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What Decides That You Want Meet - Personality or Looks ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So Guys n Gals what Decides That You Want Meet - Personality or Looks ??

Me, I'm more a personality kinda guy.

love chat and good laugh on fab and see how it flows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both. Sometimes I just get a good feeling about meeting and go for it and other times I just flirt and see what happens. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def chat see if their is a connection and then social xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously looks play a part in it aye but you need a girl who has banter, who can have a laugh with you and not take jokes too seriously, also you need a girl you can have a conversation which just flows cause don't get me wrong, I've had some shit conversations with some girls, I swear I'd have a better convo with a plank of wood sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Guys n Gals what Decides That You Want Meet - Personality or Looks ??

Me, I'm more a personality kinda guy.

love chat and good laugh on fab and see how it flows

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Well said Horsey ..

Personality for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be able to laugh and chat or it's not happening looks are nice but a nice personality shines through xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There definitely has to be a connection that is more that looks, that mysterious chemistry we all seek, understand and have experienced but can't quite explain. It does not compromise the nature of the site... in fact it makes it easier to find I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh and lurpak or the occasional tree might help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to be an attraction 1st for me...needs to catch my eye..if he keeps me with his personality then that's a Brucey bonus

But wouldn't meet someone without both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality. If I can have a laugh and joke firstly then I'm intrigued. Looks come into it to but secondary.

I couldn't meet a hot guy that was dull and boring. I like to be mentally stimulated first.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Initially its looks that attract us on here .

If they have an amazing personality then thats the bonus

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Mostly looks first; then personality...

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Connection

Shared interests

The brain is the biggest turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks

Unless I'm blindfolded,

Then personality

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Bit of both, as many have suggested above.

But it depends on the nature of the meet. If you're having a quick one off, then it's mostly looks.

Otherwise, for a regular friend, then you definitely need the personality/chemistry....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Guys n Gals what Decides That You Want Meet - Personality or Looks ??

Me, I'm more a personality kinda guy.

love chat and good laugh on fab and see how it flows

"

Its all about reversing innit lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its all about reversing innit lol x"

I didn't think women could reverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its all about reversing innit lol x

I didn't think women could reverse "
using the right gearstick i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its all about reversing innit lol x

I didn't think women could reverse using the right gearstick i can "

Ah but can you park it in the right spot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its all about reversing innit lol x

I didn't think women could reverse using the right gearstick i can

Ah but can you park it in the right spot?"

Given the right length an breadth always get it first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met a boring bastard and don't intend to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Its all about reversing innit lol x

I didn't think women could reverse using the right gearstick i can

Ah but can you park it in the right spot?

Given the right length an breadth always get it first time "

Dependant on your definition of the right length and breadth that's quite impressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its all about reversing innit lol x

I didn't think women could reverse using the right gearstick i can

Ah but can you park it in the right spot?

Given the right length an breadth always get it first time

Dependant on your definition of the right length and breadth that's quite impressive "

Well if its too small you cant reverse into it you need good manoeuvering skills to get it just right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never met a boring bastard and don't intend to x"

Flippin heck ...Thats me oot ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its all about reversing innit lol x

I didn't think women could reverse using the right gearstick i can

Ah but can you park it in the right spot?

Given the right length an breadth always get it first time

Dependant on your definition of the right length and breadth that's quite impressive

Well if its too small you cant reverse into it you need good manoeuvering skills to get it just right "

Ah but some of us are quite precise when it comes to manoeuvres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Men talk I'm gonna bk out this thread slowly lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Men talk I'm gonna bk out this thread slowly lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally looks are there for the initial connection , however there's been people we've had fun with that their personality has shone through when there wasn't an initial attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality if they are hot then bonus

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By *ttard12356Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I've noticed the women worth meeting are the ones you chat too first build up a connection

Plus is filters out the fakes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed the women worth meeting are the ones you chat too first build up a connection

Plus is filters out the fakes x"

that goes for men too plenty fake men out there or ones that lead you on constantly

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Both for me too. But then I've been lucky I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks do eventually come into it but if I'm chatting with someone and the banter is good then I'd definitely meet for a social. Anyone that knows me on here knows the banter and laughter are high on my list.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"So Guys n Gals what Decides That You Want Meet - Personality or Looks ??

Me, I'm more a personality kinda guy.

love chat and good laugh on fab and see how it flows

"
a nice face but if the personality is crap then it a no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's essentially a personality thing for me, chat, banter find common ground and hopefully a sense of humour.

Then social to see if it works in real life

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

If someone was really boring....no matter how good looking....i'd walk away. Just don't see the point.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"If someone was really boring....no matter how good looking....i'd walk away. Just don't see the point. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely say it's the personality wins it for me plus you have to have a gsoh. Plus it's hard to judge via a pic and a profile until u come face to face .like about 3mnth ago met a couple in cjs aparently they had blocked me .and within 1hr of chatting they unblock me as I am a decent guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that say looks don't matter are lying! There has to be an attraction there to start chatting in the first place! Just because Shrek is sound as fuck, doesn't mean you'd what him

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I would first be for personality, but i do go for looks as well, I find that if you can laugh and tease one another,hold awesome conversations,make fun of one another

That saying im picky,prefer quality ie they have to have a certain va va voom(couldn't think if certain word lol)there needs to be a spark,even in conversations on here you can always feel it ooze through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both although I like good chat and if it flows easily between myself and a guy its all good. Looks do come into it though, has to be a physical as well as mental attraction if that makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you just click and the chat flows , looks play a small part as the chat and getting on with some takes over , same as in work , pub etc there is people who you just hit it off with and like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just go off how many dinosaurs they can name. Never failed us

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Both

I look for someone nice to look at with a good personality.

A good personality with a paper bag over their head wouldn't do it for me am afraid

Chemistry is generated from both the personality and the spark in one's eye and smile etc... At least it does for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just go off how many dinosaurs they can name. Never failed us "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but when you make an effort to write to a girl .

Then all you get back is thanks but no thanks .or your no my cup of tea .

Which does mean lots of girls go for pretty boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just go off how many dinosaurs they can name. Never failed us "

Excellent idea. Will be trying this in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but when you make an effort to write to a girl .

Then all you get back is thanks but no thanks .or your no my cup of tea .

Which does mean lots of girls go for pretty boys "
but just because your not someone's cup of tea...dosnt mean your not everyone's cup of tea?

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's both for me, looks and personality, you get people saying I'm not interested in looks but I think that's bollocks tbh. I couldn't meet a guy who looked like my ex lol, hence looks do come into it in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If looks don't come into it then any holes a goal

Hate those profiles that say looks...weight..height...age dosnt matter...really???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first and foremost, then if we get on i will meet, if not then i wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate Womens profiles that belittle themselves in relation to their weight.

Swinging isnt about size ..Uts about making a mutual connection....

Agreed looks do play a part ..but for me personality ticks boxes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chookie...you said you wouldn't meet me as I had the looks of a goddess but the personality of a wet fish ..gutted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chookie...you said you wouldn't meet me as I had the looks of a goddess but the personality of a wet fish ..gutted... "

At least ya know your "plaice" ya big "Trout" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi...leave my lips out of this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ya kiss like a Fish ...? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah...all wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah...all wet "

Ya Teasing Kipper x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Salmon il have you know...or old Trout....can never remember?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Guys n Gals what Decides That You Want Meet - Personality or Looks ??

Me, I'm more a personality kinda guy.

love chat and good laugh on fab and see how it flows

Its all about reversing innit lol x"

pmslllll

I hear ya, I really Do Hear Ya

lolllllll

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