FabSwingers.com forum: At what age

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Were you more confident?

I feel more confident in my 50s than ever before .

Always been a confident person but now I just feel it more not really sure why tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, always been pretty confident, but find now as i'm getting older, i'm becoming even more so, think its just that i'm not giving a f--k anymore. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Same, always been pretty confident, but find now as i'm getting older, i'm becoming even more so, think its just that i'm not giving a f--k anymore. lol.

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yeah think at the moment im thinking the same lifes just too short to give a f**k now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same, always been pretty confident, but find now as i'm getting older, i'm becoming even more so, think its just that i'm not giving a f--k anymore. lol.

yeah think at the moment im thinking the same lifes just too short to give a f**k now

hahaha, good girl.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've kinda always been like this. But as I've got older I've learnt not to sweat the small stuff so although I know I've a shit body, I don't worry about it anymore

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Professionally, I am very confident in that setting, always have.

Personality wise, I am getting more confident in my 40s.

However, I wouldn't call it confidence, i am able to take myself more by the hand and say to myself 'get a grip woman'. And do things.

Hope this makes sense

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Was quite shy as youngster but Tried to cover it with a big smile and bravado. still worry what people think about me, just not as much now and still very aware of my physique/shape/weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professionally, I am very confident in that setting, always have.

Personality wise, I am getting more confident in my 40s.

However, I wouldn't call it confidence, i am able to take myself more by the hand and say to myself 'get a grip woman'. And do things.

Hope this makes sense

Ohhh this

Although my 'get a grip woman' is sometimes a 'FFS' at myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professionally, I am very confident in that setting, always have.

Personality wise, I am getting more confident in my 40s.

However, I wouldn't call it confidence, i am able to take myself more by the hand and say to myself 'get a grip woman'. And do things.

Hope this makes sense

Ohhh this

Although my 'get a grip woman' is sometimes a 'FFS' at myself

Well if any of you ladies need to get a grip, I will always be here for you.

willing to help.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Professionally, I am very confident in that setting, always have.

Personality wise, I am getting more confident in my 40s.

However, I wouldn't call it confidence, i am able to take myself more by the hand and say to myself 'get a grip woman'. And do things.

Hope this makes sense

Ohhh this

Although my 'get a grip woman' is sometimes a 'FFS' at myself

Well if any of you ladies need to get a grip, I will always be here for you.

willing to help.

"
I was gonna say that its usually guys telling us to get a grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professionally, I am very confident in that setting, always have.

Personality wise, I am getting more confident in my 40s.

However, I wouldn't call it confidence, i am able to take myself more by the hand and say to myself 'get a grip woman'. And do things.

Hope this makes sense

Ohhh this

Although my 'get a grip woman' is sometimes a 'FFS' at myself

Well if any of you ladies need to get a grip, I will always be here for you.

willing to help.

I was gonna say that its usually guys telling us to get a grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm painfully shy, but it's getting easier the older I get. Definitely more confident now than I ever was. I certainly couldn't be doing anything like this if it wasn't for my hubby though. He helps with my confidence a lot xx

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Real confidence comes with age I think

Young are mostly bravado or arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30s

and more happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 31 this month and I'm still learning so much about myself ,but even now know what i like and what I want and I'm not slow in getting it lol

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm still waiting to reach the confident stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 31 this month and I'm still learning so much about myself ,but even now know what i like and what I want and I'm not slow in getting it lol

Chase me, Chase me. lol,

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Always been confident only think thats changed with age is my confidence levels in people

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"I'm 31 this month and I'm still learning so much about myself ,but even now know what i like and what I want and I'm not slow in getting it lol

Oh, we have heard

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mostly confident but I am sure we all have our little moments of insecurity.

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi most confident now and when I was younger I just enjoy life now is much has I can and do things I what to do in past I always put other people in front of me that's me mr nices guy but no more and I still think I nices guy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

" Hi most confident now and when I was younger I just enjoy life now is much has I can and do things I what to do in past I always put other people in front of me that's me mr nices guy but no more and I still think I nices guy

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thanks babe for

and looking forward to meeting you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Thanks babe for

and looking forward to meeting you

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likwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been confident... 40 next week so msybe it will start then. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I have a 'sexual/fab confident' & a 'real world' confident. Outwardly confident in both but have a wee secret wobble now & again. Although definitely more sexually confident in my 40's.....post divorce.

R x

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Still shy, but depends on the type of person you are to start with,I can be confident and the place I volunteer at put it this way,it's given me the confidence a he'll of a lot more in the 2 yrs and a bit there, plus you can meet a various of people in all forms of your life and well its how you treat one another really

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Ive still to find my confidence although often told i have a good front. Apart from when it comes to my career thats one area of my life i know inside out and have complete control over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I had kids I was chronically shy...after they came along you do talk to more folk

Since joining on here got better

Since turning 40 I don't give a shit anymore lol .so I'd say defo after turning 40 I'd say Iv came into my own...I'm me...and I like me and I don't care who dosnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were you more confident?

I feel more confident in my 50s than ever before .

Always been a confident person but now I just feel it more not really sure why tho lol "

Still waiting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not as crippled by shyness now, a victory of sorts on the way to confidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Max on this

Professionally/Business confidence, dare I say bordering on arrogance

On a personal level with women, not at all but growing slowly with some fabulous help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have always been a very confident person bordering on cocky.

A mental breakdown just after my 51st birthday broke all of that.

A constant battle with depression that lay hidden for over 40 years came to the surface and almost destroyed me.

I am now almost out the other side. Some of the confidence is back, has taken a lot of hard work on my part rebuilding and recreating my psyche.

Who I am now is who I should have been and not someone else's perception of who I should be.

At 55 I still have the heart and mind of a 25yr old and still compete physically with with guys in that age bracket. My knees no longer carry me the way they should.

My goal is to be completely out the other side by the end of this year. I know I will still have recurring bouts of depression but I am more equipped to deal with that now.

So yes in another 6 months or so I should be as close to the cocky wee smart arse I once was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be confident kinda lost it now esp when meeting new ppl really dont know why hopefully get it back start enjoying myself again ,mr

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Have always been a very confident person bordering on cocky.

A mental breakdown just after my 51st birthday broke all of that.

A constant battle with depression that lay hidden for over 40 years came to the surface and almost destroyed me.

I am now almost out the other side. Some of the confidence is back, has taken a lot of hard work on my part rebuilding and recreating my psyche.

Who I am now is who I should have been and not someone else's perception of who I should be.

At 55 I still have the heart and mind of a 25yr old and still compete physically with with guys in that age bracket. My knees no longer carry me the way they should.

My goal is to be completely out the other side by the end of this year. I know I will still have recurring bouts of depression but I am more equipped to deal with that now.

So yes in another 6 months or so I should be as close to the cocky wee smart arse I once was.

"
like the phoenix rising sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something is rising Jacs but I don't think it's a bird

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Something is rising Jacs but I don't think it's a bird "
pmsl nawty man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been confident in all aspects of my life at every age tbh

I'm kinda one of these people who doesn't care what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely since hitting 40 for us both

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