FabSwingers.com forum: Self confidence

By *ndykay OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ok, WITHOUT naming names.....

Is there someone who has helped build your confidence sexually?

Encouraged you to try new things?

Helped you on your journey of exploration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my right hand and my imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a woman helped me during my darkest hour not only to rebuild my confidence but explore a new side I.e my asshole

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Nope! I built mine up myself over the last 18 months, then had a social meet a few weeks ago and it all crashed down again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd have to credit two women.

The first was a co-worker I had an affair with about 13 years ago. Had led a pretty sheltered vanilla life up till then, but she helped me realise that my sexual fantasies weren't abnormal. We split years ago but she was the catalyst to my ending up on fab.

The other was one half of a couple I met here early on. Was a good friend to me and helped me get over first girl above. We never played but was one of the most sexually confident women I've ever met. I understand the female species a lot better for being friends with her. Playing with them could've ruined the friendship.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yes I dont even mind dropping a name......me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Well, not yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don't get to meet him as often as I'd like but when we do meet he gives me the confidence to be me.

I lose my inhibitions about my size and he encourages me and gives me the confidence to wear sexy lingerie...... something that some others in the past have rediculed or made me feel stupid and very self concious about.

Im very much a confident bubbly person in everyday life but he has nurtured and given me the confidence I lacked in intimate situations.

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By *ndykay OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Nope! I built mine up myself over the last 18 months, then had a social meet a few weeks ago and it all crashed down again!! "

Is that a hint?

Do you need a furry hug again?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If it wasn't for meeting C and joining here I wouldn't be as confident, comfortable with myself, healthy and happy as I am now. I owe him everything.

Right, mushiness over - regular service resumed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had knockbacks in my life always had confidence in myself with people . Played

a lot of sport gave me confidence like a laugh making people laugh but i am.lazy sometimes and just cant be bothered putting myself out there people see me as being quietbon here i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been through a really tough few months and although a bubbly, friendly and caring person always I was definitely on a bit of a downer but I have slowly built myself back up and the few people I keep in touch with regularly from here have definitely helped. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need one of these saviours soon, I'm losing the plot a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few but on the search again for a certain thing that seems to be hard to find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes a few but on the search again for a certain thing that seems to be hard to find x"

What is this hard to find thing you search for?

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By *ndykay OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Yes a few but on the search again for a certain thing that seems to be hard to find x"

A man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes a few but on the search again for a certain thing that seems to be hard to find x

A man?

Na plenty of them about x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Nope! I built mine up myself over the last 18 months, then had a social meet a few weeks ago and it all crashed down again!!

Is that a hint?

Do you need a furry hug again?

Aye, it's only been 2 years ya fud x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, years back at the very start of my Fab journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not yet... still waiting on him arriving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, also someone who took it away. Now I think it comes from within and with experience, learning from your mistakes, turning them into positives and not being so hard on myself.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes. Several people have helped me over the years I've been on here.

One in particular helped me to explore my sub side and another my bi side.

A few have remained good friends and have picked me up when I've needed it.

Always more to explore and no doubt I will with the new people I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

After last night confidence is at an all time high

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire, Glasgow

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

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you mean you've been on a porno?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? x

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Nope any confidence I've built up on my own & a drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? x"

I should be so lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? x"
in

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??"

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

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your showing your age now sis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, also someone who took it away. Now I think it comes from within and with experience, learning from your mistakes, turning them into positives and not being so hard on myself. "
this

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

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By *ndykay OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Its not surprising that the one who gave it also takes it away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc

Is it bad VHS seems old to me

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc

Is it bad VHS seems old to me

Bloody whippersnappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc

Is it bad VHS seems old to me

Bloody whippersnappers

Terrible aren't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc

Is it bad VHS seems old to me

Bloody whippersnappers

Terrible aren't they

"
although the young do need educating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X-Hamster.

you mean you've been on a porno?

on?? or in? xin

had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??

Yer fine it was a betamax tape

your showing your age now sis

I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger

Is it bad I remember all 3??

I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc

Is it bad VHS seems old to me

Bloody whippersnappers

Terrible aren't they

although the young do need educating

Not always

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Nope. I became a dirty bugger all on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I became a dirty bugger all on my own "

Same. Still trying to find that regular fab fb though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Mr A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lady I hooked up with from London who was holidaying by herself in the highlands having just being dumped. She made me realise I'm not bad lover after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip! My OH

Encourages me to be the real me

Xxx

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Think we all have had people who have taught us or allowed us to explore who we really are

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Nope. I became a dirty bugger all on my own "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive enjoyed the experiences differently...

Has it boosted confidence within sexuality ?

I dont think so ..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Ok, WITHOUT naming names.....

Is there someone who has helped build your confidence sexually?

Encouraged you to try new things?

Helped you on your journey of exploration?

"
Yes one in particular who did boost my failing confidence but I dont see him anymore but grateful to him for giving a little more confidence than I had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think we all have had people who have taught us or allowed us to explore who we really are"

This

I think it can be a constantly evolving thing

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