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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This one is for the couples and single girls to give their _iews/relate experiences. You get a message, photo attached, guy is quite handsome, verified, can accommodate and is fit. You exchange a message back and then all of a sudden the tone changes, he becomes demanding "when we meeting ?", "what you up to today?", "don't you want to meet anymore","wanna meet me on your own?".

Well gents, just for those of you who employ these "tactics" - I am a married mother to two children, work full time night shift, am not sitting by my phone when I am on here permanently strumming my clit whilst wearing my sexiest Agent Provocateur lingerie just fantasising about your "hard throbbing cock destroying" my pussy, nor do I "fancy coming over to" yours this afternoon when the kids are at schoolgirl some "hot,wet,sex". For the love of Christ would a significant proportion of you learn some manners, not _iew women on here as objects who's sole purpose on the site is to facilitate your gratification and above all else...........take a polite "thanks, but no thanks" as the final word on the matter.

To the decent guys, there are some, I apologise for my rant lol

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yeahhhhhh

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Not even some asda entice lingerie ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a huge amount of truth in what you say and your acknowledge to the good guys noted too, they do exist.

I wonder if many guys do the math of sex here. Most men would want sex every day. The ratio of men to women here is anything from ten to twenty five to one. So taking the conservative figure of ten to one, each woman would need to shag ten men a day to satisfy demand... Whilst that may sound appealing to some I hope it kinda explains to some men why they incur exasperation from females who get inundated with "fancy a fuck" "you don't know what you're missing" "am I not your type" messages My personal favourite was "can't you just fit me in?"

Words failed me, and trust me that doesn't happen often...

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Nice to note there are some nice men here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to note there are some nice men here "

There are and oft said, the plonkers make it harder for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget "

Good advice but even IF you consider it a sex site there are such things as etiquette and manners.

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget

Good advice but even IF you consider it a sex site there are such things as etiquette and manners. "

Often find that is the main reason for ignoring the single males for every 1 nice guy you get emailing you from here, there are another 20 sitting with their trousers at their ankles or a sky remote sitting next to their cocks Typing the obligatory fancy a fuck and thinking "how can any woman resist this fine example of a cock!!?"

Woman are in charge mostly of the swinging scene if they say NO then it doesn't matter how much the husband/boyfriend/FB/ partner pleads it's still a NO. Yet how often do the single guys not even address the other half when emailing.

Mr S X

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Nice to note there are some nice men here

There are and oft said, the plonkers make it harder for them. "

Very hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget

Good advice but even IF you consider it a sex site there are such things as etiquette and manners. "

Yes I agree but to expect it from everyone is very unrealistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to note there are some nice men here

There are and oft said, the plonkers make it harder for them.

Very hard"

Very hard can useful too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget

Good advice but even IF you consider it a sex site there are such things as etiquette and manners.

Yes I agree but to expect it from everyone is very unrealistic "

Agreed, sad innit

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"am not sitting by my phone when I am on here permanently strumming my clit whilst wearing my sexiest Agent Provocateur lingerie just fantasising about your "hard throbbing cock destroying" my pussy"

This is not at all helpful, I know, but thanks for implanting a new fantasy


"For the love of Christ would a significant proportion of you learn some manners, not _iew women on here as objects who's sole purpose on the site is to facilitate your gratification and above all else...........take a polite "thanks, but no thanks" as the final word on the matter."

And the sad difficulty here is that the very people who need to take this piece of advice to heart are also the ones most inclined to ignore it .


"To the decent guys, there are some, I apologise for my rant lol"

Let's hope I can count myself in this category, despite my lapse into fantasy land earlier. No need to apologise: I think everyone understands the various frustrations of fab. Certainly everyone seems to end up needing to vent about the same old things every so often. You're in either good or bad company - take your pick

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Nice to note there are some nice men here

There are and oft said, the plonkers make it harder for them. "

I tend to find the plonkers just nake it hard for themselves.

They actually make the decent guys shine out like a beacon in the sea of tantrums and testosterone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am not sitting by my phone when I am on here permanently strumming my clit whilst wearing my sexiest Agent Provocateur lingerie just fantasising about your "hard throbbing cock destroying" my pussy

This is not at all helpful, I know, but thanks for implanting a new fantasy

For the love of Christ would a significant proportion of you learn some manners, not _iew women on here as objects who's sole purpose on the site is to facilitate your gratification and above all else...........take a polite "thanks, but no thanks" as the final word on the matter.

And the sad difficulty here is that the very people who need to take this piece of advice to heart are also the ones most inclined to ignore it .

To the decent guys, there are some, I apologise for my rant lol

Let's hope I can count myself in this category, despite my lapse into fantasy land earlier. No need to apologise: I think everyone understands the various frustrations of fab. Certainly everyone seems to end up needing to vent about the same old things every so often. You're in either good or bad company - take your pick "

Well said that hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to note there are some nice men here

There are and oft said, the plonkers make it harder for them.

I tend to find the plonkers just nake it hard for themselves.

They actually make the decent guys shine out like a beacon in the sea of tantrums and testosterone. "

Lol @ seas of tantrums and testosterone. Also true temptress

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well said that hat "

Ok now I'm imagining it's just my hat sitting here talking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't time it....

Message just received from a "couple" - "love to chat"

Me- "Thanks for the message but I don't seek couples but happy swinging"

Reply- "Fuck with me then"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well said that hat

Ok now I'm imagining it's just my hat sitting here talking ."

If you want to get ahead get a hat

On hear mebbe that should read if you want to get head get a hat

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"On hear mebbe that should read if you want to get head get a hat "

If only it worked like that...

I'd buy soooo many hats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget

Good advice but even IF you consider it a sex site there are such things as etiquette and manners.

Yes I agree but to expect it from everyone is very unrealistic

Agreed, sad innit "

It is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for the couples and single girls to give their _iews/relate experiences. You get a message, photo attached, guy is quite handsome, verified, can accommodate and is fit. You exchange a message back and then all of a sudden the tone changes, he becomes demanding "when we meeting ?", "what you up to today?", "don't you want to meet anymore","wanna meet me on your own?".

Well gents, just for those of you who employ these "tactics" - I am a married mother to two children, work full time night shift, am not sitting by my phone when I am on here permanently strumming my clit whilst wearing my sexiest Agent Provocateur lingerie just fantasising about your "hard throbbing cock destroying" my pussy, nor do I "fancy coming over to" yours this afternoon when the kids are at schoolgirl some "hot,wet,sex". For the love of Christ would a significant proportion of you learn some manners, not _iew women on here as objects who's sole purpose on the site is to facilitate your gratification and above all else...........take a polite "thanks, but no thanks" as the final word on the matter.

To the decent guys, there are some, I apologise for my rant lol"

I have actually added something to this effect on my profile due to these demands Well said!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just about posting something similar. I'm fed up of guys thinking cos I chat that it's the key to the front door!!!

I don't know about others but the desperation messages are also pathetic!! Whatever you say trying to be nice they've got 10 comebacks. Why not just take the hint and step back - cis one more feckin message and it's the big block button no matter how friendly we've become!!!

Remove the soapbox somebody!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just about posting something similar. I'm fed up of guys thinking cos I chat that it's the key to the front door!!!

I don't know about others but the desperation messages are also pathetic!! Whatever you say trying to be nice they've got 10 comebacks. Why not just take the hint and step back - cis one more feckin message and it's the big block button no matter how friendly we've become!!!

Remove the soapbox somebody!!!"

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian


"It's a sex site, of course some guys think you're only here for their gratification, It's the way things are. Just block and forget

Good advice but even IF you consider it a sex site there are such things as etiquette and manners.

Often find that is the main reason for ignoring the single males for every 1 nice guy you get emailing you from here, there are another 20 sitting with their trousers at their ankles or a sky remote sitting next to their cocks Typing the obligatory fancy a fuck and thinking "how can any woman resist this fine example of a cock!!?"

Woman are in charge mostly of the swinging scene if they say NO then it doesn't matter how much the husband/boyfriend/FB/ partner pleads it's still a NO. Yet how often do the single guys not even address the other half when emailing.

Mr S X "

Oh so true and the ones that do stand out from the crowd and in my experience become friends ........others have sooo much to learn.........

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian


"This one is for the couples and single girls to give their _iews/relate experiences. You get a message, photo attached, guy is quite handsome, verified, can accommodate and is fit. You exchange a message back and then all of a sudden the tone changes, he becomes demanding "when we meeting ?", "what you up to today?", "don't you want to meet anymore","wanna meet me on your own?".

No need for an apology we often take a break from letting guys message us for this very reason you can untick men in the looking for part within account

And the mails just stop and you can get some space for a while ....................

Well gents, just for those of you who employ these "tactics" - I am a married mother to two children, work full time night shift, am not sitting by my phone when I am on here permanently strumming my clit whilst wearing my sexiest Agent Provocateur lingerie just fantasising about your "hard throbbing cock destroying" my pussy, nor do I "fancy coming over to" yours this afternoon when the kids are at schoolgirl some "hot,wet,sex". For the love of Christ would a significant proportion of you learn some manners, not _iew women on here as objects who's sole purpose on the site is to facilitate your gratification and above all else...........take a polite "thanks, but no thanks" as the final word on the matter.

To the decent guys, there are some, I apologise for my rant lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said. Few message instinctly makes them think u wanna meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant be held responsible for other peoples actions.

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Manners cost nothing.... I've been described by someone as pushy and I've never even spoken to them so figure that one out!

At the end of the day we all have our individual reasons for being here and if you come across as pushy and obnoxious then you'll never get anywhere and end up in a huge line of block lists.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

If it makes the OP and all the other ladies of fab feel better - I just want your cakes

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"To the decent guys, there are some, I apologise for my rant lol"

Apology accepted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it makes the OP and all the other ladies of fab feel better - I just want your cakes "

When cake goes straight to your hips.....you tend to avoid it like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it makes the OP and all the other ladies of fab feel better - I just want your cakes

When cake goes straight to your hips.....you tend to avoid it like the plague "

Well said ..

Do ye fancy a feck then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you ...x

Im sure you really didnt see the fun side of my comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it makes the OP and all the other ladies of fab feel better - I just want your cakes

When cake goes straight to your hips.....you tend to avoid it like the plague

Well said ..

Do ye fancy a feck then ?

"

Well if your offering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you ...x

Im sure you really didnt see the fun side of my comment.

"

Likewise

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I think you make your own success on here and the bad ones only serve to make the good ones stand out - and there are good guys around

Not so nice ones always get very defensive when you try to give any constructive criticism!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After festering for a couple of hours id like to add one further comment about what these assholes write. This one guarantees to make me want to fight to the death - 'I just want a Wee shot'

Go visual people cos it gets right on my feckin titties!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"If it makes the OP and all the other ladies of fab feel better - I just want your cakes

When cake goes straight to your hips.....you tend to avoid it like the plague "

That's why I'm offering to eat yours

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"After festering for a couple of hours id like to add one further comment about what these assholes write. This one guarantees to make me want to fight to the death - 'I just want a Wee shot'

Go visual people cos it gets right on my feckin titties!! "

Can I get on your.....oh right...that's not appropriate either

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I was just about posting something similar. I'm fed up of guys thinking cos I chat that it's the key to the front door!!!

I don't know about others but the desperation messages are also pathetic!! Whatever you say trying to be nice they've got 10 comebacks. Why not just take the hint and step back - cis one more feckin message and it's the big block button no matter how friendly we've become!!!

Remove the soapbox somebody!!!"

DLT or Furry will take the soap box . That's if their not after anything else

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Bad bad men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just about posting something similar. I'm fed up of guys thinking cos I chat that it's the key to the front door!!!

I don't know about others but the desperation messages are also pathetic!! Whatever you say trying to be nice they've got 10 comebacks. Why not just take the hint and step back - cis one more feckin message and it's the big block button no matter how friendly we've become!!!

Remove the soapbox somebody!!!

DLT or Furry will take the soap box . That's if their not after anything else "

But Steph....it's a big step up

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's probably been said already, but I always say that real life comes first.

Anything that happens or is needing done at home gets priority over anything from this site.

Mandy

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be


"It's probably been said already, but I always say that real life comes first.

Anything that happens or is needing done at home gets priority over anything from this site.

Mandy"

This

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