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By *lawless dove OP   Woman
over a year ago

bothwell

Clearly states on my profile not to send random friends requests yet I still get loads. Normally I just bulk delete after letting them build up but lately I've started winding the guys up.

How does everyone else deal with unwanted random friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave them. That way they can't send you another, at least I don't think they can.

Sometimes though I wait till there not on and accept have a noisy through there pics then delete.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Clearly states on my profile not to send random friends requests yet I still get loads. Normally I just bulk delete after letting them build up but lately I've started winding the guys up.

How does everyone else deal with unwanted random friend requests"

Never get them

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Clearly states on my profile not to send random friends requests yet I still get loads. Normally I just bulk delete after letting them build up but lately I've started winding the guys up.

How does everyone else deal with unwanted random friend requests"

Theres always someone who will chance their arm ....not a problem ive ever had to deal with on this profile ....on our cpls profile i wait til they are offline then accept check out their private pics then delete ...unless they are hot lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

States on my profile

Il wait until they are offline...then accept for a nosy then delete lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Either accept while they're offline, have a nosey and delete them, or just leave the invite there and then they can't send another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either accept while they're offline, have a nosey and delete them, or just leave the invite there and then they can't send another one "

This

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians

9 times out of 10 we just BLOCK them as they are clearly showing they have no interest what so ever in reading or respecting your profile "BLOCK" its easy lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Dont delete them saves having to re delete at a later stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either accept while they're offline, have a nosey and delete them, or just leave the invite there and then they can't send another one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either accept while they're offline, have a nosey and delete them, or just leave the invite there and then they can't send another one

"

This! ????

Love a good nosey.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Either accept while they're offline, have a nosey and delete them, or just leave the invite there and then they can't send another one

This! ????

Love a good nosey. "

Dont we all

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Feel free to random request me ladies tho wont hold my breath lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant block from us,clearly just wanting to see pics.

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Just leave the friend request if you except & delete. The problem is they try again doesn't bother me

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Nope, doesn't bother me now. I used to get them all the time. It's just fantasists wanting a nosey of the goods, so I only send/accept Friends Adds AFTER I've met them.

It's even easier now as I've deleted who I'm looking for & I'm not really looking to Meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly states on my profile not to send random friends requests yet I still get loads. Normally I just bulk delete after letting them build up but lately I've started winding the guys up.

How does everyone else deal with unwanted random friend requests"

I wait until they go offline then accept and look at their pics, then block and unblock then it goes back to a friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa)

It does not happen often to us. (We have message filters in place)

But when the random friend request comes...we send them a kind little note.

"We are not sure why you just randomly did a friend invite. We will chalk it up to an accident. We did not accept it.

We hope you both find what you are looking for. "

Normally they don't write back or do a friend request again.

Only one time did we block someone. ..4 friend request. Sorry. ..blocked.

Xxx

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I always assume it's just an excuse to try and see my private pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't trouble me, if it's someone I like the look of I'll accept when they are offline and if I still like the look of them then I'll drop them a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All filed away in folders, alongside the report of unicorn sightings and my patented secret to the meaning of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave them. That way they can't send you another, at least I don't think they can.

Sometimes though I wait till there not on and accept have a noisy through there pics then delete."

I do this too.. and also with winks

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think the problem comes from the Number against your private pics.

If that just had a tick, to verify that you had some, rather than a number. I think the random friends requests would diminish quickly, as like others have said it's mainly folk wanting a nose/perve.

How I deal with them - It's detailed on my profile. I simply delete them. If they keep trying I'll eventually block them. I tend to only block folks for valid reasons.

Mandy xxx

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By *lawless dove OP   Woman
over a year ago

bothwell

Just had another on

I sent a message saying how great it was to finally meet and chat and hope for more in the future with friends request as the title.

He simply replied ???? Must've thought I was some mad stalker.

Surely you had a great time too other wise why send the friends request

Sheepish reply back apologising and reluctantly praised me on my responses to his poor manners.

Feel so much better now

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Just had another on

I sent a message saying how great it was to finally meet and chat and hope for more in the future with friends request as the title.

He simply replied ???? Must've thought I was some mad stalker.

Surely you had a great time too other wise why send the friends request

Sheepish reply back apologising and reluctantly praised me on my responses to his poor manners.

Feel so much better now

"

Go on yersell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't see any point in sending a friend request unless I have at least spoken to the person a little bit.. Usually I ask if it's alright to send one after having chatted for a bit xx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

if someone sends a random request, we just send a message asking why ..works for us , the idea of blocking seems a bit hard but each to their own ..

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