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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question. Should you charge a fee or should everyone be free?

Want to host a party but want it classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hosted a few parties, usually ask for a small contribution for the apartment plus it seems to deter a lot of time wasters as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive attended 4 Socials in the early days of Fab ...I was never asked too pay for any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's in your own home then no, I don't think it's acceptable to charge, if you were having a party got friends and family would you charge them? If your hiring an apartment then yes, charging to recover the costs would be acceptable b

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Id say its simple you shouldnt be out of pocket......you shouldnt be making profit either

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've hosted quite a few parties and never charged... If we choose to have a party and invite people along then why would we then charge them? If a group of friends decide to hire an apartment and split the cost then that's a bit different.

K x

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By *onderful 13Man
over a year ago

middleton, Manchester

My view is that if its in your own home then charging isn't appropriate. To make it classy the best way would be to vet your attendees really well, maybe even meet socially if you have time and then have a ball.

If you're having to pay for a room or cabin then I agree that you shouldn't be out of pocket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive attended 4 Socials in the early days of Fab ...I was never asked too pay for any of them.

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that's all about tae change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its you that wants the party I don't think there should be any payment, just my opinion though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its you that wants the party I don't think there should be any payment, just my opinion though "

This ,,,

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If its you that wants the party I don't think there should be any payment, just my opinion though

This ,,, "

K x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Id say if its in your own home then no.

If your booking somewhere to host and wish guests to contribute towards the cost then yes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again if it's your home no...

It's your party what would folk be paying for?

If you want to keep it classy ..only invite those you know and want to be there ...

If it's an apartment then again only invite those you want and pm saying that your thinking of hiring an apartment anyone wanna chip in see who's interested...if it's a hall...and it's an actual social meet the hall is usually free if you can garentee a certain amount of folk ...but if it's gonna be an actual social and your opening up to the fab forum...I'd say charge £5 and you only get it back when you turn up on the night ...most folk don't touch buffets at these events...I know I don't as you don't know where fingers have been

If you say classy...your own home is best or an apartment

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four Fish Finger Rolls Please ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, as I thought. My home is ideal but isn't exactly private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down to the individual. Some people host parties rather than go to clubs and ask for a cost per head to cover food and soft drinks etc .. then take it in turns. That way they have who they want there as opposed to going to clubs and paying £30 or £ 40 to be around people they'd rather not be etc . But if it's a one off party at home I'd say no. Organised socials yes as there's gonna be costs to lay out for in most cases .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always just suggest they bring a bottle or whatever they would like to drink and maybe nibbles as we tend to do if we attend a party in someone's house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say house parties are the way forward now as that way you the host can decide who to invite as to any random paying or just turning up

Hope it all goes well

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

What everyone else has said, we've hosted a few parties and because we have to hire accommodation we split the cost between everyone and we provide soft drinks, nibbles, condoms, lube etc.

Hope it goes well and you have a fantastic night

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"Id say its simple you shouldnt be out of pocket......you shouldnt be making profit either"

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By *otskipCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We have hosted a few partys made food ect we would expect anyone to pay to come to our home . Organised socails ye we would charge a fee xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hosted a few house parties never asked for any payment all we asked was you came along and had a good time

Good luck and enjoy your night

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