FabSwingers.com forum: please read profiles first before messaging.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys please read profiles before messaging as that way you wont waste your time or others time if your not what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometime i just send a compliment from a pic. is this frowned apon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no darling its not, compliments are nice, im just sick to death of young blokes and old geezers chancing the mitt i have a age range on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They won't stop cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont even look at the range, ill maybe start so i dont upset anyone

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Thats what the delete/block button is for....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thx for the advice _riendly foe

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always read profile, do not send any messages if I read that it would be not welcome.

But will compliment if I see a nice photo.

It is only polite to do that, as people have went to the trouble of putting stuff on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasnt meaning all men darling just the minority and yes its nice to recieve a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys please read profiles before messaging as that way you wont waste your time or others time if your not what they are looking for."
lost here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you needing directions rocker? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no darling its not, compliments are nice, im just sick to death of young blokes and old geezers chancing the mitt i have a age range on my profile.

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you also contradict what you are looking for in your verifications so can you blame guys for not paying too much notice?

jase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you needing directions rocker? lol

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no but some do

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

so anyone can send you messages as long as they pay you compliments...

but only the ones within in your age group may ask to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i said compliments are nice i wasnt asking anyone to pay me compliment as we all have different tastes hun.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes nothing wrong with preferences at all.

suggest you maybe expand on them within your profile to make them really clear.

you may find that will help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thx for the tips and advice View as im just new to this site.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Thx for the tips and advice View as im just new to this site.

Not a problem, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fabs ...get used to it is my advice it will always happen.... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no darling its not, compliments are nice, im just sick to death of young blokes and old geezers chancing the mitt i have a age range on my profile.

you also contradict what you are looking for in your verifications so can you blame guys for not paying too much notice?

jase"

We spotted jade... Age range stated yet ut meet that has verified u is outwith the range... So.... Can u blame guys for trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sometime i just send a compliment from a pic. is this frowned apon"

compliments happily accepted - even though i only got one on display now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

point taken jands but i had know that bloke for a few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys get it on the nose again ,some fems dont read some couples dont read its just one of these things you will have to deal with as it never stops and probably never will ...why post it on the forums though if they dont read your profile do you seriously think they are going to read a post here thats telling them to READ !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ha ha true hun

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

your profile says looking for a nice sexy man to chill with maybe those mailing you think they are that nice sexy man?

I think your profile needs a bit more information on exactly what it is your looking for and specify your age limits in your text because most do skim over the age range if your willing to meet a few years either way then say so saves any confusion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thx for you advice hunny. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5ft 7, i have met some fantastic lovely sexy ladies that ask "must be 6ft and over, oops, i mean im 6ft hhhhhhonset,lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Height doesnt bother me as im a wee short arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phewww, lol, thought i had shot meeself in foot with my honesty there, ty

T xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no you didnt darling

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

asking single guys to read profiles before messaging is like asking the average guy to read the instructions before building that self assembly furniture....

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok

It's always going to happen as long as single males out number fems! It's a shame as it makes it more difficult for everyone but no gonna change everyone will try there luck! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes plenty chance there lucky hunny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God, I wish all the fems and couples mailing us would read the profile first, jeez, it's literally hundreds a day...... Oh shit, time for my medication, toodle pip

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

il have to start reading profile maybe thats why i get blanked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am the same i dont read all the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i always read profiles if someone message me so i know if they are what im looking for , i always reply back politely if its to say no thx xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx for the tips and advice View as im just new to this site.

you may just be new babes but you are totally correct xx

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i agree with the op on this one, i have what age range am looking for but always get messages from young guys asking to meet i say thanks but not mu age renage then they tend to get a bit nasty so i block them or just ignore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im glad you agree with me ladies thx xx

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

sexyblueeyes i will let them borrow my glasses to read profiles as most dont bother or cant, why cant they just respect what profile says as its them who spoil it for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shocked, so your saying there is writing to read as well as pictures to look at on profiles !

I better go and have a look

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Just a thought, but I think if they are not going to read profiles, they are not likely to read the thread asking them to read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm shocked, so your saying there is writing to read as well as pictures to look at on profiles !

I better go and have a look

lol

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We try to be quite specific on our profile without sounding nasty. Doesn't matter what we write though, most mail we get totally ignores what is written.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

been on for 30 mins now and so far had 4 messages all from single guys under my age range, guys read before you send a message then you wont get short sharp replys like "cant you read" or "respect a profile in what it says", if not then be prepaired to get blocked

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