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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I am still here

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Think a lot are put off

Idiots turning nasty after refusal or not replying quick enough

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"No I am still here "

I am with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'm with them

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

You ladies know how to handle yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think socials is were people will truly find out if the want to message you on fab

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Can handle me anytime

Sorry

Couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good to see you haven't been put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much leaving the site but nit meeting single men off here at all. If I meet them in clubs and we get on then they could message me but if I didn't go to clubs I'd have single men blocked.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Ruined for the rest of us

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'd say it's making things harder sometimes - however, it does make the nice ones stand out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead "

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it's making things harder sometimes - however, it does make the nice ones stand out more "

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com"

Nightmare B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com"

get over it dahhlinnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Iv said before

I find I'm really struggling to trust guys enough to meet them right now

But hey ho...if I do great...if I don't...Iv got a great hubby at home

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com get over it dahhlinnn "

over it? Was never gonna be on it anyway I am thanks for the concern

And all because the lady loves milk tray ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com"

Some people just find it very difficult to say 'thanks but no thanks' in person or by message after meeting

It's taking the easy way out and avoiding the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

I am sure the ladies on the forum know very well how to handle the undesired, and the block button is only a finger away

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

No dont think soo they still talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com

Some people just find it very difficult to say 'thanks but no thanks' in person or by message after meeting

It's taking the easy way out and avoiding the issue "

Very true miss four finger

But surely honesty is the best policy.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

You've been here for just a week, admit that you're new to this.

Yet you sound as if you've all the answers.

It's simple, be yourself, stand out from the crowd, take the initiative, and happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com

Some people just find it very difficult to say 'thanks but no thanks' in person or by message after meeting

It's taking the easy way out and avoiding the issue

Very true miss four finger

But surely honesty is the best policy."

I thought the said two people were honest in my case if I'm not gunna meet them I usually just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes guys can't take a no thanks tho..

They say they can...but alot can't...just the same as some chicks

Wee dent to the ego I suppose

If I get abuse over a no thanks...just proves I made the right decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when a message comes through saying "get yer gums roon ma plums" and I tell them aslong as they do mine first..that kinda stops the convo dead

Yes so does blocking someone after a social meet for no reason

Confused. Com

Some people just find it very difficult to say 'thanks but no thanks' in person or by message after meeting

It's taking the easy way out and avoiding the issue

Very true miss four finger

But surely honesty is the best policy. I thought the said two people were honest in my case if I'm not gunna meet them I usually just block "

That's a woman's perogative. All good in the hood from a man's world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes guys can't take a no thanks tho..

They say they can...but alot can't...just the same as some chicks

Wee dent to the ego I suppose

If I get abuse over a no thanks...just proves I made the right decision "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

us women aint stupid when it comes to men on fab .

Most are lovely with the odd few who aint .

The best a woman can do is not get involved with the drama some seem to create

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I tend to find meeting at clubs and socials help people get to know the real Me. I've sent messages to people on here that have been read and deleted and then gone on to meet them at places like CJs and we've become firm friends.

Men claim it's very difficult on here. But I'd say it's much more difficult to be a woman. I don't see a deleted message as a bad thing. They've read the message and I'm not their type. People ask "why not a wee reply?" Probably because they get messages ad nauseum.

My message was just one. Of God knows how many. How many "no thanks" should they write? Especially since, sometimes, an open "rejection" opens them up to more abuse?

So I honestly don't mind messages being ignored or deleted because I think people get such a hard time on here sometimes!

And I'm getting on great with people who answer my messages, or message me, or who I meet on the forum or in real life!

I'm having a great time here and I don't think the creeps are ruining it that much at all.

It's easy to blame them.

But get out there and just prove you're not one of them! It's really easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it should make things harder for every other guy, I mean I've spoken to some cheeky, ignorant, down right nasty women on here but wouldn't think the same of any other woman until I speak to them.

Just kinda childish to do so, why not just get a message from an arsehole, decide he is an arsehole, block him and give every other guy a chance?

Kinda childish to do anything other than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find meeting at clubs and socials help people get to know the real Me. I've sent messages to people on here that have been read and deleted and then gone on to meet them at places like CJs and we've become firm friends.

Men claim it's very difficult on here. But I'd say it's much more difficult to be a woman. I don't see a deleted message as a bad thing. They've read the message and I'm not their type. People ask "why not a wee reply?" Probably because they get messages ad nauseum.

My message was just one. Of God knows how many. How many "no thanks" should they write? Especially since, sometimes, an open "rejection" opens them up to more abuse?

So I honestly don't mind messages being ignored or deleted because I think people get such a hard time on here sometimes!

And I'm getting on great with people who answer my messages, or message me, or who I meet on the forum or in real life!

I'm having a great time here and I don't think the creeps are ruining it that much at all.

It's easy to blame them.

But get out there and just prove you're not one of them! It's really easy"

that really says more about womens attitude on here rather than what men say

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

ahhh heck, most are mingers anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry just felt like stirring the shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Iv said before

I find I'm really struggling to trust guys enough to meet them right now

But hey ho...if I do great...if I don't...Iv got a great hubby at home "

You are a lucky woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my time and find the good ones...there are plenty on here.

I get to be picky which is amazing for my fragile ego.

So, thanks guys. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I am still here "
( quote)

Like it mrs Doyle lol a lot

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

Been here a week and is calling other users creeps, socially inept and stalkers.

You are either a troll or this is a pathetic look at me thread!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think it's not so bad for couples, although it's funny when they disappear once they realise they're talking to C and not me!

I/We do meet single guys and it doesn't put us off, I just put more chat in beforehand to ensure they're not the wham bam type and worth the effort.

I'd say 95% of the single guys I've met have been lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right who's putting the women off il paddle their ass If I get a message saying here hen wanna whatever I just ask you got nice boobs and blonde ?when they say no I'm like well there's your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP but that insinuates that women are a bit dim and can't deal with bad boys appropriately. I'm sure that's not what you meant...?

We DO know a nice guy when we come across one. No pun intended.

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By *ir MagicMan
over a year ago

Angus

I like to think I'm not a creep. But sometimes you misjudged, and a post comes out entirely wrong. Sometimes you get the chance to apologise, sometimes you get blocked. But as someone who has made the odd fuck up, every user here has the right to enjoy themself, and has to look after themself. So whenever you do get uncomfortable, yep, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope still here but hiding.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I tend to find meeting at clubs and socials help people get to know the real Me. I've sent messages to people on here that have been read and deleted and then gone on to meet them at places like CJs and we've become firm friends.

Men claim it's very difficult on here. But I'd say it's much more difficult to be a woman. I don't see a deleted message as a bad thing. They've read the message and I'm not their type. People ask "why not a wee reply?" Probably because they get messages ad nauseum.

My message was just one. Of God knows how many. How many "no thanks" should they write? Especially since, sometimes, an open "rejection" opens them up to more abuse?

So I honestly don't mind messages being ignored or deleted because I think people get such a hard time on here sometimes!

And I'm getting on great with people who answer my messages, or message me, or who I meet on the forum or in real life!

I'm having a great time here and I don't think the creeps are ruining it that much at all.

It's easy to blame them.

But get out there and just prove you're not one of them! It's really easy"

Well said. I've suggested to guys to go to socials or a club and some aren't interested, They expect women to fall at their feet without putting in the effort.

Going to socials and clubs also helps get you verified. I verify anyone that comes to my pub quiz. It's been a great ice breaker.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Depending on the mood I'm in ill have a play about with the weirdos. Even so much to, and yes I'm sorry I shouldn't encourage them, arrange to meet 2 at the same time essentially copying and pasting their messages to each other.

Mainly though I just block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

Nice try would say it was original but its been done alot on the forums.

If your going to act dumb about it then i ll spell it out to everyone.

Heres a single guy basically trying subtly to say hes better than all other "creepy" single guys please choice me post lol

My advice if its a creepy headed message or message block and move on dont even bother replying simple.

The chafe as he called it will soon get bored of no contact and leave like they all do. Leaving the wheat to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't put me off- all sites are the same, it just makes me more selective. Gone are the days I'd give someone a chance to chat; if they can't make me interested with the first message or in a social, I won't waste my time.

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By *rs Pony n Mr PeachyCouple
over a year ago

Widnes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had great chats and meets with single guys....the banter has been spot on and found more often than not respectful and non pushy.....better than any conversations I've had from any couple of single female x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"So I came to this site recently hoping to meet some intelligent sexy girls, go out, have some fun, a drink something to eat, a giggle and possibly some sexy action every now and again.

Seems there's a lot of creepy guys, socially inept, verging on stalkers, annoying most if not all of the women on here. Can't be too pleasant for them seeing grubby old cock picks with a suck on this strapline every 10 mins. (that really impresses the girls)

What I'm wondering is that is this putting the girls off reading anything from single guys? Have they been worn down to thinking all of the guys on here are sad lonely fuckers wanking over there screens? Who'd want to meet them.

Are the women leaving the site because of the creeps?

A block policy might help to out the chafe from the wheat.

"

welcome, I look forward to reading your experience a year in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the men putting me off it's the creepy women obsessed with your every move on the site and with who you've shagged..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are a problem."

Regardless of gender there's good and bad folks everywhere eh.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


""People are a problem."

Regardless of gender there's good and bad folks everywhere eh."

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"It's not the men putting me off it's the creepy women obsessed with your every move on the site and with who you've shagged.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha we were both laughing at this one! thats great one we may have to try this out. The creeps and fakes are ruining our enjoyment of this a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creeps are tasty with maple syrup..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems a lot of people are thinking that I said all the men on here are creeps. Not true. Just a noisy minority. Most people are okay.

Analogy is with my landline phone. A few annoying companies pestering with PPI, accident claims, double glazing etc. But they call all the time. At the stage where I've just unplugged the phone. Can't be bothered with the hassle of a few annoying people that wind me up. First one didn't register, fifth one was an inconvenience, hundredth one was really annoying.

Phone is at a recycling centre somewhere near you now.

Women must get to the same stage g=here.

As I said, A few giving the majority a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always the few, of either sex or in any given situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just guys that don't get a reply, we have been on a fab over a year. We are verified, photo verified, always renew and genuinely decent people, naughty, but decent people dammit!and we don't ever get a reply from women. Do from some Couples and get lots of mail from guys who like has been said are mostly good guys that just gets spoiled by the bad ones.x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Bring on the white knights....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were not all socially inept, creepy old guys, with grubby cock pics, stalking the ladies on here, some of us are here having a laugh and having the banter with the lovely ladies of the forum,s and socials.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Bring on the white knights...."
let me guess with cake and platitudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of course there are no couples or single women that are creeps.

Single guys are an easy target, granted there are some right planks that have no sense of how to act, but one single guy moaning about all the other no good single guys has been done before and it's gotten a bit boring.

Just enjoy what's happening to you on here, or if nothing is happening for you it's not because of all the dickheads on here.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"Seems a lot of people are thinking that I said all the men on here are creeps. Not true. Just a noisy minority. Most people are okay.

Analogy is with my landline phone. A few annoying companies pestering with PPI, accident claims, double glazing etc. But they call all the time. At the stage where I've just unplugged the phone. Can't be bothered with the hassle of a few annoying people that wind me up. First one didn't register, fifth one was an inconvenience, hundredth one was really annoying.

Phone is at a recycling centre somewhere near you now.

Women must get to the same stage g=here.

As I said, A few giving the majority a bad name."

How do you know how many of those that message a woman or couple are 'creeps'? Yes single women are going to get considerably more messages, That is simply because they are a minority on the site.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"Because of course there are no couples or single women that are creeps.

Single guys are an easy target, granted there are some right planks that have no sense of how to act, but one single guy moaning about all the other no good single guys has been done before and it's gotten a bit boring.

Just enjoy what's happening to you on here, or if nothing is happening for you it's not because of all the dickheads on here."

Very well put!

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Its rather a creepy statement to start with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes guys can't take a no thanks tho..

They say they can...but alot can't...just the same as some chicks

Wee dent to the ego I suppose

If I get abuse over a no thanks...just proves I made the right decision "

I'm still waiting on you

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