FabSwingers.com forum: when your straight but guys still mail you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

anyone else have this problem... I know I can block them but far too many chancers out there....seen all the stories....I know your straight and so am I but do you want sucked....ha ha piss off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well erm...block them?

Or do you secretly like the messages?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I get it regularly. But I don't let it bother me.

I just explain that I'm not into guys and wish them good luck.

Stop stressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ha ha should not need to go blocking them lol.....I dint go mailing women and couples who are not looking for single guys.....respect my sexual preferences ha ha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"anyone else have this problem... I know I can block them but far too many chancers out there....seen all the stories....I know your straight and so am I but do you want sucked....ha ha piss off"
you have two choices block them from mailing you or just delete tje emails with no reply they will im sure get the point xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how have you been stranger x

"anyone else have this problem... I know I can block them but far too many chancers out there....seen all the stories....I know your straight and so am I but do you want sucked....ha ha piss offyou have two choices block them from mailing you or just delete tje emails with no reply they will im sure get the point xx"

how have you been stranger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a bit of a pain in the arse when you're at work and open a message to see a 15 inch cock looking at ye, and then see ye mate looking over ye shoulder. It takes some explaining.

Did you spot the pun?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"how have you been stranger x

anyone else have this problem... I know I can block them but far too many chancers out there....seen all the stories....I know your straight and so am I but do you want sucked....ha ha piss offyou have two choices block them from mailing you or just delete tje emails with no reply they will im sure get the point xx

how have you been stranger x"
very well thank you ...you?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It can be a bit of a pain in the arse when you're at work and open a message to see a 15 inch cock looking at ye, and then see ye mate looking over ye shoulder. It takes some explaining.

Did you spot the pun?

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now you know how us women feel only its not just but several everyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah not bad thanks plodding along getting haerased by cock hungry men ha ha

"how have you been stranger x

how have you been stranger xvery well thank you ...you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hunni block if it bothers you that much I still get the odd one and also talk to a few nice guys just chat but put on my profile and status like my latest one seems to have worked that I only have ff

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"yeah not bad thanks plodding along getting haerased by cock hungry men ha ha

how have you been stranger x

how have you been stranger xvery well thank you ...you?

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lol poor you

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The problem iz its where bi and gay guys get their action perhaps if guys in general were more honest it wouldnt be such a problem. I see my gay mail as admiration and in general guys accept a thanks but really straight here msg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get winks v tvs - n clearly I'm not looking for them

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The problem iz its where bi and gay guys get their action perhaps if guys in general were more honest it wouldnt be such a problem. I see my gay mail as admiration and in general guys accept a thanks but really straight here msg"

I agree with Kola. Many guys on here put straight on their profile but are not.

So the guys are just trying their luck.

I once asked a guy who had a verif from another guy on his profile why he had straight? He said whoops that verif should be hidden and then said that it is because a lot of ladies are not into bi guys so he's better off putting straight on his profile to up his chances on here

So coming from there you can't blame them really for trying.

If it bothers you as some have said block

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I presume all us straight males get such messages. I get far more admiration for my hat from men than I do from women

I don't mind really - it's flattering, even if I can't return the interest. But it did get to the point of being administratively burdensome, so I ended up blocking single males.

Which is a shame really, because it would be good to be able to chat with other blokes that I might get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to reply saying no thanks I'm straight, can't be arsed now so delete unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much the same as girls who put athletic good looking guys only on their profiles, and some fat ugly fucker msgs them saying their the best at eating pussy!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"ha ha should not need to go blocking them lol.....I dint go mailing women and couples who are not looking for single guys.....respect my sexual preferences ha ha"

Then don't block them ,but then don't complain about the choice you made .You can't control others actions but you can control yours.You've an easy fix to stop the angst .

I just see it rather strange you prefer to spend time raising a thread to complain, rather than just click the option to block all single guys who you keep saying you have zero interest in .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol that's me told off......

"ha ha should not need to go blocking them lol.....I dint go mailing women and couples who are not looking for single guys.....respect my sexual preferences ha ha

Then don't block them ,but then don't complain about the choice you made .You can't control others actions but you can control yours.You've an easy fix to stop the angst .

I just see it rather strange you prefer to spend time raising a thread to complain, rather than just click the option to block all single guys who you keep saying you have zero interest in . "

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By *akleonMan
over a year ago

Helensburgh

I get it all the time, it doesn't bother me ..... I simply ignore it

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"Hunni block if it bothers you that much I still get the odd one and also talk to a few nice guys just chat but put on my profile and status like my latest one seems to have worked that I only have ff

And such a pity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha ha should not need to go blocking them lol.....I dint go mailing women and couples who are not looking for single guys.....respect my sexual preferences ha ha

Then don't block them ,but then don't complain about the choice you made .You can't control others actions but you can control yours.You've an easy fix to stop the angst .

I just see it rather strange you prefer to spend time raising a thread to complain, rather than just click the option to block all single guys who you keep saying you have zero interest in . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha ha should not need to go blocking them lol.....I dint go mailing women and couples who are not looking for single guys.....respect my sexual preferences ha ha

Then don't block them ,but then don't complain about the choice you made .You can't control others actions but you can control yours.You've an easy fix to stop the angst .

I just see it rather strange you prefer to spend time raising a thread to complain, rather than just click the option to block all single guys who you keep saying you have zero interest in . "

Aren't you a laugh. Jeez. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get many every day. I generally like it when they are nice and take no but recently I've been considering blocking them. Some are getting obsessed and stalkerish. One offered me 150 pounds ffs. Another 50 to cam

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By *crue1Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

you can block guys from messaging. one person offered me £80 to have a wank in front of him. i kindly declined but still, it certainly gets you thinking...........£££££££££££

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi get it fair bit I just say no to them and just move on

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By *hatShyGuy71Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

I get several _iews per day but no messages.

Not even guys want to message me

lol.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"anyone else have this problem... I know I can block them but far too many chancers out there....seen all the stories....I know your straight and so am I but do you want sucked....ha ha piss off"

Sorry. My bad

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"It can be a bit of a pain in the arse when you're at work and open a message to see a 15 inch cock looking at ye, and then see ye mate looking over ye shoulder. It takes some explaining.

Did you spot the pun?

Sorry. My bad

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Sorry. My bad. (Tho in all honesty you should stop feeding me shots)

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"I presume all us straight males get such messages. I get far more admiration for my hat from men than I do from women

I don't mind really - it's flattering, even if I can't return the interest. But it did get to the point of being administratively burdensome, so I ended up blocking single males.

Which is a shame really, because it would be good to be able to chat with other blokes that I might get on with."

Sorry. Your bad. Can't even mail you

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"I get it all the time, it doesn't bother me ..... I simply ignore it

Sorry. My bad. That explains the read/no reply

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"I get it regularly. But I don't let it bother me.

I just explain that I'm not into guys and wish them good luck.

Stop stressing

Furry - YOU'RE UP!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Sorry. My bad. (Tho in all honesty you should stop feeding me shots)

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pmsl wont ever happen your even more funny tanked up on shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get it regularly. But I don't let it bother me.

I just explain that I'm not into guys and wish them good luck.

Stop stressing

Furry - YOU'RE UP!

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pmsl

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Sorry. My bad. (Tho in all honesty you should stop feeding me shots)

pmsl wont ever happen your even more funny tanked up on shots

After drinking shots bugger all happens!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"ha ha should not need to go blocking them lol.....I dint go mailing women and couples who are not looking for single guys.....respect my sexual preferences ha ha

Then don't block them ,but then don't complain about the choice you made .You can't control others actions but you can control yours.You've an easy fix to stop the angst .

I just see it rather strange you prefer to spend time raising a thread to complain, rather than just click the option to block all single guys who you keep saying you have zero interest in .

Aren't you a laugh. Jeez. Lol

I love a laugh!! I just don't have time for people who wont help themselves.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

The site has filter options so that only people within your preferences can contact you. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages on FabGuys from many men who have a "straight" profile on FabSwingers.

Several have said it's because many women don't want to meet with bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages on FabGuys from many men who have a "straight" profile on FabSwingers.

Several have said it's because many women don't want to meet with bi guys."

l have straight and even made as point of reiterating it on my profile and l still get messages daily. l don't mind most, but like l said some are getting clingy and keep pestering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"l have straight and even made as point of reiterating it on my profile and l still get messages daily. l don't mind most, but like l said some are getting clingy and keep pestering."

I guess it's been hijacked now so doesn't actually mean anything hence it's ignored. It's bizarre that guys would still contact you when you've clearly stated in your profile that you're straight. Mind you, many people don't get as far as bothering to actually read a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"l have straight and even made as point of reiterating it on my profile and l still get messages daily. l don't mind most, but like l said some are getting clingy and keep pestering.

Yeah that's a good point. l should probably put it at the top.

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By *nstant_classicMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

i got that before, although once i changed my filters it stopped. Although i do still get harassed a little on the chat, usually it's a pm with a line like "i know you're straight but...", I'll just stop you there pal hahaha. I've had a few "couples" messaging me too saying "my mrs wants to fuck you", so i'm like "give me a look at her then" and then unsurprisingly fuck all after that lol

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By *nstant_classicMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please please let me suck you.... Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please please let me suck you.... Please.

Ohhh View you are so polite

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Have guys blocked but still got asked if I needed sucked yesterday by a guy, don't know how

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Have guys blocked but still got asked if I needed sucked yesterday by a guy, don't know how"
previous corrospondence means can still be contacted

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Please please let me suck you.... Please.

Ohhh View you are so polite

Thanks

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Please please let me suck you.... Please.

Ohhh View you are so polite

Thanks

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is that not what you say when finished?

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Please please let me suck you.... Please.

Ohhh View you are so polite

Thanks

is that not what you say when finished?"

No, the straights are fleeing for their life just in case I ask them to go with me and pick soft furnishings

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"Have guys blocked but still got asked if I needed sucked yesterday by a guy, don't know howprevious corrospondence means can still be contacted "
ah

Need to just ignore instead of no thanks

Cheers

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Please please let me suck you.... Please.

Ohhh View you are so polite

Thanks

is that not what you say when finished?

No, the straights are fleeing for their life just in case I ask them to go with me and pick soft furnishings"
innocents dont they know the best coffee shops are in the furnishing depts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can single males not put filters on?

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Xxxx I get them all the time x

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By *ard to beatMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I got a message from a couple asking if I wanted to meet.

I accepted there offer and gave them my address.

Then the guy appears by himself!

I mean what the f##k ?

There profile said he was straight as does mine.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"i got that before, although once i changed my filters it stopped. Although i do still get harassed a little on the chat, usually it's a pm with a line like "i know you're straight but...", I'll just stop you there pal hahaha. I've had a few "couples" messaging me too saying "my mrs wants to fuck you", so i'm like "give me a look at her then" and then unsurprisingly fuck all after that lol"

Yup, even I'VE had those mails. I do enjoy a laugh though.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"innocents dont they know the best coffee shops are in the furnishing depts"

You make me laugh Kola. Never change bud.

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

Block them..or deal with messages and say no thanks. Not too hard, no?

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