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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else had abusive messages then when you try to reply your blocked ? Little shit bags dont give you time to get back to them. I wish we could name and shame on here or post peoples messages that they send to you to warn others of the type of people they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else had abusive messages then when you try to reply your blocked ? Little shit bags dont give you time to get back to them. I wish we could name and shame on here or post peoples messages that they send to you to warn others of the type of people they are. "
keyboard warriors mate

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Anyone else had abusive messages then when you try to reply your blocked ? Little shit bags dont give you time to get back to them. I wish we could name and shame on here or post peoples messages that they send to you to warn others of the type of people they are. "
you cant name and shame .......you cant post anyones msg.....you can warn others

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You can report them. You're not alone. I've just deleted one.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Am i the only person here that doesnt get these messages

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Am i the only person here that doesnt get these messages "

It doesn't happen to me very often... I hope the chap feels better for ranting about my preferences.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

As dlt says bloody keyboard warriors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else had abusive messages then when you try to reply your blocked ? Little shit bags dont give you time to get back to them. I wish we could name and shame on here or post peoples messages that they send to you to warn others of the type of people they are. "
why do you want to name n shame them????

the person may be the nicest person on the planet an just didn't like you - if you did something to provoke them; so naming an shaming its a no no

if you feel they have they had did something wrong - then just report the user profile,

an move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth bothering with but it's a shame as their are some decent genuine people interested in having fun spoils it for people,, tell me who il paddle their arse

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Not worth bothering with but it's a shame as their are some decent genuine people interested in having fun spoils it for people,, tell me who il paddle their arse "

Quickly backs into corner...it wiznae me

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The problem with naming and shaming, apart from it being against the site rules, is that there's nothing to stop me saying publicly that gav32 was abusive and rude to me and everyone should avoid him. It's not true but how do you prove it? It's out there now and the damage is done. Naming and shaming will never be acceptable because it's only one half of a story to which there are usually three sides.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"The problem with naming and shaming, apart from it being against the site rules, is that there's nothing to stop me saying publicly that gav32 was abusive and rude to me and everyone should avoid him. It's not true but how do you prove it? It's out there now and the damage is done. Naming and shaming will never be acceptable because it's only one half of a story to which there are usually three sides. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not worth bothering with but it's a shame as their are some decent genuine people interested in having fun spoils it for people,, tell me who il paddle their arse "
that there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i the only person here that doesnt get these messages "
I'll easy change that if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, had a couple idiots do that. Both completely unprovoked. I reported but still see them around so obviously didn't make any difference. Block in return and think "lucky escape" while moving on is best plan! I just don't see the need for being aggressive and antagonistic for no reason but some folk seem to like trying to stir up drama.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Am i the only person here that doesnt get these messages I'll easy change that if you want "

No im good here m8 lol you keep your abuse for furry ..i know how much he gets off on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i the only person here that doesnt get these messages I'll easy change that if you want

No im good here m8 lol you keep your abuse for furry ..i know how much he gets off on it "
Haha I think he does lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Drama llamas who generally aren't getting laid to boot!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Drama llamas who generally aren't getting laid to boot! "

And who never will ..probably no intention of ever meeting .just here to wind people up ..the sad bassas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its beyond me to why users send abuse - its usually means that that's not the person for you

regardless if you fit there criteria - its there choice

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

I've had abuse it actually amusing to me adults throwing toys out the pram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had any for aaagggeeesss

Tight filters seem to have done the trick

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

As others said... Keyboard warriors who don't have any balls n if/when they bump it to you they can't even make eye contact. People like this are not worth a second thought. Had an experience recently which we'll take as a compliment as we're obviously worth bothering about whereas they aren't

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people have nothing better to do than give people abuse,and make fake profiles then it's them you should feel sorry for.

Forget it ,block n carry on having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just happened to me....didn't like one of my comments on the forums....no probs doll. ...cheers for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep had 1 this morning.....just because I said I wasn't interested he thought he would vent his anger by saying I was fat & ugly....pity the imbecile didn't see my pic to judge....so he was politely told to go look in the mirror because he hadnt done of late & then to go take his face 4 a shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm that fat chick who has a high opinion of herself.

As with difficult customers, just be as nice as you can be, throws them completely.

Then block the fucker.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Temptress gets msgs like that too ..all nicey nicey wanting to meet do all sorts ..she then says a polite no thanks then BOOM didnt want to meet you anyway etc etc etc ..dickheads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pain in the arse I know, I love to give it back. But don't let it get to you to much only thing you can really do is report it.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Yes twice last week

We save the messages when they do this as often we find a few cheeky shits weeks/months later un block us thinking we wont remember then message us as though we have never spoke before

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

aye i've had couple on here do it to me, for no reason other than me being married i was send some smart ass message, we exchanged a couple then i told him what i'd do to him and his misses if he invited me round, i was then quickly blocked lol

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I can never understand people who hand out abusive messages, totally out of order. I've had a couple and then blocked

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They seek a reaction

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Anyone else had abusive messages then when you try to reply your blocked ? Little shit bags dont give you time to get back to them. I wish we could name and shame on here or post peoples messages that they send to you to warn others of the type of people they are. "

Why would you even want to waste your time and energies responding to such people.

As they say "arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon. It doesn't matter how outstanding you are, they are still going to just shit on the board and strut about like they won ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else had abusive messages then when you try to reply your blocked ? Little shit bags dont give you time to get back to them. I wish we could name and shame on here or post peoples messages that they send to you to warn others of the type of people they are.

Why would you even want to waste your time and energies responding to such people.

As they say "arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon. It doesn't matter how outstanding you are, they are still going to just shit on the board and strut about like they won "."

Ah hahahahaha!!! Love it

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

We should be able to report them to admin then if they get reported so many times they should get banned. We can't all be wrong.

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I get strange messages,don't think I get abusive ones,but I just tend to call there bluff and ignore them...I was told why I say I'm curvy, so I said I know I'm fat then just ignored and deleted the message they next sent..more to looking forward and not back,and not in my memory anymore. ..ya I'm that laid back I can't be bothered lol

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By *eddybear1873Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Find it amusing when I get abusive messages lol these eejits don't need named and shamed they doing a grand job of it themselves lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me rarely and usually after I point out they have messaged incorrectly or rudely.

I always consider it a blessing

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