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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Glad im not in that age group lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well out of it at 62. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do they really think that'll achieve??

Do they think you'll change your mind after their rant and start chatting??

I've had many a "thanks but no thanks" message, just take it on the chin and move on.

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

It's true though. Never had an issue with guys outwith that range. Even the younger newbies don't seem to get the hump when told no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's true though. Never had an issue with guys outwith that range. Even the younger newbies don't seem to get the hump when told no thanks.

"

Some see it's a swinging site and just expect a conversation from everyone they message

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Well out of it at 62. lol. "

Wouldn't say so

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a long time since I even dreamed of being in that age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well out of it at 62. lol.

Wouldn't say so "

Aww, thanks.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a good boy "

Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block them is the best way to deal with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And Im quite sure if you spoke to the genuine single guys who have been on fab a while they could tell you a few stories on the messages & attitudes from women and couples who get turned down.

Works both ways,you just don't hear guys moaning as much about it.

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

A mr Kay have you got cake for a fellow foreigner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that's why I have my age limit set from age 40 -50 . Guys are a lot more respectful and never get any hassle anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us all, I've had plenty of abuse from women on here ages from 18-60, the real question is will I now tar you all with he same brush or will I assume it's just a few rude few

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

"

Well out of it also. Besides, no thanks is more than I usually get. Lol. .

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Not at all. Not one person is the same hence why we don't block single guys.

To be fair never had an issue for a while until today so that's why I decided to vent

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Yes that's why I have my age limit set from age 40 -50 . Guys are a lot more respectful and never get any hassle anymore "

That's because

A. We're too old and lazy to be bothered with insults.

B. We're old and senile and can't remember any insults.

And C......what was I saying????

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"A mr Kay have you got cake for a fellow foreigner "

Always

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By *alia2000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any person of any age can be a prick.

So to pigeon hole younger guys is idiotic imo

The older you get generally the more short tempered and crabbit you become.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Any person of any age can be a prick.

So to pigeon hole younger guys is idiotic imo

The older you get generally the more short tempered and crabbit you become. "

Eh? Speak up young un

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Not at all

With age comes wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in all honesty, its good they throw their dummies out, at least you get to know what kinda person they are

here endith the lesson, just bin them

XxxX peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And Im quite sure if you spoke to the genuine single guys who have been on fab a while they could tell you a few stories on the messages & attitudes from women and couples who get turned down.

Works both ways,you just don't hear guys moaning as much about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes that's why I have my age limit set from age 40 -50 . Guys are a lot more respectful and never get any hassle anymore "

totally agree

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We must have been very lucky as all single guys we have spoken to/said no to over the years have always been very respectful. Xx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Tbh i dont think its down to a certain age group ...can happen across the board and not just men lol just the joys of keyboard warriors im afraid

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

"
abusive members are not age spcific nor are they sex specific either womem can be just as bad at giving out abuse.

Its a person thing rather than what you are describing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for abuse no matter age, sex or preference!

Let's all just enjoy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

abusive members are not age spcific nor are they sex specific either womem can be just as bad at giving out abuse.

Its a person thing rather than what you are describing "

True.

Fudds are not bound by age or gender - they simply are fudds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

"

"the abusive messages begin"

After the first abusive message..surely that would have inherited a Report & Block.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I think there must be something in the water this week. I've had guys take offence cos I didn't reply to messages, or didn't like my response when I did reply. Major toys out of the pram moments!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I think there must be something in the water this week. I've had guys take offence cos I didn't reply to messages, or didn't like my response when I did reply. Major toys out of the pram moments! "

And these guys were in their 50s.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"I think there must be something in the water this week. I've had guys take offence cos I didn't reply to messages, or didn't like my response when I did reply. Major toys out of the pram moments!

And these guys were in their 50s."

Age is no guide to maturity lol

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By *ndermykiltMan
over a year ago

Perth

Im in that age group and have to say I prefer it when I get a reply to say no thanks (obviously prefer a yes & conversation lol) and usually I will reply to say thanks and that I appreciate them taking the time to reply to me

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Some people will be rude no matter what age. I gave in caring a long time ago. They are irrelevant xx

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Think it's just the nature of Fab unfortunately. A lot of people just come on here just thinking meets are a done deal and when it doesn't happen, they can hide behind the profile and get abusive. Don't see the point myself as being on here should be fun and enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

"

I got some quite horrid abuse from a 43 year old last weekend for daring to send a polite no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

I got some quite horrid abuse from a 43 year old last weekend for daring to send a polite no thanks "

No need for someone to do that

If someone sends me a thanks but no type message I accept it - if someone has taken time to reply accept it and move on

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By *ackson213Man
over a year ago

Turriff


"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.

Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.

Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.

"

All they do is make it all the more difficult for us other guys to meet and chat as it puts people of and makes them wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get assholes in all age groups don't lump us altogether lol

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You get assholes in all age groups don't lump us altogether lol

"

But unfortunately we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly people hide behind an online persona. Wouldn't do it in real life. Don't have the bottle. Just keyboard warriors.

You get them on any kind of forum online.

Take the moral high ground and ignore them as best as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has nothing to do with it in my opinion. I've had some really rude, horrible messages in the past from guys in the 55-65 bracket. It's all about the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get assholes in all age groups don't lump us altogether lol

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We get some twats every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will be rude no matter what age. I gave in caring a long time ago. They are irrelevant xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to delete, block, repeat when it comes to the idiots on here! Sadly the place seems to be rather full of them.

Pity Fab didn't come with an electro-shock function....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be a function where a group vote of minimum 15 verified trustworthy longtime users who have a majority vote in whether or not a user Is banned for harassment ect. Too much of this single guys are the worst of the worst lark

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