FabSwingers.com forum: Real world

By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

95% convinced I just walked past another fab member who I've chatted to at CJs (won't name names) while I was walking along with my daughter. Wanted to do a daft little wave but stopped myself. Didn't even make even the tiniest acknowledgment.

Has this happened to anyone else? Must have done!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Probably played it best m8 ..some may get funny if approached in the street

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Seen quite a few people, either at Livi centre and at the footie. Don't acknowledge unless they do first x

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

I would have a heart attack if someone asked me if I was on fab!! Always crap myself now when someone stops us at the shops etc and says "I know your face from somewhere" !!!

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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I wouldn't have asked

I'd have maybe raised the eyebrows or something equally naff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"95% convinced I just walked past another fab member who I've chatted to at CJs (won't name names) while I was walking along with my daughter. Wanted to do a daft little wave but stopped myself. Didn't even make even the tiniest acknowledgment.

Has this happened to anyone else? Must have done!"

I imagine, she was a switched on female, and thought that it was best not to acknowledge you whilst you were with your daughter, that way it doesn't put you on the spot when your daughter asks who she is! Or she clocked you early and thought, oh fuck, there's that twat from cjs and deliberately looked the other way

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Recognised quite a few people but decided to leave it. May send them a Facebook message

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Have seen many people I just smile and walk on by as do they x

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"Have seen many people I just smile and walk on by as do they x"

Best way

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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Has this happened to anyone else? Must have done!

Ha ha think you nailed it

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've often wondered about this too . . would a polite "Hi" as your eyes meet be a No No? .. . or would you prefer to turn away? which seems very unfriendly

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

If they were definitely alone maybe say hi if they were with someone or I was with someone definite no no . Discretion expected and given at all times .

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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I was about to make a bit of friendly eye contact - no more - when my daughter started being a... Pain in the arse

as is her wont

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's happened to me twice. Once was a girl I'd met at CJs greedy girl parties. I was in the big Currys at Barrhead and she was behind me in the queue, with a younger female, at customer services when I turned round. Was about to say hello but she looked at me with pleading eyes as if to say 'please don't say hello'. I just walked on by.

Got a message on fab that night. She said thanks for not saying hello and sorry if it made me feel awkward. She said she was with her daughter, who knows nothing about her lifestyle choice, and panicked in case her daughter asked how we knew each other. A great example for playing things low key out in the real world. Helps protect all our privacy

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Seen people around a few times. Even caught CJ stocking up on wipes and stuff at ASDA.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Meet a single guy in here few months ago couple weeks later literly bumped into him in asda. Both very apologetic then the realisation of who each other was. Cue the wife and kids arriving on cue to make sure daddy was ok.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Will never get this "real world" thing folk go on about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me whilst out shopping.

Wolf whistle from an escalator.

I smiled and mouthed a hello.

Besides I kinda like the couple in question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me personally it would depend on how well I know the person and who I was with.

I've bumped into a few people and stood n had a full conversation, others I've just Said hello.

I am lucky that in my line of work you come across a lot of different types of people so can always pass it off as that x

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

If some one asks me "Where do I know you from?" I usually respond "Prison?".

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Had a guy I'd been chatting to come in to where I was working at the time. Totally legitimate reason for being there. We did say hi and said no more.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I'd love someone quietly asking if was Ivanna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was at a club last week and 2 guys walked in 10 minutes apart and they were brother in laws!!! They made the most of a very awkward situation. But both went along with who are you again and enjoyed there day. X

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