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Is there actually any point being on here if you're a single guy looking for a woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance is the name of the game on here.

100 liaisons ????? How is that not real.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

No its all fake best just to give up really

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

popcorn time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!"

And why wouldn't a woman want to admit to over a 100 'liaisons'?

Is there a problem with this?

Confused of Craggy Island

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Time for tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point of view I take (Male) on Fab, and I had a single guys profile for many years, is that most single guys on here aren't actually swingers....they're just mad shaggers....ask them to participate in straight group fun and they bottle it.

Then you have my personal hate....the "sleekit cunt" the guy who messages a woman asking if she will meet without her partner. Furthermore, the complete lack of respect shown by an alarming percentage of guys on here , there is. Distinct failure to appreciate that single women/couples have lives which don't revolve around dropping whatever we have arranged, dumping our kids with anyone who will watch them in order that we can have a "fuckfest".

In short, the decent guys on here, and we've chatted to a fair few, are being hamstrung by a lot of guys who would be better served getting up the dancing, find themselves a "wee durty" and let people who wish to participate in the swingers lifestyle, in the truest sense of the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn these choosy women to hell!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its all fake best just to give up really "
more ladies for you bunkers

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Yes, in answer to the question. Next.............!!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"No its all fake best just to give up really more ladies for you bunkers "

just doing my bit to get me to 100 liasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its all fake best just to give up really more ladies for you bunkers

just doing my bit to get me to 100 liasons "
haha

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!"

No there's no point in being here if that's your mindset . The site is mearly a tool ..how effective it is for you is solely dependent on you . You can either blame everything else and class it as fake or fiction ,or you can face facts ppl do meet and look at what the successful people are doing to achieve that

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"The point of view I take (Male) on Fab, and I had a single guys profile for many years, is that most single guys on here aren't actually swingers....they're just mad shaggers....ask them to participate in straight group fun and they bottle it.

Then you have my personal hate....the "sleekit cunt" the guy who messages a woman asking if she will meet without her partner. Furthermore, the complete lack of respect shown by an alarming percentage of guys on here , there is. Distinct failure to appreciate that single women/couples have lives which don't revolve around dropping whatever we have arranged, dumping our kids with anyone who will watch them in order that we can have a "fuckfest".

In short, the decent guys on here, and we've chatted to a fair few, are being hamstrung by a lot of guys who would be better served getting up the dancing, find themselves a "wee durty" and let people who wish to participate in the swingers lifestyle, in the truest sense of the term."

Your on fire today hun .

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nah! No point you being on here.

Women on Fab are pure Evillll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!

No there's no point in being here if that's your mindset . The site is mearly a tool ..how effective it is for you is solely dependent on you . You can either blame everything else and class it as fake or fiction ,or you can face facts ppl do meet and look at what the successful people are doing to achieve that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!"

Hi Keith ..

ive been here pretty much from the beginning .ive probably had 10 meets in 9years...and in saying that ive enjoyed some continuity with one amazing woman in particular.

I will be totally honest with you.i look around and notice some Guys who have met some lovely women on here and i feel humble...I have never in my entire time on Fabswingers felt that i could not get a meet.

Do yourself a favour..eberyone knows why your here..Put the Sex to the back of your head and focus on bringing out your personality.Use the Forums too express your views and opinions..Use the chat rooms get along to some social events.The site has a lot more too offer than just Sex...your patience and preparation is paramount in seeking like-minded people for mutual exploration.

Stick with it Auld Yin...

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this just not like life in the everday world you win some you lose some i know guys who say they have shagged 100 of women and i.know they have not although this is a sex site people still have preferences some like tall some like gingers etc if is not what you expected just leave grr how many times does this raise its head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No x

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By *uperboabyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've been lucky to meet some amazing women over the years on here but you do go through more dry patches (no pun intended) than not.

Patience is the key although that is a rare quality on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I only meet single guys.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Hi op - you have only joined 9 weeks ago wich in fab time is 3 minutes ago. It may be a sex site but it's not a fuck at the drop of a hat site either . Don't take things personally on here . You have to accept that people may not find you attractive , or not their type . If you are of a mindest to question if being here is worthwhile then perhaps it's time to leave , patience and perhaps social nights would be benificial. Woman have the same rights to admit to however many liaisons they have. So don't understand the validity of the statement

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By *antinsomefun44Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire


"No its all fake best just to give up really more ladies for you bunkers

just doing my bit to get me to 100 liasons "

Lol bunk thought there was a plan to ur comment lol xx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"No its all fake best just to give up really more ladies for you bunkers

just doing my bit to get me to 100 liasons

Lol bunk thought there was a plan to ur comment lol xx "

Theres always a plan mrs wantin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi op - you have only joined 9 weeks ago wich in fab time is 3 minutes ago. It may be a sex site but it's not a fuck at the drop of a hat site either . Don't take things personally on here . You have to accept that people may not find you attractive , or not their type . If you are of a mindest to question if being here is worthwhile then perhaps it's time to leave , patience and perhaps social nights would be benificial. Woman have the same rights to admit to however many liaisons they have. So don't understand the validity of the statement "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold this post a bit. Been sitting here with my popcorn and soda. But have tun out. Brb. Dont want to missOP getting strung ip by the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few ladies

at social meets

Some very nice ladies

i chat on here to some as well

there has to be an attraction

trust

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Patience is the key

There is a lot of lovely guys I chat to on a regular basis, but I actually would love to meet every one that I chat to but since it's impossible and at least they are super patient with me, but I also know the type I'm looking for also.

I don't just drop what I'm doing to suddenly meet someone I kind of can't even if I wished to

I'm looking forward to a trip soon where I've got meets I'm looking forward to ,social kind of meets to play meets

To me I find that certain types who come here and are new don't have patience,then get whiny if you say no sorry but will constantly ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!

Hi Keith ..

ive been here pretty much from the beginning .ive probably had 10 meets in 9years...and in saying that ive enjoyed some continuity with one amazing woman in particular.

I will be totally honest with you.i look around and notice some Guys who have met some lovely women on here and i feel humble...I have never in my entire time on Fabswingers felt that i could not get a meet.

Do yourself a favour..eberyone knows why your here..Put the Sex to the back of your head and focus on bringing out your personality.Use the Forums too express your views and opinions..Use the chat rooms get along to some social events.The site has a lot more too offer than just Sex...your patience and preparation is paramount in seeking like-minded people for mutual exploration.

Stick with it Auld Yin...

Good Luck

"

Funny that, same here, except it was an amazing man CxXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pure murder on here being a 6ft 1" single guy, fit, thick cock and who can accom.

feel like hanging myself

anyone any rope lolllllllllllll

is looking in the mirror with a st8 face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did ya get a reflection ?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Nah.

Good luck on PoF

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Go to socials, go to cj's, join in the forum discussions.

Chat to people and have a social meet.

This site is much more than just sex. There's fun, friendship, new experiences and adventures!

You've only been on a few weeks. Be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point of view I take (Male) on Fab, and I had a single guys profile for many years, is that most single guys on here aren't actually swingers....they're just mad shaggers....ask them to participate in straight group fun and they bottle it.

Then you have my personal hate....the "sleekit cunt" the guy who messages a woman asking if she will meet without her partner. Furthermore, the complete lack of respect shown by an alarming percentage of guys on here , there is. Distinct failure to appreciate that single women/couples have lives which don't revolve around dropping whatever we have arranged, dumping our kids with anyone who will watch them in order that we can have a "fuckfest".

In short, the decent guys on here, and we've chatted to a fair few, are being hamstrung by a lot of guys who would be better served getting up the dancing, find themselves a "wee durty" and let people who wish to participate in the swingers lifestyle, in the truest sense of the term."

Well said

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Lol is this still going on x

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By *ablo30Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Try being married, apparently we're the most hideous people on here, unless you're female??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to take it so personally, from what it seems women on the site don't need to look for anyone and get hundreds of messages a day so must be easy to miss some... Or so I keep telling myself

Just got to say the right thing, to the right lady, on the right day.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Try being married, apparently we're the most hideous people on here, unless you're female??"

Speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Try not to take it so personally, from what it seems women on the site don't need to look for anyone and get hundreds of messages a day so must be easy to miss some... Or so I keep telling myself

Just got to say the right thing, to the right lady, on the right day. "

That just about sums it up! Catch us on a good day and you're more likely to get a response lol. Go to socials. I've a pub quiz meet up for Tuesday in Paisley.

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