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By *assman OP   Man
over a year ago

dundee

ok, after sending an initial mesasge, saying hello and blah blah, if you dont hear but notice its been read but not deleted, how long do you you think you should leave it it before sending a 2nd one to guage any interest.

Understand that a lot of ladies on here gets loads of email, so what would be an acceptable time frame?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"ok, after sending an initial mesasge, saying hello and blah blah, if you dont hear but notice its been read but not deleted, how long do you you think you should leave it it before sending a 2nd one to guage any interest.

Understand that a lot of ladies on here gets loads of email, so what would be an acceptable time frame?"

i replyed after two mins i think lol ....but in answer to your question i wouldnt send a 2nd message and just wait and see what happens .

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We would say no 2nd message at all. Could make you look pushy and you've no idea why you haven't had a reply yet. Maybe only one of them has read, maybe they've too many to read through.

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By *assman OP   Man
over a year ago

dundee


"We would say no 2nd message at all. Could make you look pushy and you've no idea why you haven't had a reply yet. Maybe only one of them has read, maybe they've too many to read through."

yeh see thats what i was thinking as well about the pushy side, dont want to come over as that, however with a 2nd message, it may just be the reminder that i was interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to a second message also.... Maybe just a wink second time round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 minutes....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You don't. If you don't get a response to the first one then there's a reason for that.

I got quite a good message the other day and figured I'd reply when I got home from work when I had a bit more time. I logged in when I got home and within two minutes the second message came from him and it put me right off. I've not replied to either of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i'd say no to a 2nd message as well. Puts me right off when people don't give you time to reply / show an interest.

You might be interested and want to remind them of that, but who's to say they want to be reminded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say no 2nd message or 3rd, 4th, 5th lol. Wink maybe just incase but not a 2nd mail if the one sent has been read and not replyed to x

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

Its a tricky question whether or not to take the plunge with a 2nd message, especially if you really like the profile of the person you have messaged. If your message gets a quick delete its a no brainer of course.

I am unaware of whether or not we can track winks to see if they get deleted immediately or not ? I guess only way to be sure not to cause offense is to refrain from sending further messages until a response is received !

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

second msg should be about 2 mins after you notice first has been read ohh and remember to include words like tramp,timewaster and munter also add the fact you wouldnt have shagged them anyway because they are ugly and are not in your league .... hope this helps happy swinging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get deleted n blocked on first message plllenty times, i think its the "hi i see you have gangbangs listed in yer interests" bit, they did, then they never realised? You made them aware of it and noo yer the durty bugger that reminded them,,lol, a theory anyhoo.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We would say no 2nd message at all. Could make you look pushy and you've no idea why you haven't had a reply yet. Maybe only one of them has read, maybe they've too many to read through.

yeh see thats what i was thinking as well about the pushy side, dont want to come over as that, however with a 2nd message, it may just be the reminder that i was interested?"

people have your message there ,they know youre interested . if you want to show continued interest then a simple wink will be enough .

as for how long till send a second message ....personally i say dont . if a person/cpl is that interested in you they will replie to the first contact .if you dont get replie then they arent . i personally wouldnt dwell on weather messages have been read or deleated .just go with the flow and enjoy looking through the profiles to see if others catch your eye

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