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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feeling a bit stuck in a rut here and wondering if it is worth hanging around Fab

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

Been thinking the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you both can decide that. Sorry to be blunt, but "Oh woe is me" threads aren't very becoming.

Take the site for what it is, a bit of fun, don't take it so seriously. Get out to socials, clubs etc. Try that side of the scene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only you both can decide that. Sorry to be blunt, but "Oh woe is me" threads aren't very becoming.

Take the site for what it is, a bit of fun, don't take it so seriously. Get out to socials, clubs etc. Try that side of the scene?"

As above, it all depends on what you want from the site, i.e, just sex, or chat, or friendship. I use the site for fun, I love the banter in the forums, and chat in chat rooms. I went to my first social last weekend, and met some great people, always nice to put faces to names. if its only sex your after, maybe your on the wrong site. just put yourselfs around a bit, get in the forums, and chat rooms, and chat to people. see how that goes for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on a diet so will trade my popcorn for an apple while I watch the single man moan fest and the ensuing lack of sympathy these posts normally etc

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ah the failure of instashag

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Feeling a bit stuck in a rut here and wondering if it is worth hanging around Fab"

Only you can answer that question OP as you know what you are looking on here.

You have been here for a over a year so you must know how the site works and doesn't work.

Bit of effort required for both men abd women on here. It's not instashag!

There are plenty socials organised that you can get to and get verified.

Take some of the cock pics off your profile and be creative.

Also be positive in your profile text. Negative comments on people you have met is not attractive.

And perso, the day am not enjoying fab and find nothing positive to say about it... Am gone.

Moaning about the site, the women, the fakes etc... is not helping in my opinion OP.

But good luck to you OP if you decide to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think fab can have its dowm moments for most at some time or another for watever reason and clubs or socials arnt always the answer as some cant or it isnt there thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel you've done everything you can to maximise your experience on here then yeah it's probably time to go. If you think you could do more to make yourself more appealing then go do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only tough n what u make it as

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Nah. See ya

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sometimes the online world just doesn't work out for people and they are more suited to meeting face to face...... it's not a reflection on them, we are just all different.

good luck whatever you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes the online world just doesn't work out for people and they are more suited to meeting face to face...... it's not a reflection on them, we are just all different.

good luck whatever you choose. "

I like this take on it View

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"sometimes the online world just doesn't work out for people and they are more suited to meeting face to face...... it's not a reflection on them, we are just all different.

good luck whatever you choose. "

Our forum Guru one again nails it in a few words!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Another 2 members for 'instashag.com'!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling a bit stuck in a rut here and wondering if it is worth hanging around Fab"

As others have said play around with your profile a bit, loads of cock shots and a bareback anal shot would put me off personally before I even got to the profile text.

Also I think a lot of single guys find it easier to meet if they are involved in the social side as well. X

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"As others have said play around with your profile a bit, loads of cock shots and a bareback anal shot would put me off personally before I even got to the profile text."

Urgh, yep, that would be an instant no from me! I suppose it's useful to know who the barebackers are though so they can be avoided!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Responses kind of sum up what I was thinking when I posted this topic. I didn't slate the site or anyone on it yet plenty of negative comments. I was really generic as I was considering if i should renew my subscription or just sack it that was all. Ah well seems like I am a woeful, moaning unsuccessful instashagger who is responsible for the spread of every std because I had unprotected sex (with a long term partner mind). The reality is I am none of the above and I am always respectful when I interact with anyone on Fab and I consider myself pretty easy going. The swinging lifestyle should be a liberated and friendly life choice with no negativity and subjective stereotyping perpetrated by those holding themselves in higher esteem for some unknown and possibly unjustifiable reason. Never mind onwards and upwards then eh

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Responses kind of sum up what I was thinking when I posted this topic. I didn't slate the site or anyone on it yet plenty of negative comments. I was really generic as I was considering if i should renew my subscription or just sack it that was all. Ah well seems like I am a woeful, moaning unsuccessful instashagger who is responsible for the spread of every std because I had unprotected sex (with a long term partner mind). The reality is I am none of the above and I am always respectful when I interact with anyone on Fab and I consider myself pretty easy going. The swinging lifestyle should be a liberated and friendly life choice with no negativity and subjective stereotyping perpetrated by those holding themselves in higher esteem for some unknown and possibly unjustifiable reason. Never mind onwards and upwards then eh "

yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you feel you've done everything you can to maximise your experience on here then yeah it's probably time to go. If you think you could do more to make yourself more appealing then go do it."

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Maybe the OP has a point that it's tough to get involved in the Forum. Recently I posted a Thread on my early experiences on here & how it was easy for some to round on new folk. So frankly, the two members have a point & I'm surprised by some of the responses, but hey... everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Anyway OP (& 2nd poster) feel free to elaborate on why you're having difficulties & if I feel I can help I'll try - without jumping to conclusions on any bareback photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the OP has a point that it's tough to get involved in the Forum. Recently I posted a Thread on my early experiences on here & how it was easy for some to round on new folk. So frankly, the two members have a point & I'm surprised by some of the responses, but hey... everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Anyway OP (& 2nd poster) feel free to elaborate on why you're having difficulties & if I feel I can help I'll try - without jumping to conclusions on any bareback photos. "

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Think fab can have its dowm moments for most at some time or another for watever reason and clubs or socials arnt always the answer as some cant or it isnt there thing "

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By *ooglefrogCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *ooglefrogCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Maybe the OP has a point that it's tough to get involved in the Forum. Recently I posted a Thread on my early experiences on here & how it was easy for some to round on new folk. So frankly, the two members have a point & I'm surprised by some of the responses, but hey... everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Anyway OP (& 2nd poster) feel free to elaborate on why you're having difficulties & if I feel I can help I'll try - without jumping to conclusions on any bareback photos. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling a bit stuck in a rut here and wondering if it is worth hanging around Fab"

Your post just took me back to my youth;

"the Ruts"

"the Stranglers" (hanging around)

Big girl in the red dress

She's just trying to impress us

And she's got the barley fever

But she doesn't make a sound

She's just hanging around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the OP has a point that it's tough to get involved in the Forum. Recently I posted a Thread on my early experiences on here & how it was easy for some to round on new folk. So frankly, the two members have a point & I'm surprised by some of the responses, but hey... everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Anyway OP (& 2nd poster) feel free to elaborate on why you're having difficulties & if I feel I can help I'll try - without jumping to conclusions on any bareback photos. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do gay/bi guys talk so much sense, damn sexy too - well said View and Random. Wait, Max was totally on the ball too and she's a bi fem... you all rock

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