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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im bi, and would probabaly say sucking cock is my preference when it comes to oral with a male or female.

However, i dont find men attractive not even remotely.

Anyone in the same position as me or am i just a bit weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you suck cock but don't fancy them??

That's like eating a hamburger but being a vegetarian

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you suck cock but don't fancy them??

That's like eating a hamburger but being a vegetarian "

I think i get off on how naughty it is and the secrecy of it all.

But no, i dont find men attractive.... That doesnt mean I'll go with just anyone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im bi, and would probabaly say sucking cock is my preference when it comes to oral with a male or female.

However, i dont find men attractive not even remotely.

Anyone in the same position as me or am i just a bit weird?"
confused me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you suck cock but don't fancy them??

That's like eating a hamburger but being a vegetarian

I think i get off on how naughty it is and the secrecy of it all.

But no, i dont find men attractive.... That doesnt mean I'll go with just anyone though."
why not...if you don't find men attractive...it's just their knobs your after?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you suck cock but don't fancy them??

That's like eating a hamburger but being a vegetarian

I think i get off on how naughty it is and the secrecy of it all.

But no, i dont find men attractive.... That doesnt mean I'll go with just anyone though.why not...if you don't find men attractive...it's just their knobs your after?"

Well, yes. Its the act of giving a bj i enjoy rather than being with another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the meet you have on says anyone and anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But the meet you have on says anyone and anything. "

Yes it does, your point being?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Start your own glory hole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start your own glory hole "

I'm dont need the anonimity og a glory hole.

Just wondering if my own situation is strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the meet you have on says anyone and anything.

Yes it does, your point being?"
just meaning above you said you wouldn't meet just "anyone" not having a go, just confused, sounds like you might be too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start your own glory hole "
lol Steph

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But the meet you have on says anyone and anything.

Yes it does, your point being? just meaning above you said you wouldn't meet just "anyone" not having a go, just confused, sounds like you might be too "

Well there's preferences involved which might not be specific to how attractive someone might be percieved to be.

When i said anyone i meant m,f,cpl or tv welcome as oppossed to I'll literally meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the meet you have on says anyone and anything.

Yes it does, your point being? just meaning above you said you wouldn't meet just "anyone" not having a go, just confused, sounds like you might be too

Well there's preferences involved which might not be specific to how attractive someone might be percieved to be.

When i said anyone i meant m,f,cpl or tv welcome as oppossed to I'll literally meet anyone. "
OK. Sorry didn't mean to offend if I did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But the meet you have on says anyone and anything.

Yes it does, your point being? just meaning above you said you wouldn't meet just "anyone" not having a go, just confused, sounds like you might be too

Well there's preferences involved which might not be specific to how attractive someone might be percieved to be.

When i said anyone i meant m,f,cpl or tv welcome as oppossed to I'll literally meet anyone. OK. Sorry didn't mean to offend if I did "

Dont be silly, its the internet how could i possibly be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No my point is...if you said you don't find any guys attractive...then surely any guys knob will do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No my point is...if you said you don't find any guys attractive...then surely any guys knob will do?

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Not quite, im sure you would agree some cocks look great, some look disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...I think they all look disgusting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No...I think they all look disgusting lol "

Fair point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not strange at all. I don't get particularly attracted to men, but I love having sex with them. I'm very particular about the kind of cock I'll accept though! Basically as long as a guys not an ugly bastard and has a decent cock, I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well to be honest i do understand what you mean as im the same as you! I love oral as well but dont feel attracted to my own sex! So your not alone

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think there's a spectrum - I know a guy who says he's straight but wants to try sucking cock, that appeals to him but full sex with another man doesn't.

From the female point of view, I'm bi and I'm definitely attracted to women and always have been. But when it comes to relationships I'm not sure I'd want it to be with a woman, if that makes sense.

Although perhaps it's just about meeting the right person, regardless of gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...I think they all look disgusting lol "

Hahaha pmsl

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I think there's a spectrum - I know a guy who says he's straight but wants to try sucking cock, that appeals to him but full sex with another man doesn't.

From the female point of view, I'm bi and I'm definitely attracted to women and always have been. But when it comes to relationships I'm not sure I'd want it to be with a woman, if that makes sense.

Although perhaps it's just about meeting the right person, regardless of gender. "
I think there is a spectrum only because some want to see a spectrum. Straight bi homosexual are only words that can help identify what you prefer. We place the negative connotations onto these words. For me its very simple if you are male and only like having sexual liasons with females your straight if its only with males its homosexual if with both its bi. All of these are irrespective of whether you fancy the person or not.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't see why we need labels anyway tbh, I think it's mainly for other people. Just be what you want to be

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I don't see why we need labels anyway tbh, I think it's mainly for other people. Just be what you want to be "
you need labels to deal with preferance if you dont want labels dont have preferance

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I don't see why we need labels anyway tbh, I think it's mainly for other people. Just be what you want to be

you need labels to deal with preferance if you dont want labels dont have preferance "

I mean in general, not on fab

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I'm maybe not the right person to respond to this but here goes my two cents worth.

I've got a list of "Regulars" that are Straight (be it Fab Straight or whatever), that like hot chat & send pics on KIK; others that I meet on a regular basis that love to deepthroat me or want anal fun (my wanger in their banger); others who like kissing, some who don't. There's a few who are terrified to actually meet for whatever their reasons are that have mailed, text & followed me around for years wanting the fantasy of me as their Bromance Buddy (incidentally I'm not looking for fantasists - I'm only here for Meets). Now, however they want to label themselves is fine by me. I'm completely at ease with my sexuality, my preferences, & who I play with (M, F or MF Couple), and I couldn't really care less how folk define their sexuality. We're all here for fun, and those lucky enough to find it choose their types from a varied & sometimes complex system of elimination. Height, colouring, ethnicity, sexual preferences, likes & dislikes. It doesn't matter one jot what others who don't share those preferences might think as ultimately they're not what I'm looking for. So if you only want to play orally, find folk who enjoy oral; if you prefer to receive anal, find an Active person who likes giving anal; if you like something pursue someone who likes the same thing & enjoy what Fab has to offer. If folk think that's weird then they're spending too much time focusing on other folks sex lives instead of their own.

Now, who wants to blow me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not unusual at all, it's a well known phenomena - check out MSM on Wikipedia.

Just means that you are comfortable enough in your own skin and know what you enjoy and make the list of that!

Let the haters hate and everyone else enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Now, who wants to blow me?

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Oh, I suppose so, go on then

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