FabSwingers.com forum: Its really hard

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No not a dick lol but its really hard to not say what you really want to say to people that grate on you on here sometimes I don't know how I keep my mouth shut I am sure others struggle too!

Part of me wishes I could but the nice part of me says no I don't want to upset anyone so I just keep quiet but my patience is thinner than tracing paper just now

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Let it out, but not at me plzzzz

You should be able to say what you want, and said in the right way, that's all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I have thought about it but I feel like I am gonna lose my temper at some people and the things I want to say are horrible lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Don't give them the satisfaction, they probably thrive on the drama

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think if people are having that effect its time to step back. Its just a website

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Yeah I have thought about it but I feel like I am gonna lose my temper at some people and the things I want to say are horrible lol "

Maybe say them privately then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't I don;t think they are doing it on purpose either its just them!

Also I took a break a couple weeks ago and feel a bit better about the site apart from a few people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I have thought about it but I feel like I am gonna lose my temper at some people and the things I want to say are horrible lol

Maybe say them privately then lol

I'd get banned from the site lol

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Yeah I have thought about it but I feel like I am gonna lose my temper at some people and the things I want to say are horrible lol

Maybe say them privately then lol

I'd get banned from the site lol

Just tell me then, I love a secret

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

What's up my girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll stop it immediately..

Sorry, Minxy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

LOL Jinty I don't believe I have spoke to you but seen you comment on a lot of things you not done anything at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's up my girl

People babes lol think I am a peoplephobe! haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If its that bad step away hide your profile and take some timeout

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Count to 10 and breath babe

its not worth it ..i know what you mean but dont give them the satisfaction they will only turn it around to make you out as the bad 1 xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always best but as others have said if that's the way it makes you feel them maybe a break would be best

Fab is supposed to be fun. When it's not then what's the point

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"What's up my girl

People babes lol think I am a peoplephobe! haha"
i give you a phn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its only a few people I'll give it a wee bit longer and think about a break

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I'm sorry

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

Maybe we need an emoticon of a kettle letting off steam?

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Wouldn't let anything bother me on here. Realisation is life is to short.

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By *eekingSinCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it's no longer fun then whats the point.

It's good to take a sabbatical once in a while to recharge

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By *rwomble 56Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

You should always be able to say what you feel. I have to learn to be,patient as trying to contact people who are up for fun but don't read or even bother to reply would rather get not interested than nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its not the site its the way people talk and act the site is still fun for me if it wasn't I wouldn't be on here this is a minor gripe patience is a virtue I know that and I am trying to expand mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

know what you mean Minxy

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

If some people are messing you are then a polite leave me alone or don't talk to me like that, I bring like it works if normal ,sane people

If it's some of the nuggets on here then its, feck off, and block time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its not the way they talk to me its the way they talk and act in general I just block the proper nuggets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give them the satisfaction, they probably thrive on the drama "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Its not the way they talk to me its the way they talk and act in general I just block the proper nuggets"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankfully there are lots of nice funny sexy folk about

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Let it go let it go can't hold it back anymore

When fab get bad I just start singing this god awful song and remind myself that I can rise above the rubbish I get on fab and go. And have some fun with friends

Hope it all goes well for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol thank you dove I should try this too hopefully it will work.

I shall indeed thank you again

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

And breathe Minxy

Sometimes it's difficult I know but just realize that these idiots aren't in our life and smile

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

"Lol thank you dove I should try this too hopefully it will work.

I shall indeed thank you again"

Make sure your blinds/curtains and windows are close so neighbours don't see/hear lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Lol thank you dove I should try this too hopefully it will work.

I shall indeed thank you again

Make sure your blinds/curtains and windows are close so neighbours don't see/hear lol "

Why? You do it in public

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pmsl my voice is not bad could be better but won't be entering xfactor next yr haha

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Pmsl my voice is not bad could be better but won't be entering xfactor next yr haha"
why not lol

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

"Lol thank you dove I should try this too hopefully it will work.

I shall indeed thank you again

Make sure your blinds/curtains and windows are close so neighbours don't see/hear lol

Why? You do it in public

Do what in public?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Lol thank you dove I should try this too hopefully it will work.

I shall indeed thank you again

Make sure your blinds/curtains and windows are close so neighbours don't see/hear lol

Why? You do it in public

Do what in public?"

Sing

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