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Why arrange a meet then bail?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is beyond annoying now, people arrange a meet with you then when you turn up at the agreed place they don't bother answering you when you're sitting there waiting for them, bloody pain in the arse, or maybe i'm just doing something wrong, thoughts??

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Happens a lot

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Are you sure they were real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you talk to them on the phone at all beforehand?

I find you get a better idea of potential meets n if they're really up for it or not if you can at least hear their voice n chat for a bit.I'd especially want to confirm over the phone before on the day of the meet.

Better luck next time!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Tbh, we don't really talk on the phone and we never have a problem. We do spend a fair bit of time chatting first and get a feel for if we'd get on, check photos aren't stolen etc. Were they verified, or was it a new profile?

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sadly it happens that people bow out. There are lots of genuine folk's on site though. You will start to get a feel for knowing who won't bother to turn up x

Good luck happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear your time was wasted

As suggested maybe try messaging a bit more to suss them out

I stopped talking on the phone on here as the last guy I spoke to was obviously wanking when we were chatting

So I try to chat a wee while longer on here before I meet anyone

Good luck and don't let the bad 1s ruin it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is beyond annoying now, people arrange a meet with you then when you turn up at the agreed place they don't bother answering you when you're sitting there waiting for them, bloody pain in the arse, or maybe i'm just doing something wrong, thoughts?? "

(Lee)

It happens to couples too. (3 times)

Its like they get cold feet or have a wierd excuse.

Or one of the partners finds out the other has been messenging secretly. OOPS!

Choose your meets wisely and have a plan B so your time is not wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 of the reasons myself and my Husband stopped meeting cpls was because of the amount of last min call offs

Cpl are murder for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get that a lot as well. One couple messaged us at the meeting place to say they were there, but no where in site.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"1 of the reasons myself and my Husband stopped meeting cpls was because of the amount of last min call offs

Cpl are murder for it!!"
not with single fems they aint pmsl

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Your not the only one it's happened to me but mark it down to experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it could be someone just messing you about. There is a lot of people who like the buzz of chat and arrange the meet but then they stop as its too much for them or some other reason. Crap I know but you will never get ride of those people.

Just try and make sure you've got the right person(s) that wont bail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me on Friday night, arranged the meet and got a message while standing waiting to reschedule, took me an hour to get there too.

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