FabSwingers.com forum: guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK guys seriously. Take a telling already

We do not like :

Hey wanna fuck

hey nice tits can I spunk on them

We detest u same guys we've just ignored thend calling us names or saying mean things.

Take a telling already. U moan u can't get meets? Wonder why? It's a bloody mystery.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I know. What happened to 'hi, I'm X, I like your profile and pics. Here's a bit about me'?

Just because its a swingers site doesn't mean manners are left at the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree ladies no need for disgusting msg's.. although your example of a msg is just as likely to get ignored lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Totally agree ladies no need for disgusting msg's.. although your example of a msg is just as likely to get ignored lol

If someone sends me a decent message I will always reply, even if it's to say no thanks. It's probably harder for single females though, they get tons of mail

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Do people still say "spunk"?

Awesome. I love that word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree ladies no need for disgusting msg's.. although your example of a msg is just as likely to get ignored lol

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I wouldn't have said that,99% of the time I get a reply of some description which is better than being ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to the guys with wives/partners/fwbs etc isn't it maybe the case that you generally get a reply due to the fact that there is a female on the scene?

I know polite respectful guys, incl myself who rarely if ever get a reply, not that I tend to message much anyway

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I usually get a reply....even if there's no chance of them meeting me.

But usually it's because I'm a cheeky bugger

But come on ladies....seriously.....who wants to pamper me????

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

I'm always polite and respectful and practically never get any replies x doesn't stop me trying though

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont msg anyone im too shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if we do reply with a polite no thanks then have some decorum and don't get abusive or ask why!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know. What happened to 'hi, I'm X, I like your profile and pics. Here's a bit about me'?

Just because its a swingers site doesn't mean manners are left at the door

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And if we do reply with a polite no thanks then have some decorum and don't get abusive or ask why!

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

In all seriousness you expect guys to be curteous with terms like "take a telling" cmoneven reading that is enough to make the blood boil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all seriousness you expect guys to be curteous with terms like "take a telling" cmoneven reading that is enough to make the blood boil"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness, some female members can be just as rude.

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Lol its not wrong but it's annoying n quite frankly rude just cos it'd a swingers site doesn't mean men need to be rude.

I ignore or delete them and I have all my filters on. It's just annoying to log on and find twenty messages n have to see ten dick pics even tho its clear on my profile I don't like them.

It'd annoying to find another five with obscene messages. I'm not a prude but what's wrong with hI and a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In all seriousness you expect guys to be curteous with terms like "take a telling" cmoneven reading that is enough to make the blood boil"

Well when it's made clear on my page. Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Jeez how rude .....But ..AYE x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Lol its not wrong but it's annoying n quite frankly rude just cos it'd a swingers site doesn't mean men need to be rude.

I ignore or delete them and I have all my filters on. It's just annoying to log on and find twenty messages n have to see ten dick pics even tho its clear on my profile I don't like them.

It'd annoying to find another five with obscene messages. I'm not a prude but what's wrong with hI and a face pic? "

A nice introduction would probably be more enticing to inherit a reply.However this doesnt always work either.

Face pic in the first intial message ..definately not ..i would need to earn someones trust before that.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy some FLLLAAAANNN

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy some FLLLAAAANNN

E it's quiche!!!

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Jeez how rude .....But ..AYE x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy some FLLLAAAANNN

E it's quiche!!!

Come on guys, just admit I'm right

E xx

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy some FLLLAAAANNN

E it's quiche!!!

Come on guys, just admit I'm right

E xx"

Ok now this is serious... I can see a forum coming on!!!

L xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry ...

But seriously ...How many Male bashing threads do we need too read..

Im sure Fabswingers has in place the appropriate tools to Block ....it really is that simple.

I do agree with the OP ..and its certainly not in my approach.Its nice to be respecful too others..

But ..I have a question..

Why..is it wrong for some to send a message asking for a fuck on a swinging site ?

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy some FLLLAAAANNN

E it's quiche!!!

Come on guys, just admit I'm right

E xx

Ok now this is serious... I can see a forum coming on!!!

L xxx"

E xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol maybe not first message if u need discretion but still no reason for rudeness

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Lol maybe not first message if u need discretion but still no reason for rudeness "

Nah jokes aside...I do agree with you OP.

Respect goes a long way but always makes the nice respectful guys stand out by a mile. Some Couples can be just as rude when it comes to first messages too but do get where your coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK guys seriously. Take a telling already

We do not like :

Hey wanna fuck

hey nice tits can I spunk on them

We detest u same guys we've just ignored thend calling us names or saying mean things.

Take a telling already. U moan u can't get meets? Wonder why? It's a bloody mystery. "
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Stop moaning and get yir chaps oot lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OK guys seriously. Take a telling already

We do not like :

Hey wanna fuck

hey nice tits can I spunk on them

We detest u same guys we've just ignored thend calling us names or saying mean things.

Take a telling already. U moan u can't get meets? Wonder why? It's a bloody mystery. .

Stop moaning and get yir chaps oot lol x"

Chaps? That's a new one.

Be quiet you or I will put that dildo up ur butt

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

yep the guys keep ignoring or dont bother to read people profiles! They can see a photo no problem though. Yes we do use the "BLOCK" button But is it really that hard to Respect someones wishes on their profile? We think not.

yes guys get a hard time on here but you bring that on your selves... Its a swinging site not a leave all your morals at the door site wake up guys........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is you can't pre-empt a disrespectful or abusive message, the block button only comes in handy once the horse has bolted so to speak.

I can see how some women become hardened and rude on here, if you're polite and reply you get crap but then if you don't you're accused of being rude and stuck up.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"yep the guys keep ignoring or dont bother to read people profiles! They can see a photo no problem though. Yes we do use the "BLOCK" button But is it really that hard to Respect someones wishes on their profile? We think not.

yes guys get a hard time on here but you bring that on your selves... Its a swinging site not a leave all your morals at the door site wake up guys........

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why is it guys from cpls are viewed and view themselves as diffrent? Hell alot of the apparent single guys are from cpl pros also this stamp down the single guys thing gets really tiresome. People are rude people are sleazy folk are ignorant its not gender specific.maybe treat those who act like fuds as idiots would be better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes guys get a hard time on here but you bring that on your selves... Its a swinging site not a leave all your morals at the door site wake up guys........

why is it guys from cpls are viewed and view themselves as diffrent? Hell alot of the apparent single guys are from cpl pros also this stamp down the single guys thing gets really tiresome. People are rude people are sleazy folk are ignorant its not gender specific.maybe treat those who act like fuds as idiots would be better."

Fair point. I don't consider all single guys the same. I speak to alot and they're all perfect gentleman until their in my house. Then it's all out the window lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK guys seriously. Take a telling already

We do not like :

Hey wanna fuck

hey nice tits can I spunk on them

We detest u same guys we've just ignored thend calling us names or saying mean things.

Take a telling already. U moan u can't get meets? Wonder why? It's a bloody mystery. "

I am always polite, read profiles and tailor messages to suit to try and show that I have put a bit of effort in to it but I would say 99% of my messages are ignired or deleted. In fact I sent a message to someone 30 mins ago and it was deleted almost instantly.

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