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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for the best message to send on first contact as a single guy. Ladies and couples what works best for you guys when a single guy first contacts you. Any suggestions greatly appreciated

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm not giving you my secrets

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

No point asking me mate I'm hopeless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Fancy a fuck?' works for me

Not really

Actually I would say hang around and join in on the forums - most people I chat with/have chatted to has been from something on a thread on here

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride


"'Fancy a fuck?' works for me

Not really

Actually I would say hang around and join in on the forums - most people I chat with/have chatted to has been from something on a thread on here "
good call mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think changing your choice of pics will get a message read at least but maybe not a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Fancy a fuck?' works for me

Not really

Actually I would say hang around and join in on the forums - most people I chat with/have chatted to has been from something on a thread on here "

Great cheers forum it is then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok too heavy on the cock pics then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think changing your choice of pics will get a message read at least but maybe not a reply"

I hadn't looked at your profile/pictures but will agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok what do you guys suggest

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Im a millionair .

I drive a fast car and own a massive house .

Id love it if you would meet with me in my villa in Marbella so we can get to know each other better .

My private chauffer will pick you up in the Bently and take you to the airport where you will board my private jet which will whisk us off to the sunshine ...that would work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok what do you guys suggest "

Thing is if we suggest then it's not 'you' anymore

A bit about yourself, what you like and what you are looking for/offering

Personally I like something silly and humorous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy ...

Introduce yourself and explain what you seek and what you seek in others.

Good Afternoon....I hope you dont mind me messaging you ..My name is Chookie.Ive been perusing some couples profiles of recent and i thought your profile inherited a message.I see you are looking for a Male to join you,I would embrace the opertunity to engage in some chat with you both in order too establish some mutual connection.

Ive read your profile and it states clearly you are a happily married couple with an appetite for mutual uncomplicated NSA sex.

If my profile has any interest to you please feel inclined to get in touch.

I also respect and no offence taken if you would rather decline.

Thank you for taking the time too read my message

Enjoy the rest of your day ..

Just an example ...i need change it though ..it disnae feckin work lol

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Mrs D is partly right but as the forums are only used by 10 percent of members you really need to concentrate on sending a short and precise message after carefully reading their profile hoping that your lookes and likes are close to theirs . If you only converse on the forums you've got to deal with the nutters like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easy ...

Introduce yourself and explain what you seek and what you seek in others.

Good Afternoon....I hope you dont mind me messaging you ..My name is Chookie.Ive been perusing some couples profiles of recent and i thought your profile inherited a message.I see you are looking for a Male to join you,I would embrace the opertunity to engage in some chat with you both in order too establish some mutual connection.

Ive read your profile and it states clearly you are a happily married couple with an appetite for mutual uncomplicated NSA sex.

If my profile has any interest to you please feel inclined to get in touch.

I also respect and no offence taken if you would rather decline.

Thank you for taking the time too read my message

Enjoy the rest of your day ..

Just an example ...i need change it though ..it disnae feckin work lol

"

Too feckin long....geezashagyabitch is a winning message

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Try...

I'm Chewbaccas shorter younger hairier brother. Wanna stroke my chest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys loads of good ideas suppose I'm just trying to make myself stand out from the nutters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally? And just my opinion so please feel free to disregard my thoughts lol.

I will not entertain any guy who has pics of him with another lass. Does she know she is in those pics? To me I am interested in you. Not pics of girls you have been with. Discretion is paramount to me and the knowledge that you could be using pics on your profile is a turn off straight away.

Secondly, cock shot as a profile pic and sending me them. Doesn't float my boat. Well thought out natural pics work for me and more than one. It is easy to look good in on pic lol. I find a few gives me a general idea of the physical appearance of the person. I always respond with a good few pics to let peeps see how I look.

Lastly, your personality can make or break if I interact with you. This is the same for me interacting with others too. There had to be a 'vibe' there for continued communication and don't take it personally if people aren't into you. I don't. And yes it happens to us single bi girls as well lol. We aren't all up our own arses

Happy Swinging!

Hugs

Pinky

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Pinky yeah girl on my profile pics does know she is on there we have taken pics of each other that we share but thanks for the good advice and feedback xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Pinky yeah girl on my profile pics does know she is on there we have taken pics of each other that we share but thanks for the good advice and feedback xxx"

I can only share what works for me. It may me different for others Hope you have loads of fun! Xxx

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban


"Im a millionair .

I drive a fast car and own a massive house .

Id love it if you would meet with me in my villa in Marbella so we can get to know each other better .

My private chauffer will pick you up in the Bently and take you to the airport where you will board my private jet which will whisk us off to the sunshine ...that would work for me "

Wouldn't work for me. Too many typos. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics would put me off

So prob wouldn't matter what your message said

Sorry

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im a millionair .

I drive a fast car and own a massive house .

Id love it if you would meet with me in my villa in Marbella so we can get to know each other better .

My private chauffer will pick you up in the Bently and take you to the airport where you will board my private jet which will whisk us off to the sunshine ...that would work for me

Wouldn't work for me. Too many typos. Lol"
as long as i get the gist of whats being said i dont mind lol

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