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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Friend told me about this place was fun but to me it's shit I've tried talking to people all I get is my message deleted, any advice people all I want to do is delete this shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a great time here

Perhaps it's in your approach... attitude...profile...who knows?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you are not happy or the site is not what you expected. Click 'account' and 'delete profile' you then have option to hide or delete your profile.

If it's shit you don't have to stay. Find a site that's for you.

Good luck OP

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It's not sex on tap. Maybe your expectations need to be more realistic

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

You're a man

Need to learn patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world


"Friend told me about this place was fun but to me it's shit I've tried talking to people all I get is my message deleted, any advice people all I want to do is delete this shit "

It takes time hang on in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/08/16 22:21:37]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch the door disny hit yer ass on the way oot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the site instashag it's much better than here. I mean you just click a message away and boom.within the hour your shagging.

Fab is a bit more for adults who are willing to put the effort in. It is what you make of it after all.

Good luck with what you choose

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Friend told me about this place was fun but to me it's shit I've tried talking to people all I get is my message deleted, any advice people all I want to do is delete this shit "
op your profile has not a thing on it .

Perhaps sort that out .

Only you know what your looking for at the mo so do your profile stating what your looking for and what you have to offer ...good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be don't have a one word profile and don't tell everyone Fab is shit twice in one paragraph.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Try the site instashag it's much better than here. I mean you just click a message away and boom.within the hour your shagging.

Fab is a bit more for adults who are willing to put the effort in. It is what you make of it after all.

Good luck with what you choose "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck."

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck."

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sometimes I could have an attitude but not all the time, one thing I do lacking on is my profile and what's the best thing to say in a first message any tips

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient"

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol "

But true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I could have an attitude but not all the time, one thing I do lacking on is my profile and what's the best thing to say in a first message any tips"

Yes

Do your profile first

Often people will look at the profile first and if it is rubbish might not bother even opening the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree

Sort your profile out

I'd personally scroll by as you have nothing about who you are or what your looking for?

Yes your looking to get your leg over but what sort of chick floats your boat?

Good luck ...

Ps...negative headlines or updates are a huge turn off also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol "

Advice is too generic.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol

But true"

Oui, sorry I couldn't resist being cheeky

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol

But true

Oui, sorry I couldn't resist being cheeky "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol

But true"

He can be patient all day but he won't get very far with his profile.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol

But true

He can be patient all day but he won't get very far with his profile."

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks _awty max and for the rest of you I do apologise if I don't reply to all of you it's my first posting something in the forums and another thing does size matter for women and not talking about cock

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Thanks _awty max and for the rest of you I do apologise if I don't reply to all of you it's my first posting something in the forums and another thing does size matter for women and not talking about cock"

All have different tastes

I'm a big man. Still met people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I could have an attitude but not all the time, one thing I do lacking on is my profile and what's the best thing to say in a first message any tips"

Attitude is never attractive...that's the first thing to change. Your profile has to be "you". Fab is no different from real life. You have to be friendly and not pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks _awty max and for the rest of you I do apologise if I don't reply to all of you it's my first posting something in the forums and another thing does size matter for women and not talking about cock"
not all woman...believe it or not...us chicks have all diffrent tastes and fantasies also ..

Ps...don't let some stop you from posting as you said it's your 1st post and your asking genuine advice...this is supposed to be an open forum ..if someone can ask about cakes...shoebox...favorite biscuits and God knows what else...you can ask about anything you want...just be repaired for answers yum might not like or agree with tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I could have an attitude but not all the time, one thing I do lacking on is my profile and what's the best thing to say in a first message any tips

Attitude is never attractive...that's the first thing to change. Your profile has to be "you". Fab is no different from real life. You have to be friendly and not pushy."
eh...Iv an attitude and I'm sexy as feck

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thanks _awty max and for the rest of you I do apologise if I don't reply to all of you it's my first posting something in the forums and another thing does size matter for women and not talking about cock"
dont worry about size .

Some will like some wont just the same as im sure you have preferences yourself

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"sometimes I could have an attitude but not all the time, one thing I do lacking on is my profile and what's the best thing to say in a first message any tips

Attitude is never attractive...that's the first thing to change. Your profile has to be "you". Fab is no different from real life. You have to be friendly and not pushy.eh...Iv an attitude and I'm sexy as feck "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oldie_but_goody thanks for that people can say what they want even if it's rude comments doesn't bother me and for all the nice ones thanks for the advice much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how he seems like a decent guy? Never assume.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"See how he seems like a decent guy? Never assume."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I could have an attitude but not all the time, one thing I do lacking on is my profile and what's the best thing to say in a first message any tips

Attitude is never attractive...that's the first thing to change. Your profile has to be "you". Fab is no different from real life. You have to be friendly and not pushy.eh...Iv an attitude and I'm sexy as feck "

That's true...lol. Me too. I meant the "other" kind of attitude which we don't have!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Been on the site for 8 months.........and all you can manage is a 1 word profile??? Come on OP, d'you really think that's good enough.

Report card says; must try harder!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips on how to improve my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said earlier...

A profile is yours and yours alone..

What are you looking for...what type of chick/guy/tv you looking to find?

What's your likes/ dislikes

Ect....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And for my profile the way it is because last things I put up I don't like it I've recently just been active on here so think before judging just because I've been on here for 8 months with one word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lgnore the unnecessarily mean comments from women/couples. Pretty common if you are a guy so don't take it heart.

Put at least a scrap of effort into your profile and put more pics up. You will have success. There was your first bit of constructive criticism. Good luck.

I've already said because he's male he needs to be patient

That wasn't constructive enough _atmanh lol

But true

Oui, sorry I couldn't resist being cheeky "

And any of us are supposed to be surprised

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I said earlier...

A profile is yours and yours alone..

What are you looking for...what type of chick/guy/tv you looking to find?

What's your likes/ dislikes

Ect...."

What I'm looking for is chat make new friends and I've not really got a type and only looking for females and open to about anything

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"As I said earlier...

A profile is yours and yours alone..

What are you looking for...what type of chick/guy/tv you looking to find?

What's your likes/ dislikes

Ect....

What I'm looking for is chat make new friends and I've not really got a type and only looking for females and open to about anything "

Then put that on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And for my profile the way it is because last things I put up I don't like it I've recently just been active on here so think before judging just because I've been on here for 8 months with one word "

Mate, if you've only recently become active it's too early to expect much, on my first venture on here it took me 6 months or so to get my first social meet.

Be straight on your profile, be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said earlier...

A profile is yours and yours alone..

What are you looking for...what type of chick/guy/tv you looking to find?

What's your likes/ dislikes

Ect....

What I'm looking for is chat make new friends and I've not really got a type and only looking for females and open to about anything

Then put that on"
agree ...there you go ...your halfway there and here your chatting to folk on this very forum...Brucey bonus

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Any tips on how to improve my profile "

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Any tips on how to improve my profile

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya "

Flashback to 1st year at high school

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Any tips on how to improve my profile

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya

Flashback to 1st year at high school "

A pleasant one I hope lol

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Any tips on how to improve my profile

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya

Flashback to 1st year at high school

A pleasant one I hope lol "

Long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And for my profile the way it is because last things I put up I don't like it I've recently just been active on here so think before judging just because I've been on here for 8 months with one word

Mate, if you've only recently become active it's too early to expect much, on my first venture on here it took me 6 months or so to get my first social meet.

Be straight on your profile, be yourself "
is that fab straight or just straight straight

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And am gonna say the OP a thread lol

Verifications...

You will have to meet someone who is verified already. Can be a social meet or a play meet.

You can go to an organised social, see forum, organisors will be happy to verify you.

If you go to clubs, ask the owner to verify you.

I can be constructive lol

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"And am gonna say the OP a thread lol

Verifications...

You will have to meet someone who is verified already. Can be a social meet or a play meet.

You can go to an organised social, see forum, organisors will be happy to verify you.

If you go to clubs, ask the owner to verify you.

I can be constructive lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And for my profile the way it is because last things I put up I don't like it I've recently just been active on here so think before judging just because I've been on here for 8 months with one word

Mate, if you've only recently become active it's too early to expect much, on my first venture on here it took me 6 months or so to get my first social meet.

Be straight on your profile, be yourself is that fab straight or just straight straight "

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Hey ladys me donner un tour kinda like that ?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hey ladys me donner un tour kinda like that ?

"

Lol 'un tour' of what I wonder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any tips on how to improve my profile

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya

Flashback to 1st year at high school "
would rather forget about 1st year in high school

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Any tips on how to improve my profile

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya

Flashback to 1st year at high school would rather forget about 1st year in high school"

Think about 2nd year then

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Hey ladys me donner un tour kinda like that ?

Lol 'un tour' of what I wonder "
way to innocent to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just updated my profile if you's want to check it out and tell me what you all think And I've already been photo verified and again I'm all new to the forums still getting used to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any tips on how to improve my profile

Bonjour girls, je m'appelle John....

That's how I would start but not sure it would work for ya

Flashback to 1st year at high school would rather forget about 1st year in high school

Think about 2nd year then "
my high school days was pretty bad

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"I've just updated my profile if you's want to check it out and tell me what you all think And I've already been photo verified and again I'm all new to the forums still getting used to it"

Chat here. Get to know people bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just updated my profile if you's want to check it out and tell me what you all think And I've already been photo verified and again I'm all new to the forums still getting used to it

Chat here. Get to know people bud"
ok bud thanks for the advice

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hey ladys me donner un tour kinda like that ?

Lol 'un tour' of what I wonder way to innocent to say "

Lol... Am saying nothing

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Photo verification counts for little here, sorry to inform you.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"I've just updated my profile if you's want to check it out and tell me what you all think And I've already been photo verified and again I'm all new to the forums still getting used to it

Chat here. Get to know people bud ok bud thanks for the advice "

Gives people a glimpse of your personality and make friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thank you all for the advice much appreciate and you's are welcome to add me as a friend if you all want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the horrible cunts to get to fuck

No, don't do that, they will turn on you like a pack of wolves!

If you're here long enough you'll start meeting people. Go to socials and parties, they,are always fun.

Give your profile a wee jazz up, more pics etc.

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


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Then put that onagree ...there you go ...your halfway there and here your chatting to folk on this very forum...Brucey bonus "

Ah ah living on a prayer

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