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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone help haven't been very horny lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be the heat, I hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah I don't know what's wrong lol

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi there maybe you just need to find right preson to light you fire again with special touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet a could change that mrs

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

It happens. Then one day you'll wake up rampant

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Have you just had a few bad experiences to put you off? Or maybe something else stressing you? Need to talk...?

I find sex is better when there is chemistry/attraction, rather than a wham bam thank you mam....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone help haven't been very horny lately "

sex is mostly mental stimulation, if you're meeting guys who think grabbing your tit and sticking their dick in you whilst saying, yeah baby you love it! Then sex becomes boring and the horn goes dormant!! Maybe you need to try something new.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!

Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!

hey, I cant see you not appealing to anyone, they must of all been blind d*unk, get back out there, and show em. x

Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!"

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!

Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!"

Boobs, why should it be a reflection on you??

Let's flip this!! From what I have seen at Cjs and Socials, it could well be that the Men present were too shy to chat to you, were intimidated by you, were thinking she is oot ma league, that the female of the couple was, well... you know how girls can be and said to the male stay away... Lots of reasons that have nothing to do with you but others

I was at a social a year ago, guys were at the bar not talking to me BUT they were messaging me on Fab and some messaged me the day after for a social but never spoke to me during the organised social I was at for 5 hours

The problem wasnt with me but with them... no balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone help haven't been very horny lately

sex is mostly mental stimulation, if you're meeting guys who think grabbing your tit and sticking their dick in you whilst saying, yeah baby you love it! Then sex becomes boring and the horn goes dormant!! Maybe you need to try something new."

Well Said I totally agree

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!

Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!

Boobs, why should it be a reflection on you??

Let's flip this!! From what I have seen at Cjs and Socials, it could well be that the Men present were too shy to chat to you, were intimidated by you, were thinking she is oot ma league, that the female of the couple was, well... you know how girls can be and said to the male stay away... Lots of reasons that have nothing to do with you but others

I was at a social a year ago, guys were at the bar not talking to me BUT they were messaging me on Fab and some messaged me the day after for a social but never spoke to me during the organised social I was at for 5 hours

The problem wasnt with me but with them... no balls "

Lol! Perhaps if it had just been the once I'd agree, but it's happened at Aberdeen twice this year as well. I still met plenty of lovely people to chat to though, had a good evening

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!

Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!

Boobs, why should it be a reflection on you??

Let's flip this!! From what I have seen at Cjs and Socials, it could well be that the Men present were too shy to chat to you, were intimidated by you, were thinking she is oot ma league, that the female of the couple was, well... you know how girls can be and said to the male stay away... Lots of reasons that have nothing to do with you but others

I was at a social a year ago, guys were at the bar not talking to me BUT they were messaging me on Fab and some messaged me the day after for a social but never spoke to me during the organised social I was at for 5 hours

The problem wasnt with me but with them... no balls

Lol! Perhaps if it had just been the once I'd agree, but it's happened at Aberdeen twice this year as well. I still met plenty of lovely people to chat to though, had a good evening "

Cool and nah, I have never 'seen' so many 'shy' guys in the last few months. Must be something int the air affecting the guys Nothing to do with ya I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Shy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone help haven't been very horny lately "

I just can't be arsed these days lol meets are becoming non existent and club visits aren't doing much for me at all.

Time out and give yourself time

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Im Shy ...

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Of course you are

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Someone help haven't been very horny lately "

Difficult to help as you're not giving much info. There could be lots of reasons why you are turned off, from being bored of Fab, to hormonal, to being stressed and each have a different answer to.

So for now, I will give ya a big hug x

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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You're only 18? Lol just a phase. I go through phases of not being that fussed, and other times I am. Happens all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 18!!

Christ youth hormones aint even kicked in yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your 18!!

Christ youth hormones aint even kicked in yet "

Thats maybe whit im feeling just now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unusual at such a young age. Maybe you are putting too much focus on it? Could be you maybe need to try and go with the flow a little more, let it happen more naturally? Or, maybe subconsciously you are craving more than simply sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unusual at such a young age. Maybe you are putting too much focus on it? Could be you maybe need to try and go with the flow a little more, let it happen more naturally? Or, maybe subconsciously you are craving more than simply sex?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mojo fluctuates. I sometimes find sex a bit souless as the stuff I really enjoy isn't the sort of stuff u can do with strangers. U need trust and rapport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I just want to be held and cuddled, plus just kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I just want to be held and cuddled, plus just kiss "

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be


"Sometimes I just want to be held and cuddled, plus just kiss

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By *yz69Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe you need a few social meets to build up the lust and desire. Hopefully this will help and you will end up with some passionate sex when you are ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should leave a swingers site and try find a boyfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.

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oooo, now that is bad, not even having a wank, get to the doctor quick, you got a prob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.

oooo, now that is bad, not even having a wank, get to the doctor quick, you got a prob. "
nah nah, I'm all better now, found new sites & apps where people aren't as......well like the way they are on fab

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world


"Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.

oooo, now that is bad, not even having a wank, get to the doctor quick, you got a prob. nah nah, I'm all better now, found new sites & apps where people aren't as......well like the way they are on fab"

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"My mojo fluctuates. I sometimes find sex a bit souless as the stuff I really enjoy isn't the sort of stuff u can do with strangers. U need trust and rapport."

That's got to be built over time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everybody, I think a few days ago I just got fed up with the crazy messages I was getting lol x

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Thanks everybody, I think a few days ago I just got fed up with the crazy messages I was getting lol x "

Hey. Don't let the loon balls get to you xxx

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