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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you, yes YOU, as "in demand" in "real life" as you are on here? Or do you have ideas waaaay above your station??

I might sound a bit unkind here but are some folk utterly dillusuonal because the numbers (men to women ratio) are in their favour??

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ohhh popcorn at the ready ..front row seat and 3d glasses on for this 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm not in demand in real life or here, not unless you count shitty want to fuck messages - I don't. I'm not that desperate. I've a million dildos and a wand to keep me ticking over. ??

I am however totally delusional and awaiting a Gerard butler, Dwayne Johnston or Tom hardy lookalike coming along on fab! If one of them are reading this, please pick me!!!!! ??

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Yeah I'm not in demand in real life or here, not unless you count shitty want to fuck messages - I don't. I'm not that desperate. I've a million dildos and a wand to keep me ticking over. ??

I am however totally delusional and awaiting a Gerard butler, Dwayne Johnston or Tom hardy lookalike coming along on fab! If one of them are reading this, please pick me!!!!! ??"

If im not dressed i look like any of these men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I'm not in demand in real life or here, not unless you count shitty want to fuck messages - I don't. I'm not that desperate. I've a million dildos and a wand to keep me ticking over. ??

I am however totally delusional and awaiting a Gerard butler, Dwayne Johnston or Tom hardy lookalike coming along on fab! If one of them are reading this, please pick me!!!!! ??"

hahaha. Touché. Don't believe for one minute that you're not in demand (outwith the seedy messages) but like the second paragraph. Can only say that that's me fooked then. Darn it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what ur saying mate and I agree

for certain people on here let's just say thank God they have fab and most guys would fuck anything

to be fair though, women come on here lookin for a fantasy, they want big cock, 6pak, men in suits blah blah blah ye know the things most couldn't get in real life. Just a good thing most guys are like dogs in heat

As for the question, I wouldn't say I'm in demand anywhere but in real life I get alot more attention than I do on fab, since I stopped relying on fab I've had alot more sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not in demand in any way whatsoever!

One cancellation and one no show in the space of 2 days.

I got a message telling me ' I was the fat chick with a high opinion of herself'.

Whatever self confidence I may have had has now been flattened.

And now I'm writing a look at me post at 5am....

Sake.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Not in demand here or in real life.

I know full well what I look like and that the majority of men will say anything to try and get a meet on here. I'd say most women know its never genuine and have learnt to notice bull shit a mile away.

I actually think there are some pretty deluded men who think they are some sort of stud that we should be thankful for. Really they are just arrogant fuckwits.

Then there are the keyboard warriors. More of them are men than women. Perhaps the main cause of their outbursts is a dented ego or maybe a reality check.

There are people in all walks of life who think they are better than they might actually be. I say good luck to them. I wish I had just some of their confidence.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What is wrong with being 'delusional', they are not harming anyone. Establish that is your opinion of them and leave them to do their thing and you focus on people you don't consider so.

We all see profiles, forum activity or chat room performances we think 'really

' but we can choose to ignore or not.

Life is easier if you decide upon the latter

And mostly they are not bad people, just using the site different from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in demand in real life but I'm also not going to shag billy munter either.

Attraction physical and personality play a huge part in it.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Can anyone honestly say they are in demand either in or out of fab.

Yes the male - female ratio on here is massive so yes females are going to get silly numbers of messages mostly "hi how are you" "what you up to today/ tonight" "I'm going to ......" Etc etc etc however when we are out very rarely will we get stopped and randomly asked this.

Please correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like the OP has unfortunately been rejected and has not taking it well. If that's the case best to move on.

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We see a lot more attention outside of Fab than on here. S more so, seems like every day some guy asks her out (even if I'm there!).

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Are you, yes YOU, as "in demand" in "real life" as you are on here? Or do you have ideas waaaay above your station??

I might sound a bit unkind here but are some folk utterly dillusuonal because the numbers (men to women ratio) are in their favour?? "

Big sigh

What does in demand even means...,!!!

See it this way, it is 8.30am on a Sunday morning... I am 'in demand' on here because of all the hangover horns and morning horns!!!

I am not 'in demand' in real life this morning because I am in my bloody bed!!!!

And am not some product on a shelf waiting to be picked or being in season or trying to be 'in demand'

That's the way I see it

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"Absolutely not in demand in any way whatsoever!

One cancellation and one no show in the space of 2 days.

I got a message telling me ' I was the fat chick with a high opinion of herself'.

Whatever self confidence I may have had has now been flattened.

And now I'm writing a look at me post at 5am....

Sake.

Idiots for standing you up

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yes some folk are dillusional they totally believe the hype. Thats not their fault really. its the fault of the idiots spouting the cack.the first time someone hears stunning babes they think full of shit...... by the 99th time they start thinking maybe something in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says on my profile I know I'll get more attention on here then in the real world and it doesn't bother me. The site is to meet people to have sex clearly women are going to be in demand, any holes a goal for lads. I'm definitely not delusional, guys will say anything and that's why we're all allowed to be picky even if we are ugly fat slags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see a lot more attention outside of Fab than on here. S more so, seems like every day some guy asks her out (even if I'm there!)."

That's shocking

, the cheek of some people ehh, more neck than a heard of giraffes. So....... fancy coming out with us sometime S

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm in such high demand....oh wait......you meant sexually.....

Sorry.....I'm off back to my hiding spot....can't have the men in white coats find me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like this are so helpful for knowing who's got a shit attitude and who I should swerve at all costs, thanks

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Not under any delusional ideas on here.

Im here to do exactly why I joined and thats to have a little fun.

The fact we all have the choice to pick and choose who we want fun with yes even YOU

makes no odds on here .

As for people way above their stations that sounds like a comment only jealous people would say.

I just love the judgements on people who have confidence to do as they wish in whatever way the like.

But make no mistake us women aint stupid when it comes to knowing someone whos giving you a genuine compliment and someone who aint,the fact some of us have manners and thank all for their compliments doesnt mean we belive them.

YOU swing YOUR way and il swing MINE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many hot ladies on this thread who say they don't get much attention when out???? Guys must be crazy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in season. #justsaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not delusional in any way i am who i am and if im not your type then find someone who is x

If we were all the same it would be boring and i find each guy or woman know what they like. Lets face it not all profiles are read to find out about the person .....therefore could be one message less xx have fun n keep smiling

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By *an-soloMan
over a year ago

West Kilbride

I seem to get alot of interest from men but almost none from women and the women just seem to waste time.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I seem to get alot of interest from men but almost none from women and the women just seem to waste time. "
well stick to men then

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By *an-soloMan
over a year ago

West Kilbride

"I seem to get alot of interest from men but almost none from women and the women just seem to waste time. well stick to men then

If only it was that easy

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've never been under any illusion on fab.

I am who I am.

I'm just me.

Like me. Hate me. Not overly bothered either way.

My friends know what I'm like as do the people I meet at socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you, yes YOU, as "in demand" in "real life" as you are on here? Or do you have ideas waaaay above your station??

I might sound a bit unkind here but are some folk utterly dillusuonal because the numbers (men to women ratio) are in their favour?? "

Well I must admit I turn more heads in real life than I do on here, fab suits my hectic life style though. I certainly don't have ideas above my station but what I do have are standards and won't compromise them just because I have nothing better on offer.

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We see a lot more attention outside of Fab than on here. S more so, seems like every day some guy asks her out (even if I'm there!).

That's shocking

, the cheek of some people ehh, more neck than a heard of giraffes. So....... fancy coming out with us sometime S

Tried to have a little perv but no photos

One recent come on that was funny was a guy who is friends with one of her friends saying "I know your taken but would he mind a one night stand". This was hilarious as her friend doesn't know what we occasionally get up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not,are you OP?......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to get alot of interest from men but almost none from women and the women just seem to waste time. "
. Time waster here. Yooo hoooo

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nope

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

To be honest im opposite i dont get much interest on here. But out with here in my real life and on nights out etc i usually get interest.

I think the issue is what one person finds attractive others dont.

Im very upfront about fact im fat so not to alot of peoples taste but then its never caused a issue to me or my sex life. So it doesnt bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest im opposite i dont get much interest on here. But out with here in my real life and on nights out etc i usually get interest.

I think the issue is what one person finds attractive others dont.

Im very upfront about fact im fat so not to alot of peoples taste but then its never caused a issue to me or my sex life. So it doesnt bother me "

Why wouldnt you not be to alot of peoples taste..Surely its got to be about the personality chemistry communication..

Curves are good x

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

"To be honest im opposite i dont get much interest on here. But out with here in my real life and on nights out etc i usually get interest.

I think the issue is what one person finds attractive others dont.

Im very upfront about fact im fat so not to alot of peoples taste but then its never caused a issue to me or my sex life. So it doesnt bother me

Why wouldnt you not be to alot of peoples taste..Surely its got to be about the personality chemistry communication..

Curves are good x

Different people float different peoples boats. I like me thats all that matters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get people saying personality plays a big part in who they meet on fab, but you don't, can't, wont know what someone's personality is like until you meet them.

It's much easier to act funny, witty, nice online in person it's much harder.

The only time I've ever seen anyones real personality on here is when I give my opinions on the forums and people don't like it so they block me!

it literally makes people look petty and pathetic because they cant handle my opinion,

The things I say on the forums are just my opinions, yes I mean everything I say I'm not a brown noser trying to score brownie points with any of you but just because I may come across as a dick on here doesn't mean I am a dick in person, am actually one of the nicest cunts you'd ever meet unless u piss me off but generally am sound as a pound.

So anyone who thinks they can tell what someone elses personality is like just by speaking to them on here is an idiot sorry but just are.

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By *an-soloMan
over a year ago

West Kilbride

"I seem to get alot of interest from men but almost none from women and the women just seem to waste time. . Time waster here. Yooo hoooo

Not all women but alot at least that's what I've found haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get people saying personality plays a big part in who they meet on fab, but you don't, can't, wont know what someone's personality is like until you meet them.

It's much easier to act funny, witty, nice online in person it's much harder.

The only time I've ever seen anyones real personality on here is when I give my opinions on the forums and people don't like it so they block me!

it literally makes people look petty and pathetic because they cant handle my opinion,

So anyone who thinks they can tell what someone elses personality is like just by speaking to them on here is an idiot sorry but just are."

Im an Idiot then ...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes in demand from my kids, my work and my cats!

Maybe I should be the one making the demands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get people saying personality plays a big part in who they meet on fab, but you don't, can't, wont know what someone's personality is like until you meet them.

It's much easier to act funny, witty, nice online in person it's much harder.

The only time I've ever seen anyones real personality on here is when I give my opinions on the forums and people don't like it so they block me!

it literally makes people look petty and pathetic because they cant handle my opinion,

So anyone who thinks they can tell what someone elses personality is like just by speaking to them on here is an idiot sorry but just are."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can anyone honestly say they are in demand either in or out of fab.

Please correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like the OP has unfortunately been rejected and has not taking it well. If that's the case best to move on.

Not at all. I'm as adult and can handle the truth. If someone isn't attracted to me then I can live with it. However, if someone chats for a period of time and shows interest but then changes because they have a better offer them this is what gets my goat. No harm in saying sorry, not interested anymore but the lack of respect at times is my bug bear.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

No different to agreeing to meet for a coffee then never getting around to making the arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy I do 1000 percent better in real life, but I'm on here to satisfy my more niche interests that I can't just get into with someone I meet socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get people saying personality plays a big part in who they meet on fab, but you don't, can't, wont know what someone's personality is like until you meet them.

It's much easier to act funny, witty, nice online in person it's much harder.

The only time I've ever seen anyones real personality on here is when I give my opinions on the forums and people don't like it so they block me!

it literally makes people look petty and pathetic because they cant handle my opinion,

So anyone who thinks they can tell what someone elses personality is like just by speaking to them on here is an idiot sorry but just are.

It's easier, but if you've got the personality of a dead cat then you're not gonna be able to seem like the world's most charismatic person. And you'd be surprised what you can tell about someone from their profile, some of us are more perceptive than others. "
u can be as perceptive as Stephen hawking but what am saying is people come on here and put on an act, wether they are stuck up, highly opinionated, sweet, or a complete arsehole, its all an act, everyone has an online persona so if you or anyone else thinks you know someone because you've spoken to them on a site you really don't, perception means nothing online.

No one really knows someone until you've been with them long enough to see the real version of them.

A mean am 27 and a know this

it's like women on pof who look for a serious relationship on an app? Like it's ever going to work.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Cult I agree with your points. apart from online personas we all have them. in your previous post you allude to you being you. I agree most folk have an online persona but not all. Those who have met me in person would tell you im the same judgemental asshole face to face as I am on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cult I agree with your points. apart from online personas we all have them. in your previous post you allude to you being you. I agree most folk have an online persona but not all. Those who have met me in person would tell you im the same judgemental asshole face to face as I am on the site "

Agree. It depends with me, some people say I'm a lot nicer in person but I think my sarcasm just overtakes that at times online. Everyone will agree on my sarcasm and cheekiness in real life though but I'm a lot nicer in real life too apparently

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like Kola said 'not all people' have an online persona.

I hope people that have met me will agree that I am the same online that I am when they meet me.

Personally, I have too much going on in my real life to find the energy to keep up with an online persona

Personally I am happy with the person I am off-line and I have no need to be someone else when I go online.

So I would not generalise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone honestly say they are in demand either in or out of fab.

Please correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like the OP has unfortunately been rejected and has not taking it well. If that's the case best to move on.

It's funny when they come back

Always a great pleasure of mine to tell them where to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always so wise sensei

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So many bitter men on here it is unbelievable, so women have choices on here, get over it!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I get people saying personality plays a big part in who they meet on fab, but you don't, can't, wont know what someone's personality is like until you meet them.

It's much easier to act funny, witty, nice online in person it's much harder.

The only time I've ever seen anyones real personality on here is when I give my opinions on the forums and people don't like it so they block me!

it literally makes people look petty and pathetic because they cant handle my opinion,

So anyone who thinks they can tell what someone elses personality is like just by speaking to them on here is an idiot sorry but just are.

Im an Idiot then ...

Me too

*high fives

Or when some random blocks you for no reason. Nowt so queer as folk

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Maybe these ladies do just fine outside if Fab . Maybe they just rather not have the complications and prefer to arrange meets here as no strings . Maybe they do get the guys with huge cocks ,abs ect ect on and off here . Who has the right to say theyd only get it here due to the number of guys desperate to meet?? We can only speak of what we ourselves find attractive no second guess others.

If I wanted to meet just Hugh Jackman and Alexandre Scaregard look alikes then thas my choice .I harms no one else and if I get no meets then down to me lol!

As for the woman changing her mind about you as she's got something better ... you know that for a fact?? They actually said "sorry I was interested but got a better guy lined up now" . ??

If they did then you dodged a bullet so did you a favour . Or could it be a completely different reason they lost interest .

I know have have chatted plenty of times and the guys comes out with something that just puts the brakes on right there .

Oh and I can also assure you plenty of guys go cold due to "better offers ". Also plenty are deluded as you call it thinking they are gods gift here . Telling me I should be greatful they'd consider shagging me.

That's absolutely fine as I just use it as a filter as plenty of lovely grounded folks on here .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Maybe these ladies do just fine outside if Fab . Maybe they just rather not have the complications and prefer to arrange meets here as no strings . Maybe they do get the guys with huge cocks ,abs ect ect on and off here . Who has the right to say theyd only get it here due to the number of guys desperate to meet?? We can only speak of what we ourselves find attractive no second guess others.

If I wanted to meet just Hugh Jackman and Alexandre Scaregard look alikes then thas my choice .I harms no one else and if I get no meets then down to me lol!

As for the woman changing her mind about you as she's got something better ... you know that for a fact?? They actually said "sorry I was interested but got a better guy lined up now" . ??

If they did then you dodged a bullet so did you a favour . Or could it be a completely different reason they lost interest .

I know have have chatted plenty of times and the guys comes out with something that just puts the brakes on right there .

That's absolutely fine as I just use it as a filter as plenty of lovely grounded folks on here .

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well said temptress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads like this are so helpful for knowing who's got a shit attitude and who I should swerve at all costs, thanks

This!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"Threads like this are so helpful for knowing who's got a shit attitude and who I should swerve at all costs, thanks

Yep. Karma is a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads like this are so helpful for knowing who's got a shit attitude and who I should swerve at all costs, thanks

Yep. Karma is a bitch. "

(Also applies to video on Facebook thread...)

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By *crue1Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

I wouldn't use the term "in demand" but I defo get more attention outside of fab. Mostly because they can see my face I assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads like this are so helpful for knowing who's got a shit attitude and who I should swerve at all costs, thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many bitter men on here it is unbelievable, so women have choices on here, get over it! "

I'm not bitter. Females asked to be treated with respect. All I ask is that they do the same in return. If they aren't attracted or something changes then fine. I can handle that. But changing the way the speak to you and becoming obnoxious isn't necessary.

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