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By *ndykay OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Shagging site?

Or

Swinging site?

Is there a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, there is! People need to be having sex to call it a shagging site

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I guess it depends on how your using the site really.

If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.

If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.

But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Shagging site?

Or

Swinging site?

Is there a difference? "

Yes. Next question?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.

If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.

If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.

But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good "

This

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian


"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.

If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.

If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.

But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good

This "

Plus respect each other's preferences and not judge them...............

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Swinging site for me. I enjoy the social and sexual side and meeting people who are like minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life x

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Swingers site for me I love social side it meeting people plus fun side off it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life x"
this to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now"

I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now

I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way."

I would love a friend with benefits to swing with! group sex turns me on

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.

If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.

If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.

But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good

This

Plus respect each other's preferences and not judge them..............."
Absoloutley!!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now

I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way."
the thing with the ultra positive outlook is you miss the subtle diffrences looking for a fwb is not looking for friendship its looking for someone to open more shagging doors.this is only my take on it but fab users are mostly focused on sex and not the friendship side of it. Oh many will snivel and brown nose to appear friendly but fade away once they get what they want.lts that fake side of humanity I dont like and its very prevelant here

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now

I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way."

Agreed. We've made many friends on here, some we play with and some we don't. It's a lifestyle choice for us.

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now

I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way.the thing with the ultra positive outlook is you miss the subtle diffrences looking for a fwb is not looking for friendship its looking for someone to open more shagging doors.this is only my take on it but fab users are mostly focused on sex and not the friendship side of it. Oh many will snivel and brown nose to appear friendly but fade away once they get what they want.lts that fake side of humanity I dont like and its very prevelant here "

I'm sure that's how you find it, but it is a big generalisation, but totally from your personal perspective which I totally respect. But for me its how I see it, I don't feel I miss out and get hood winked by those looking for a quick shag. I think I'm astute and intelligent enough to be able to spot the differences you mentioned.

And as the French would say

"Vive la difference"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think of it as a sex site. I joined with sex in mind

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

fabshaggers.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging

"A lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple. Swingers tend to refrain from romantic attachments with their outside partners, thus differentiating themselves from PolyAmorists. There is some overlap between the two communities, though the closeness of the comparisons are generally not acknowledged"

I'm sure many would disagree with this definition, especially as it doesn't really mention singles or the social side of it all.

Personally I use fab as a sex site with an eye to become more involved in the social scene....I suppose you could even argue that by using the forums you are already engaging in the social aspects of the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, there is! People need to be having sex to call it a shagging site "

That made my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex site

I'm not on here looking for friends

If I meet and become friendly great but I'm on here looking to meet for sex

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Sex site

I'm not on here looking for friends

If I meet and become friendly great but I'm on here looking to meet for sex

"

I agree

If friendship forms then bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's both

And whatever it is to each individual

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I use Fab as how I would like it,If you need to know just check out my profile...so yeah...I am also seeking experiences

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I've had the one that broke the camels back today

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Why label it ? Labels cause too much controversy just let it be whatever it is to the individual....

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Sex site not here to make new friends i have enough friends.My meeting times are limited my life is so hectic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything else, it's what you make it for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life x"

Exactly the same for me

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now

I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way.

Agreed. We've made many friends on here, some we play with and some we don't. It's a lifestyle choice for us."

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's Friends Reunited for adults who aren't friends yet...

Mandy

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Swinging for me

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Friends and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.

If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.

If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.

But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good "

this

xxx

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