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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See many profile pics with chicks with the words like Cum slut or Cum bucket wrote on them or fems that have I'm a little slut in their profiles...

Now I'm not prudish ..well not much lol but...

Does that give guys mixed messages that That's what chicks want called on here?

But no means I'm a slut and if I'm totally honest if I see these certain words on guys profiles or veris immediately I'm turned off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See many profile pics with chicks with the words like Cum slut or Cum bucket wrote on them or fems that have I'm a little slut in their profiles...

Now I'm not prudish ..well not much lol but...

Does that give guys mixed messages that That's what chicks want called on here?

But no means I'm a slut and if I'm totally honest if I see these certain words on guys profiles or veris immediately I'm turned off..

"
to be honest I abhor the word slut,and I actually walked out on having some playtime in the after8 with a couple after the male called his wife a slut and a whore

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

That would never entice me to use those words to any or every lady on here

But there are ladies here who want these names used, get a thrill from it

But to use them for everyone would be idiotic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm only going with the profiles and pics Iv saw

Had a few messages with these words in them and I'm like wtf would someone send an opening message with these words in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh i think its more of a turn off if anything.

Who agrees ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me!!

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Anyone who uses these words straight away is an idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're very the same, if we get messages with that language it puts us off.

We're all here for the same thing, but no need to be disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who uses these words straight away is an idiot"

Such language does nothing for me but if it were to be used it would be with someone I had been playing with for some time and therefore very comfortable with either in fun or as part of roleplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See many profile pics with chicks with the words like Cum slut or Cum bucket wrote on them or fems that have I'm a little slut in their profiles...

Now I'm not prudish ..well not much lol but...

Does that give guys mixed messages that That's what chicks want called on here?

But no means I'm a slut and if I'm totally honest if I see these certain words on guys profiles or veris immediately I'm turned off..

"

Its a turn off for me ....Its fine if your having banter over messages in a fun way ....or even in sexual act..

Like DLT has said .....ive seen some Men call their Wife/partner.disrespectful buzz words for their own sexual gain .....it isnt nice ..

Good post Goody ..Ya Nymph x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It depends in the context its being said I think .

As others have said if its between two people who meet regarly or in banter between friends its fine I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol Cheers chooster

Yes I get the role play thing and not a problem with that

And I know there obviously some chicks on here that gets off on being called such things

Just when I see it in messages or on veris I'm like

Arghh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain words are fine used under the right circumstances. I personally like them used correctly by the right people. Saying that if a random called me a slut I wouldn't be amused

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I detest the c word but would say it for an acquaintance as she enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind it in sex but not outside the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree not nice to call or be called those names unless it's what someone likes within certain circumstances , for example roleplay but a little respect goes a long way xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not language we'd ever use on our profile to describe Mrs J & not something we'd call people or use in messages. We have been known to use language like that as part of dirty talk fantasies when we're together, just the two of us, but only because we both know that it's roleplay & neither of us believe that it is actually true.

mr j

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its totally about the situation and the person, some people are really turned on by the use of such terms and it enhances their experience. As long as both parties enjoy its all good.

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