explain it if they wake up!!!"

Well that's what I woulda thought. my daughter was about 10 when John n I first met n I wouldn't have sex with him if she was at home, she's nearly 25 n I still won't if she's visiting

K x

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We went on a meet ,sat had a few drink's next thing wee hear a kid screaming in a baby monitor she goes to try settle said child after ten mins he went up .We heard then getting pretty angry with child .We sneaked out and phoned a taxi .Each to their own but at least say their is one there

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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We went on a meet ,sat had a few drink's next thing wee hear a kid screaming in a baby monitor she goes to try settle said child after ten mins he went up .We heard then getting pretty angry with child .We sneaked out and phoned a taxi .Each to their own but at least say their is one there "

Oh god bet that was uncomfortable

K x

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Whereas I don't judge people on it - I just couldn't imagine doing it. I have can't accommodate for that very reason and I know it's turned a lot of people off. It's different if it's someone you might become very comfortable with way down the line but a few meets on fab doesn't make me want to blur the lines between family life and fab life!

Although I would train the kids to say "are you my new mummy!" If it ever did happen and see how fast she would run after breakfast the next morning

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Never play when I have the wee Blondie boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never have anyone in our home while kids were here likewise I wdnt go to someone whn they had kids there either it's way too dodgy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't agree to meet anyone with kids in the house, and if I turned up and there were kids around, I'd leave as soon as I found out. I've had one bad experience before, and I have no desire to repeat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate for that very reason that I usually have kids at home but I think going to places like cjs, hotels or parties makes things that little more special. Actually going out, dressing up all adds to the excitement.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I've never played with kids in the house. It's now even more difficult as they get older and you never know when they will be in or out.

I'd never play at anyone else's house with kids either. If it did get to the stage where it was more of a relationship then obviously that would be reconsidered.

Did play at someone else's house when their son came home unexpectedly from college. They managed to get them back out but it was close!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me and without judging anyone, I don't have fun with friends and for sure I don't have fun with kids at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no and NO!!!

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

I dont have kids but i know i wouldnt do it and have turned down meets even with reg people due to kids being there. But suppose if u dont have anyone to watch them it must be hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong on so many levels

And I make no secret..I do judge the folk that do it

When a leg over becomes more important than your family life

Have a look at yourself "
strangely enough I agree with this...lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not on .

Would never have a meet at mine when kids are here and would have no issue doing a u turn if I went to a meet and kids where in the house .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not , kids and fab should be kept separate but that's just our opinion, Everyone is different .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me, had meets with people while their kids were asleep, had meets with 1 or 2 people during the day while their kids were still up in another room.

It's each to their own tbh

The only bad experience I had was with a woman and her wee lassies walked in on us a dunno who screamed louder them or me

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's a no from us.

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Big No no for us. There's a time and a place and it certainly isn't when there's kids around...sleeping or not!

Lx

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By *ooglefrogCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Big No no for us. There's a time and a place and it certainly isn't when there's kids around...sleeping or not!

Lx"

Yeah, definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play when no kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't put ourselves, our kids, or another couple in that situation. Its just not worth the risk.

We state we can't accomodate for a reason. Even when the boys stay at gran & papa's on a Sat night its still a no no. Our 18 yr old daughter comes and goes as she pleases, so we can't risk it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our kids are our priority. I don't understand anyone that compromises their child's innocence and security for their own fun xx

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just no x

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By *aviecazCouple
over a year ago

cumbernauld

A defo no not for us xxx

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

No way.

So many other options to meet... I have met a few single mums on here, and always sorted babysitter and hotel or mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong on so many levels

And I make no secret..I do judge the folk that do it

When a leg over becomes more important than your family life

Have a look at yourself "

Very much this

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