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By *oggingnflogging OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Can you ever go back to being completely vanilla after starting a swinging life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you ever go back to being completely vanilla after starting a swinging life "
no chance

Too much fun guys

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes as some of them will have better sex lives than swingers

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"yes as some of them will have better sex lives than swingers"
amazes me how folk thing joining fab makes them sex gods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes as some of them will have better sex lives than swingers"

I concur

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By *oggingnflogging OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab"
yes I think you if thats really what you want

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab"
I struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab"

It's perfectly possible to leave the swinging lifestyle and go back to a vanilla lifestyle - it's all horses for courses and different things tick different boxes for all of us at different times.

Each to their own

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Is it just me that thinks vanilla is one of the yummiest and most exciting flavours?

(sorry for dragging things off topic for a bit)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that thinks vanilla is one of the yummiest and most exciting flavours?

(sorry for dragging things off topic for a bit)"

Prefer raspberry ripple, yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla life can be so boring,

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi love fab life because you get to meet lot great people you would have never go to know it's just not about fun you can have but I love socail bit of it to so my answer is NO

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By *oggingnflogging OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Vanilla is a term I had never heard of or used until I started swinging and heard a few different people referring to their vanilla friends I.e the ones outside the swinging life style

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think vanilla for say couples would mean to leave the site and lead what would be classed as a typical couple lifestyle ie only having sex with each other not involving others or for a singles to go back to vanilla ie only meeting and having sex with partners.

How kinky someone thinks they are but others might think its all very vanilla because vannila can mean very dufferent things to many different people

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By *oggingnflogging OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

I think the social bit of it would be the hardest bit to let go

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Vanilla is a term I had never heard of or used until I started swinging and heard a few different people referring to their vanilla friends I.e the ones outside the swinging life style "
And this is so true for many no one really heard of a vanilla lifestyle until joining here

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think that it's possible, if both parties are happy with that and only want to be with each other

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By *oggingnflogging OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Is there a middle of the road where you might leave the life style for a bit then return seen a few profiles now with been away now back is this a common occurrence to leave and return

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Is there a middle of the road where you might leave the life style for a bit then return seen a few profiles now with been away now back is this a common occurrence to leave and return "

If we were taking a step away we would hide but not delete the profile. Then if we decided to return we wouldn't lose all the veris we have.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Is there a middle of the road where you might leave the life style for a bit then return seen a few profiles now with been away now back is this a common occurrence to leave and return "
pmsl its a staple some have had more profiles than hot dinners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! Tried it and it just wouldn't work for me. This is a lifestyle choice for me. I have that on my profile. Not a stop gap between relationships.

Xxx

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By *oggingnflogging OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

It always confuses the s**t out of me being male half and easily confused lol when you see a profile and it says joined e.g 5 days ago newest verification over a year ago wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case "
I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that "
a right wee goer when ya catch her n agnes together

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that "

Ive had her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that a right wee goer when ya catch her n agnes together "
saying nowt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that

Ive had her "
aye, after kola sloppy seconds

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that

Ive had her aye, after kola sloppy seconds "
think it was at the icelands orgy pesky farm foods tried to gatecrash _unkie threw them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I would miss it I think I could if I had to. We both love it and can't see us stopping any time soon but if she didn't feel she could do it any more and I had to pick between swinging and her I'd pick her. Hopefully I'll never have to pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that

Ive had her aye, after kola sloppy seconds think it was at the icelands orgy pesky farm foods tried to gatecrash _unkie threw them out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that a right wee goer when ya catch her n agnes together "

Damn, she told me her pal was Senga, misled again

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

When I hear vanilla I think of non kink

Opposite of BDSM

And couldn't go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that a right wee goer when ya catch her n agnes together

Damn, she told me her pal was Senga, misled again "
senga is Agnes sista

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that a right wee goer when ya catch her n agnes together

Damn, she told me her pal was Senga, misled again senga is Agnes sista"

Where was my invite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasent vanilla to start with lol I prefer fun fun fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that a right wee goer when ya catch her n agnes together

Damn, she told me her pal was Senga, misled again senga is Agnes sista

Where was my invite? "
ahhh I knew ye were Agnes in drag

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Is anyone truly vanilla as we all have a little kink in us , some more than others

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's the 21st century and people just seen so much more up for exploring different things now than they once were I think.

It's always been there but people are more open to it. I think do what you want in the moment. This is a lifestyle choice but you never know what's round the corner... Go with the flow.

Don't think I'll ever be vanilla, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone truly vanilla as we all have a little kink in us , some more than others "

Probably not just vanilla people are less open about it.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Is anyone truly vanilla as we all have a little kink in us , some more than others

Probably not just vanilla people are less open about it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....sex with Mr A is better than anyone I've met here....the meets although good haven't even come close.....my life as a whole couldn't be better and just have meets every now and again when we fancy....I can't imagine people not being able to live without that like it's their whole life x

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