FabSwingers.com forum: Pros and cons in the world of fab

By *oody2shoes OP Woman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Eveyone seem to have things that annoy them about the site. Often focusing on the negative.

So just wondering what people like about it and what pet hates they have.

I like the fact ive meet some amazing people and you get so many interesting people I wouldnt have met in my normal day to day life.

I like the fact i met someone who ticks all my boxes and thinks same way as me.

I dont like the people judging and causing issues. Even worse when it people who dont even really know.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like fact that I can dip in and out and I love the times that I had on here.

I don't care for the needy attention simpering fools, both men and women that exist. That being said, they don't cause me any angst as I am indifferent to it all. They can do as please

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Attention seeking*

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Alot of nice genuine folk unfortunatly due to the nature of the site its also a breeding ground for two faced folk

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Overall I've had an amazing time on here meeting some fabulous people and made many many friends.

I do what I joined here to do and that's have fun and boy I've hadone plenty of that .

Just stay away from the drama and it's all good xx

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"Alot of nice genuine folk unfortunatly due to the nature of the site its also a breeding ground for two faced folk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy that there are plenty of members who know how swinging should work and make it fun. It is unfortunate that we've encountered so many users who feel it necessary to tell lies instead of being upfront though.

The site as a whole is good though and has a few good features.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know who you are going to meet and its always exciting when you meet new people. On the negative side there are always judgmental people in all walks of life but it surprises me to find so many on here when you would think the nature of the site would lead to much more enlightened _iews, However over all fab is fab lol

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By *oody2shoes OP Woman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

"Overall I've had an amazing time on here meeting some fabulous people and made many many friends.

I do what I joined here to do and that's have fun and boy I've hadone plenty of that .

Just stay away from the drama and it's all good xx "

Yeah must say ive alot more fun since taking a leaf out ur book

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Overall I've had an amazing time on here meeting some fabulous people and made many many friends.

I do what I joined here to do and that's have fun and boy I've hadone plenty of that .

Just stay away from the drama and it's all good xx

Yeah must say ive alot more fun since taking a leaf out ur book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like that it helps me have sex lol

I don't like the judgement and unnecessary arrogance from some members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the fact I can have anonymity, I can choose who I open up to and I find it exciting when I get chatting to someone compatible.

I dislike the fact that too many users of the site have massive unwarranted egos, moan about trivial things and in a lot of cases behave worse than children.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I like the fact I can have anonymity, I can choose who I open up to and I find it exciting when I get chatting to someone compatible.

I dislike the fact that too many users of the site have massive unwarranted egos, moan about trivial things and in a lot of cases behave worse than children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also dislike that nobody is talking to me recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also dislike that nobody is talking to me recently

Hello

Waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! Hiya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yay! Hiya!"

What do you want to talk about then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also dislike that nobody is talking to me recently

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I like the people I've met and talk to.

I also like the fact that I can walk away when I get bored and come back again when I want to.

I get fed up with the moaning. Life's too short. Don't sweat the small shit. And don't deliberately set out to wind others up - use your time more constructively - have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also dislike that nobody is talking to me recently

Lovely....thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yay! Hiya!

What do you want to talk about then ??

What's Father Jack really like?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Yay! Hiya!

What do you want to talk about then ??

What's Father Jack really like?"

Worse than you can imagine but he loves rabbits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And his brick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Places is full of pros and cons in equal measures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only real con is the people themselves can be a little up themselves eg looking for Adonis when they are far from perfect themselves. Actually maybe it's a pro cos I do laugh at those profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the fact I can have anonymity, I can choose who I open up to and I find it exciting when I get chatting to someone compatible.

I dislike the fact that too many users of the site have massive unwarranted egos, moan about trivial things and in a lot of cases behave worse than children.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I like fact that I can dip in and out and I love the times that I had on here.

I don't care for the needy attention simpering fools, both men and women that exist. That being said, they don't cause me any angst as I am indifferent to it all. They can do as please

I have to agree with this.

There was a time I used to care what people on the internet thought of me. Now I don't care.

I never set out to offend anyone so don't let anyone bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like fact that I can dip in and out and I love the times that I had on here.

I don't care for the needy attention simpering fools, both men and women that exist. That being said, they don't cause me any angst as I am indifferent to it all. They can do as please

I have to agree with this.

There was a time I used to care what people on the internet thought of me. Now I don't care.

I never set out to offend anyone so don't let anyone bother me. "

I think your lovely

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I like fact that I can dip in and out and I love the times that I had on here.

I don't care for the needy attention simpering fools, both men and women that exist. That being said, they don't cause me any angst as I am indifferent to it all. They can do as please

I have to agree with this.

There was a time I used to care what people on the internet thought of me. Now I don't care.

I never set out to offend anyone so don't let anyone bother me.

I think your lovely "

I think that should be you're...

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"I like fact that I can dip in and out and I love the times that I had on here.

I don't care for the needy attention simpering fools, both men and women that exist. That being said, they don't cause me any angst as I am indifferent to it all. They can do as please

I have to agree with this.

There was a time I used to care what people on the internet thought of me. Now I don't care.

I never set out to offend anyone so don't let anyone bother me.

I think your lovely

I think that should be you're..."

Never let it get to me now. I've realised I'm an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros, thought they were against site rules

Cons, well so far I've kept both sons out of jail but I'm worried about the Dundee Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros, thought they were against site rules

Cons, well so far I've kept both sons out of jail but I'm worried about the Dundee Social

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Haha only been as far as the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so hard to meet women on here,if your not verified by a woman women aint interested but how are you supposed to get verified if no one wants to meet you grrr! # frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good for a perv at best

However reading folk trying to cadge lifts to CJs and berating men for having the gall to message them is depressing

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By *oody2shoes OP Woman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

"It's good for a perv at best

However reading folk trying to cadge lifts to CJs and berating men for having the gall to message them is depressing "

Not a problem ive experienced but imagine it would be annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the fact I can have anonymity, I can choose who I open up to and I find it exciting when I get chatting to someone compatible.

I dislike the fact that too many users of the site have massive unwarranted egos, moan about trivial things and in a lot of cases behave worse than children.

Il second that totally agree hunni

It's shocking how some people behave towards others sometimes bad attitudes and ego trips

But it's amazing when you can have fun with someone who is into the same things as you its all about good fun x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

The good: The fun meets

The bad: Haven't really come across anything.

As others have said, if you just dip in and out for occasional fun then there shouldn't really be any negatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few years ago I would've had nothing but good things to say about fab, now it's the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that annoys me is the ratio of woman to men lol x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I love it when someone you met ages ago messages you out of the blue and you catch up and have fun.

The site is full of interesting people that are great fun to know.

It's given me a social life that I wouldn't have had otherwise.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I love it when someone you met ages ago messages you out of the blue and you catch up and have fun.

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me too an old friend rejoined and messaged me yesterday.... that made my day

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