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"I defo dont lurk x" No no you dont xx | |||
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"There are plenty of them bunk - but then sometimes I don't blame them " But we're a friendly bunch lol | |||
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"I defo dont lurk x No no you dont xx" Well i am all about the chat after all x | |||
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"I defo dont lurk x No no you dont xx Well i am all about the chat after all x" Yes you are and was an absolute pleasure | |||
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"Me I lurk " No you don't. As a lurker who has very recently decided to be more active i find it pretty pointless. As i have said on my own topic after it was hijacked and taken completely off topic..... It was just being used (as many other threads are used) by the same predictable people as a vehicle for their private in jokes. It makes it difficult and pretty pointless to become more active within the forums. And I know Exactly who will respond in mock outrage lol | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time." Care to expand on this _iew mate? | |||
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"I do a bit of lurking and joining in " Its good to join in | |||
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"Me I lurk No you don't. As a lurker who has very recently decided to be more active i find it pretty pointless. As i have said on my own topic after it was hijacked and taken completely off topic..... It was just being used (as many other threads are used) by the same predictable people as a vehicle for their private in jokes. It makes it difficult and pretty pointless to become more active within the forums. And I know Exactly who will respond in mock outrage lol" I'm hijacking the mock outrage before the anthill mob jump on you, how dare you slag us off you big poopoo head, go back to lurking and let us (well them) crack all the funny injokes | |||
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"I know your out there ..some of you even outted yourselves on saturday night 1 in particular So come on lets be having you its time to say hello ,dont be shy we wont bite " so what about them? thers a lot of people on this site that will never use the forum as they cant. as there not registered - as any 1 can see this. | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time." agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? | |||
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"I did lurk, but thought I'd start getting involved a bit more" good lad | |||
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"Me I lurk No you don't. As a lurker who has very recently decided to be more active i find it pretty pointless. As i have said on my own topic after it was hijacked and taken completely off topic..... It was just being used (as many other threads are used) by the same predictable people as a vehicle for their private in jokes. It makes it difficult and pretty pointless to become more active within the forums. And I know Exactly who will respond in mock outrage lol I'm hijacking the mock outrage before the anthill mob jump on you, how dare you slag us off you big poopoo head, go back to lurking and let us (well them) crack all the funny injokes " | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post?" Because their pals posted and they want to continue a joke from an entirely different thread. | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post?" well basically in a few short words, because I can | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can " least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all | |||
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"So a guy posts about oh I dunno can't remember not getting good meets?? Then someone mentions cake You know the rest...." Exactly, its monotonous predictable and so off putting. | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all " Yep, summed up perfectly by one of the main culprits lol | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all " as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all Yep, summed up perfectly by one of the main culprits lol" do you honestly think I give a shit if you think I'm one of them ? Nope you, or anyone else don't or won't tell me where or what thread I post on,. Deal with it | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol " There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all Yep, summed up perfectly by one of the main culprits lol do you honestly think I give a shit if you think I'm one of them ? Nope you, or anyone else don't or won't tell me where or what thread I post on,. Deal with it" Ok thanks xxx | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol" your point ? | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ?" Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. | |||
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"The forum would be boring if we all had the same opinion. " according to some, you're not allowed one of your own lol | |||
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"The forum would be boring if we all had the same opinion. " No its boring because the same people post the same topics and hijack everyone elses. Mmmm cake lol | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in." it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it " If i was trying to get a rise i think you have already obliged with that. It wasn't my intention though. | |||
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"The forum would be boring if we all had the same opinion. No its boring because the same people post the same topics and hijack everyone elses. Mmmm cake lol " | |||
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"Wow this is really helpful start a thread for the lurkers to say hello and now hijacked by the very people that are complaining about threads being hijacked ...go figure " I offered a reason why i and others maybe lurk, its completely on topic. | |||
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"Wow this is really helpful start a thread for the lurkers to say hello and now hijacked by the very people that are complaining about threads being hijacked ...go figure " | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it If i was trying to get a rise i think you have already obliged with that. It wasn't my intention though." I've obliged you with fuck all. Yer clearly a wind up merchant and can't handle the word "no" | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it If i was trying to get a rise i think you have already obliged with that. It wasn't my intention though. I've obliged you with fuck all. Yer clearly a wind up merchant and can't handle the word "no" " Thats two huge assumptions you have made. Anyway, i dont really want to converse with someone your age who resorts to name calling and offensive lines to try and get a laugh. Goodbye | |||
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"David...as you probably gathered by now... Same old same old Good luck with your other posts as this 1 was always gonna go downhill " Thanks. | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it If i was trying to get a rise i think you have already obliged with that. It wasn't my intention though. I've obliged you with fuck all. Yer clearly a wind up merchant and can't handle the word "no" Thats two huge assumptions you have made. Anyway, i dont really want to converse with someone your age who resorts to name calling and offensive lines to try and get a laugh. Goodbye " pmsl your welcome | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it If i was trying to get a rise i think you have already obliged with that. It wasn't my intention though. I've obliged you with fuck all. Yer clearly a wind up merchant and can't handle the word "no" Thats two huge assumptions you have made. Anyway, i dont really want to converse with someone your age who resorts to name calling and offensive lines to try and get a laugh. Goodbye " well im younger than her so can I resort to name calling? | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. " An opinion without fact is an assumption. Now who has cake??? | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time.agreek with _iew Same old same old Posted a few posts muself but overall same post recycled Everyone has been a newbie so know how hard it is getting your foot in the door on here so please...stop with the hijacking of post... If you have nothing to say about the topic...why post? well basically in a few short words, because I can least your honest...and there's the Scottish Forum for you all as I said on another post, who's to tell others what and when they can post tho ? I'm brutally honest lol There's a group of 4/5 of you that round on people on a regular basis if they have a differing opinion or are critical of something. Irony overload lol your point ? Keep reading, it will eventually sink in. it's sunk in yer trying to get a rise outrageous people. good luck with it If i was trying to get a rise i think you have already obliged with that. It wasn't my intention though. I've obliged you with fuck all. Yer clearly a wind up merchant and can't handle the word "no" Thats two huge assumptions you have made. Anyway, i dont really want to converse with someone your age who resorts to name calling and offensive lines to try and get a laugh. Goodbye well im younger than her so can I resort to name calling? " pmsl cheeky wee shite | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. An opinion without fact is an assumption. Now who has cake???" what kind of cake? | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. An opinion without fact is an assumption. Now who has cake???what kind of cake? " Depending on who wants some it will chocolate, filled with ball bearings and some variety of explosives. | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. " not what I was thinking | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. not what I was thinking" entitled to yer opinion dawl face | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. An opinion without fact is an assumption. Now who has cake???what kind of cake? Depending on who wants some it will chocolate, filled with ball bearings and some variety of explosives." well if you want to take the first bite be my guest | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. An opinion without fact is an assumption. Now who has cake???what kind of cake? Depending on who wants some it will chocolate, filled with ball bearings and some variety of explosives.well if you want to take the first bite be my guest " Nah its all for you and yer pals. | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. not what I was thinking" again it's an open forum and it's an opinion that you (like everyone else),is entitled to | |||
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"And for the record, it wasn't an assumption, it was my opinion, which I'm entitled too (seeing as it's an open forum) plus I have the balls to say what others are thinking. An opinion without fact is an assumption. Now who has cake???what kind of cake? Depending on who wants some it will chocolate, filled with ball bearings and some variety of explosives.well if you want to take the first bite be my guest Nah its all for you and yer pals." a chef who isn't willing to try his own product?that's not on lol | |||
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"I'm not a lurker, I find the forums a great tool to get to know people and for them to know me. You can see people's personality a lot better than in private messages " I totally agree have many friends i wouldnt have previously chatted with through forums and socials x | |||
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"Well thats became a interesting post i leave for a hour and it all kicks off lol. I feel a bit disappointed there seems to be a forum clique im not in. Especially since i post on most threads now im past newbie status. lol " glad you are past newbie status | |||
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"I know your out there ..some of you even outted yourselves on saturday night 1 in particular So come on lets be having you its time to say hello ,dont be shy we wont bite " WTF Bunkie, there's cake & shrapnel EVERYWHERE!!! I'm not cleaning up this mess. There's hundreds & thousands in crevices & cracks, icing that frosted over harder than a glacier, & a bunch of terrified lurkers in the Lobby quivering in fear. You might want to change that "we don't bite" to "we just fight". Im away back to the "Can we just be happy" Thread to sing a few new verses. Call me when the paramedics have been. | |||
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"Well thats became a interesting post i leave for a hour and it all kicks off lol. I feel a bit disappointed there seems to be a forum clique im not in. Especially since i post on most threads now im past newbie status. lol glad you are past newbie status " Am I still a newbie DLT or have I earned my first badge yet? | |||
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"Well thats became a interesting post i leave for a hour and it all kicks off lol. I feel a bit disappointed there seems to be a forum clique im not in. Especially since i post on most threads now im past newbie status. lol glad you are past newbie status Am I still a newbie DLT or have I earned my first badge yet? " I'd reckon if your here over 3 months your not a newbie | |||
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"Just read back through. It's a shame that some people feel excluded as that's never been my experience, I've always found the forums to be a welcoming place on the whole, I came in with a positive attitude and put myself out there to get to know people. There are some forum regulars who try to keep it a lighthearted and fun place, I don't see anything wrong with that. If their threads aren't your cup of tea then you don't need to read them. I suspect it's more personality clashes though, there does seem to be grudges held for reasons that are unknown to me. If you find the forums winding you up, then taking a break from them for a while might help. I've sometimes felt bored or irritated by a thread or someone's attitude, I can't change them but I can change my response, by stepping away I don't let it get to me. " Oh now you are just fighting dirty using common sense and logical calm thinking! How very dare you!! Lol!! Very well said and my sentiments exactly !! | |||
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"i love the forums and as a relative newbie am finding it a great way to blether with folk whom i may not come across otherwise. .....so _unkie i am no longer a lurker....but u knew that already " Hello, love your pics | |||
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"Just read back through. It's a shame that some people feel excluded as that's never been my experience, I've always found the forums to be a welcoming place on the whole, I came in with a positive attitude and put myself out there to get to know people. There are some forum regulars who try to keep it a lighthearted and fun place, I don't see anything wrong with that. If their threads aren't your cup of tea then you don't need to read them. I suspect it's more personality clashes though, there does seem to be grudges held for reasons that are unknown to me. If you find the forums winding you up, then taking a break from them for a while might help. I've sometimes felt bored or irritated by a thread or someone's attitude, I can't change them but I can change my response, by stepping away I don't let it get to me. Oh now you are just fighting dirty using common sense and logical calm thinking! How very dare you!! Lol!! Very well said and my sentiments exactly !! " Common sense and I sometimes run into each other | |||
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"Just read back through. It's a shame that some people feel excluded as that's never been my experience, I've always found the forums to be a welcoming place on the whole, I came in with a positive attitude and put myself out there to get to know people. There are some forum regulars who try to keep it a lighthearted and fun place, I don't see anything wrong with that. If their threads aren't your cup of tea then you don't need to read them. I suspect it's more personality clashes though, there does seem to be grudges held for reasons that are unknown to me. If you find the forums winding you up, then taking a break from them for a while might help. I've sometimes felt bored or irritated by a thread or someone's attitude, I can't change them but I can change my response, by stepping away I don't let it get to me. Oh now you are just fighting dirty using common sense and logical calm thinking! How very dare you!! Lol!! Very well said and my sentiments exactly !! Common sense and I sometimes run into each other " are you my twin? | |||
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"i love the forums and as a relative newbie am finding it a great way to blether with folk whom i may not come across otherwise. .....so _unkie i am no longer a lurker....but u knew that already Hello, love your pics " aww thanks....just had a perv at yours too...lol very nice | |||
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"Just read back through. It's a shame that some people feel excluded as that's never been my experience, I've always found the forums to be a welcoming place on the whole, I came in with a positive attitude and put myself out there to get to know people. There are some forum regulars who try to keep it a lighthearted and fun place, I don't see anything wrong with that. If their threads aren't your cup of tea then you don't need to read them. I suspect it's more personality clashes though, there does seem to be grudges held for reasons that are unknown to me. If you find the forums winding you up, then taking a break from them for a while might help. I've sometimes felt bored or irritated by a thread or someone's attitude, I can't change them but I can change my response, by stepping away I don't let it get to me. Oh now you are just fighting dirty using common sense and logical calm thinking! How very dare you!! Lol!! Very well said and my sentiments exactly !! Common sense and I sometimes run into each other are you my twin? " Only if I kneel down | |||
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"i love the forums and as a relative newbie am finding it a great way to blether with folk whom i may not come across otherwise. .....so _unkie i am no longer a lurker....but u knew that already Hello, love your pics aww thanks....just had a perv at yours too...lol very nice " Thanks, hoping to get some new ones done at our party soon | |||
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"Just read back through. It's a shame that some people feel excluded as that's never been my experience, I've always found the forums to be a welcoming place on the whole, I came in with a positive attitude and put myself out there to get to know people. There are some forum regulars who try to keep it a lighthearted and fun place, I don't see anything wrong with that. If their threads aren't your cup of tea then you don't need to read them. I suspect it's more personality clashes though, there does seem to be grudges held for reasons that are unknown to me. If you find the forums winding you up, then taking a break from them for a while might help. I've sometimes felt bored or irritated by a thread or someone's attitude, I can't change them but I can change my response, by stepping away I don't let it get to me. " Halle-fucking-lujah, sister! | |||
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"Just read back through. It's a shame that some people feel excluded as that's never been my experience, I've always found the forums to be a welcoming place on the whole, I came in with a positive attitude and put myself out there to get to know people. There are some forum regulars who try to keep it a lighthearted and fun place, I don't see anything wrong with that. If their threads aren't your cup of tea then you don't need to read them. I suspect it's more personality clashes though, there does seem to be grudges held for reasons that are unknown to me. If you find the forums winding you up, then taking a break from them for a while might help. I've sometimes felt bored or irritated by a thread or someone's attitude, I can't change them but I can change my response, by stepping away I don't let it get to me. Halle-fucking-lujah, sister! " *fist bump* | |||
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"I mostly lurk in the Scottish Forum, I have never really liked the dynamic that exists most of the time. Care to expand on this _iew mate?" No I am only interested in my enjoyment and I know what I like and what I don't. I won't say people have to post in certain manner or with a few friends, or the masses. I couldn't care as they mean little to me and I even less to them and that's cool I have been here long enough and using the forums that I have seen it all, the dramas, the hissy fits, the declarations of leavings and the rest. That all pales into insignificance, I suggest all newbies get involved, chat away and build friendships. There is a lot of fun to be had and some very nice people. If & when it gets tetchy, always maintain your dignity, that says way more than what is said... Bunky's intention was a welcoming one | |||
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"I'm a semi lurker, I enjoy reading some posts, and if on the odd occasion I feel I have something to add, normally a just for a laugh comment. I don't feel excluded by anyone, most of my posts will get a or a from the so called cliques or random lurkers popping their heads up. But that's just life, there are a lot of friends use the forum, people who know each other in and out of fab, some may have even bonked each other, if you're out and about and there is a bunch of friends chatting in a pub, you over hear the conversation and you try to make conversation by throwing in a witty remark, if it's a good bunch and your comment is relevant and funny, they'll invite you into the conversation, and if it's not, they'll look at you funny and whisper under their breath, who's that twat I have loads of friends through school, work and sport, so I don't need accepted by that particular group of friends, but it's always nice to make new friends, and maybe the next group you interact with will welcome your chat and friendship, I hope the moaners aren't lacking in friends, and feel that the people of fab are their last resort in having some kind of companionship, I have made a few close friends on fab, but we chat using a thing called a mobile phone,it was invented a lot of years ago,they used to be the size of a brick, but now you can wear one around your wrist, it's truly amazing! Jeez I've waffled on some pish, if you have taken the time to read this, I hope you at least said for fucks sake with a smile on your face " I tried to say fucks sake with a smile on my face and it sounded like hox ache | |||
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"I'm a semi lurker, I enjoy reading some posts, and if on the odd occasion I feel I have something to add, normally a just for a laugh comment. I don't feel excluded by anyone, most of my posts will get a or a from the so called cliques or random lurkers popping their heads up. But that's just life, there are a lot of friends use the forum, people who know each other in and out of fab, some may have even bonked each other, if you're out and about and there is a bunch of friends chatting in a pub, you over hear the conversation and you try to make conversation by throwing in a witty remark, if it's a good bunch and your comment is relevant and funny, they'll invite you into the conversation, and if it's not, they'll look at you funny and whisper under their breath, who's that twat I have loads of friends through school, work and sport, so I don't need accepted by that particular group of friends, but it's always nice to make new friends, and maybe the next group you interact with will welcome your chat and friendship, I hope the moaners aren't lacking in friends, and feel that the people of fab are their last resort in having some kind of companionship, I have made a few close friends on fab, but we chat using a thing called a mobile phone,it was invented a lot of years ago,they used to be the size of a brick, but now you can wear one around your wrist, it's truly amazing! Jeez I've waffled on some pish, if you have taken the time to read this, I hope you at least said for fucks sake with a smile on your face I tried to say fucks sake with a smile on my face and it sounded like hox ache " | |||
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"I'm a semi lurker, I enjoy reading some posts, and if on the odd occasion I feel I have something to add, normally a just for a laugh comment. I don't feel excluded by anyone, most of my posts will get a or a from the so called cliques or random lurkers popping their heads up. But that's just life, there are a lot of friends use the forum, people who know each other in and out of fab, some may have even bonked each other, if you're out and about and there is a bunch of friends chatting in a pub, you over hear the conversation and you try to make conversation by throwing in a witty remark, if it's a good bunch and your comment is relevant and funny, they'll invite you into the conversation, and if it's not, they'll look at you funny and whisper under their breath, who's that twat I have loads of friends through school, work and sport, so I don't need accepted by that particular group of friends, but it's always nice to make new friends, and maybe the next group you interact with will welcome your chat and friendship, I hope the moaners aren't lacking in friends, and feel that the people of fab are their last resort in having some kind of companionship, I have made a few close friends on fab, but we chat using a thing called a mobile phone,it was invented a lot of years ago,they used to be the size of a brick, but now you can wear one around your wrist, it's truly amazing! Jeez I've waffled on some pish, if you have taken the time to read this, I hope you at least said for fucks sake with a smile on your face for fuck sake who's this twat " | |||
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"So, for all the lurkers out there.... The moral of the story is.... Don't lurk. Post drivel. Post intelligent stuff. Post your favourite cake. Grow a thick skin and take it on the chin. But most of all - dare to join in and share your differences with others. Oh - and the most important lesson, NEVER EVER under any circumstance google 'blue waffle' " That was a public information posting by the leader of the 'Im a dumbass wookie' brigade | |||
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"I'm a semi lurker, I enjoy reading some posts, and if on the odd occasion I feel I have something to add, normally a just for a laugh comment. I don't feel excluded by anyone, most of my posts will get a or a from the so called cliques or random lurkers popping their heads up. But that's just life, there are a lot of friends use the forum, people who know each other in and out of fab, some may have even bonked each other, if you're out and about and there is a bunch of friends chatting in a pub, you over hear the conversation and you try to make conversation by throwing in a witty remark, if it's a good bunch and your comment is relevant and funny, they'll invite you into the conversation, and if it's not, they'll look at you funny and whisper under their breath, who's that twat I have loads of friends through school, work and sport, so I don't need accepted by that particular group of friends, but it's always nice to make new friends, and maybe the next group you interact with will welcome your chat and friendship, I hope the moaners aren't lacking in friends, and feel that the people of fab are their last resort in having some kind of companionship, I have made a few close friends on fab, but we chat using a thing called a mobile phone,it was invented a lot of years ago,they used to be the size of a brick, but now you can wear one around your wrist, it's truly amazing! Jeez I've waffled on some pish, if you have taken the time to read this, I hope you at least said for fucks sake with a smile on your face " God that was a "this is your life" moment there eh lol | |||
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"I'm a semi lurker, I enjoy reading some posts, and if on the odd occasion I feel I have something to add, normally a just for a laugh comment. I don't feel excluded by anyone, most of my posts will get a or a from the so called cliques or random lurkers popping their heads up. But that's just life, there are a lot of friends use the forum, people who know each other in and out of fab, some may have even bonked each other, if you're out and about and there is a bunch of friends chatting in a pub, you over hear the conversation and you try to make conversation by throwing in a witty remark, if it's a good bunch and your comment is relevant and funny, they'll invite you into the conversation, and if it's not, they'll look at you funny and whisper under their breath, who's that twat I have loads of friends through school, work and sport, so I don't need accepted by that particular group of friends, but it's always nice to make new friends, and maybe the next group you interact with will welcome your chat and friendship, I hope the moaners aren't lacking in friends, and feel that the people of fab are their last resort in having some kind of companionship, I have made a few close friends on fab, but we chat using a thing called a mobile phone,it was invented a lot of years ago,they used to be the size of a brick, but now you can wear one around your wrist, it's truly amazing! Jeez I've waffled on some pish, if you have taken the time to read this, I hope you at least said for fucks sake with a smile on your face God that was a "this is your life" moment there eh lol " I had 45 minutes to kill | |||
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"What the actual F..K what happened when i was away ...omg next time i have an idea for a thread someone please just flash their boobies at me and distract me from posting ..lurkers and newbies will really want to post now ....NOT !!!! Some people could start a fight in an empty room And some people sit on the fence eating cake " You realise you posted twice bringing up cake ... While saying you avoid the forums because all they chat about is cake? Im a semi lurker ... I post when something interests me (or sometimes irritates me) Either way if i have no opinion i just do a nosy and slope off | |||
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