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By *adgey1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cairo

Both of us are newbies to this looking for advice or tips on equipment scenarios etc any advice welcomed ??

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

What roles are you?

Only equipment you really need is imagination

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Feels odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful if you decide to play with chains.....they can leave very nasty welt marks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to build trust to be able to do this play properly , look out for workshops and talk to others who are into the same things also safety first , it's so intense and amazing if you let go and enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to build trust to be able to do this play properly , look out for workshops and talk to others who are into the same things also safety first , it's so intense and amazing if you let go and enjoy xx"

Indeed, its fundamentally a question of trust.

I would start by soft sensual spanking...

I have some video links from some sites if you want to know where to begin...PM me.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the person and the situation. .Some people love that sort of language it enhances their experience. As long as both parties agree it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details."

I just joined fet life after meeting the demonstrators at cjs on sat they suggested I join ,it's very good nice to talk to people and get advice and tips from those who know what they are doing , and I can't wait to explore more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful if you decide to play with chains.....they can leave very nasty welt marks!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful if you decide to play with chains.....they can leave very nasty welt marks! "

What? That's sound advice would you not agree....?

Anyway you can't beat me at a good auld stare oot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can beat you at a stare out...but that's the only beating il ever agree too!!

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details.

I just joined fet life after meeting the demonstrators at cjs on sat they suggested I join ,it's very good nice to talk to people and get advice and tips from those who know what they are doing , and I can't wait to explore more xx"

Fet is quite cliqueyou though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details.

I just joined fet life after meeting the demonstrators at cjs on sat they suggested I join ,it's very good nice to talk to people and get advice and tips from those who know what they are doing , and I can't wait to explore more xx

Fet is quite cliqueyou though"

I'm sure I was just chatting to you lol , but yes it can be just don't get to involved at first see if it's right for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can beat you at a stare out...but that's the only beating il ever agree too!! "

Haha,I save my raised eyebrow for people that jump to the wrong conclusions......that's you

I don't have to justify,clarify or explain my posts to idiots.........so I won't!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

With the amount of wannabe mr grays on here I wouldnt take any advice. research research and follow that up with more research. Like most thinks take it slow and expect mistakes if you start slow theres more chance of these being just teething problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can beat you at a stare out...but that's the only beating il ever agree too!!

Haha,I save my raised eyebrow for people that jump to the wrong conclusions......that's you

I don't have to justify,clarify or explain my posts to idiots.........so I won't! "
il raised that raised eyebrow to a

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details.

I just joined fet life after meeting the demonstrators at cjs on sat they suggested I join ,it's very good nice to talk to people and get advice and tips from those who know what they are doing , and I can't wait to explore more xx

Fet is quite cliqueyou though

I'm sure I was just chatting to you lol , but yes it can be just don't get to involved at first see if it's right for you xx "

Of course you are chatting to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details.

I just joined fet life after meeting the demonstrators at cjs on sat they suggested I join ,it's very good nice to talk to people and get advice and tips from those who know what they are doing , and I can't wait to explore more xx

Fet is quite cliqueyou though

I'm sure I was just chatting to you lol , but yes it can be just don't get to involved at first see if it's right for you xx

Of course you are chatting to me"

I'm not I was having a shower lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can beat you at a stare out...but that's the only beating il ever agree too!!

Haha,I save my raised eyebrow for people that jump to the wrong conclusions......that's you

I don't have to justify,clarify or explain my posts to idiots.........so I won't! il raised that raised eyebrow to a "

Go for it,do your worst with your limited vocabulary of emoticons.......

It's a damn sight better than insinuating I like to beat women at least!

Interpretation for the hard of thinking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse me ?

When did I insinuate you beat women?

Obviously you took what I said Way out out context

Really sorry if I offended you

But by no means did I say you beat women.

Ps....I'm no idiot either...and that wasn't took out of context

But hey ho

Live near learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse me ?

When did I insinuate you beat women?

Obviously you took what I said Way out out context

Really sorry if I offended you

But by no means did I say you beat women.

Ps....I'm no idiot either...and that wasn't took out of context

But hey ho

Live near learn "

Right....you gave me the staring eyes emoticon which conveys dissaproval in response to my first comment....

I asked you to elaborate,asked why you dissaproved....which you chose to ignore.

To this I added multiple staring eyes emoticons and jokingly said you can't beat me in a stare out comp.......

You replied yes you can but that would be the only kind of beating you would agree to,along with more emoticons used to convey dissaproval/raised eyebrows ect.

There are only 2 kinds of beatings you could be talking about in my view and I'm sure you weren't referring to a grouse beating!

You didn't have to say it,you insinuated it with that sentence and hostile emoticons.

We'll just have to agree to dissagree for the sake of civility but there's no way I was letting that go unchallanged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse me ?

When did I insinuate you beat women?

Obviously you took what I said Way out out context

Really sorry if I offended you

But by no means did I say you beat women.

Ps....I'm no idiot either...and that wasn't took out of context

But hey ho

Live near learn

Right....you gave me the staring eyes emoticon which conveys dissaproval in response to my first comment....

I asked you to elaborate,asked why you dissaproved....which you chose to ignore.

To this I added multiple staring eyes emoticons and jokingly said you can't beat me in a stare out comp.......

You replied yes you can but that would be the only kind of beating you would agree to,along with more emoticons used to convey dissaproval/raised eyebrows ect.

There are only 2 kinds of beatings you could be talking about in my view and I'm sure you weren't referring to a grouse beating!

You didn't have to say it,you insinuated it with that sentence and hostile emoticons.

We'll just have to agree to dissagree for the sake of civility but there's no way I was letting that go unchallanged!"

Just wondering if you felt that was threatening or insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how that got soo out of context

Obviously I need to use my icons more carefully lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea how that got soo out of context

Obviously I need to use my icons more carefully lol "

You are so harsh with those insulting icons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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There you go again with that insulting icon action again.

I think I might as well leave Fab right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops my bad

God I think I may need punished?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops my bad

God I think I may need punished?"

Before I leave I will have you taken to CJs dungeon and flogged with threatening icons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone say dungeon and flogged I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say dungeon and flogged I'm in "

Oooohhh if only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on Fetlife. Read as much as you can.

Find out what you like and if there any clubs near you. People into the scene are usually very friendly and helpful.

There's a regular munch held in Glasgow if you want more details.

I just joined fet life after meeting the demonstrators at cjs on sat they suggested I join ,it's very good nice to talk to people and get advice and tips from those who know what they are doing , and I can't wait to explore more xx

Fet is quite cliqueyou though"

cant say we have noticed this about fet, great site for plenty of reasons, less stupid messages for one.

id say to the op try that site and get advice as opposed to asking it on here.

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