FabSwingers.com forum: Regular fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See this on profiles all the time...

Only regular fun I want is with my husband....this is just a small add on

I see a guy from down south I meet maybe 3/4 times a year when he's up

and the very odd occasion I actually click with someone on here but I only meet very very occasionally...

If your a cpl playing alone..how regular is regular to you?

Or if your a single playing...how regular is regular to you?

Curious to see if there's a difference?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"See this on profiles all the time...

Only regular fun I want is with my husband....this is just a small add on

I see a guy from down south I meet maybe 3/4 times a year when he's up

and the very odd occasion I actually click with someone on here but I only meet very very occasionally...

If your a cpl playing alone..how regular is regular to you?

Or if your a single playing...how regular is regular to you?

Curious to see if there's a difference?

"
pmsl still hate timescales fluidity is best for me

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Once a month would be regular to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it with the same guy tho?

I get messages from guys asking for regular fun and I'm like...erm...how regular is regular ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week= regular but can be more or less too..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a week= regular but can be more or less too..x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i'm lucky, regular to me is once a

year, but its getting less regular all the time.

HELP NEEDED.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Regular is once or twice a month

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being married I don't think I would want to meet the same guy once a week...or my husband for that matter...

But I suppose if your single it's diffrent?

I think too regular and the excitement would get lost?

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By *el82xxWoman
over a year ago

Stirling

Well as a single (parent) who wants regular meets I have to say regular to me is any time I have 1/2 spare x

I have old friends on here that stop by for a quick suck while I'm making dinner lol x

Seriously tho I'd probably like to hook up 4-5 times a wk if I can not always possible tho x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Is it with the same guy tho?

I get messages from guys asking for regular fun and I'm like...erm...how regular is regular ? Lol

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maybe 2 different playmates only seeing once every 2 months

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

At least once a week if its with the same lady.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Probably every few weeks for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gosh lol

Last meet I had was 3 months ago

But I think that's OK for me ..maybe if I was single and more free time I would meet more?

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Being married I don't think I would want to meet the same guy once a week...or my husband for that matter...

But I suppose if your single it's diffrent?

I think too regular and the excitement would get lost?"

I think you're right about clicking with someone, so regular could be anything from 2-3 times a year or as often as once a fortnight. It depends on how often you're both free to play. If both people are comfortable enough with the time interval between meets, and both think the other is worth waiting for to play with then regular can mean just about anything.

I've chatted to females who, when they say regular, mean they want to you to be able to come meet at least once a week, and if not, they're not interested.

As an occasional player, I'd look forward to meeting someone occasionally who I know I'm going to have a wonderful naughty time with, and would like to think she feels the same.

I guess it's a bit like friends. Good friends can be apart for months, then just pick up where they left off

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

We meet when we can ?? can be weekly can be monthly but still consider us as regular swx dates.

Squirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have liked a reg meet to be once a week but never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular to me is more about keeping to the same fb rather than the actual frequency after all we have different feelings and goals to achieve so frequency is a hard one to pinpoint.

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"We meet when we can ?? can be weekly can be monthly but still consider us as regular swx dates.

Squirts

Oh and he is definately worth any wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as a single (parent) who wants regular meets I have to say regular to me is any time I have 1/2 spare x

I have old friends on here that stop by for a quick suck while I'm making dinner lol x

Seriously tho I'd probably like to hook up 4-5 times a wk if I can not always possible tho x"

Yep had a regular play friend and we would met when we could sometimes 3 or 4 times a week others only once . Depends on work , kids and life in general .

Doesn't get boring at all in fact I would say it improves as you get to relax and know each other. What buttons to hit etc

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By *el82xxWoman
over a year ago

Stirling

Yeh I had a few regular friend wld meet up with n wld try each friend for once a wk if we were both available, didn't find it boring x

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Regular meet let's you get comfortable and allow you to explore with each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah...

But I love the buzz of a 1st kiss

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"See this on profiles all the time...

Only regular fun I want is with my husband....this is just a small add on

I see a guy from down south I meet maybe 3/4 times a year when he's up

and the very odd occasion I actually click with someone on here but I only meet very very occasionally...

If your a cpl playing alone..how regular is regular to you?

Or if your a single playing...how regular is regular to you?

Curious to see if there's a difference?

"
single, twice a week and more if we have time

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Yeah...

But I love the buzz of a 1st kiss

I love the building anticipation towards, AND the buzz of a first kiss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost? "

True, but if both parties are grown up about it they'll know this and part on good terms. I do love the buzz of a new playmate, all the flirting in the build up, anticipation, it gets quite thrilling. I agree that frequent follow up meets could dull that buzz though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you look at it. In some ways people may feel that meeting the same person would lose it's edge over time. Others, like has already been said, may find it leads to great sex as you start to get a feel for each other.

I (Mr) occasionally ask Mrs who she has enjoyed playing with most through fab and it can often be someone she has met regularly, but regularly can be anything from once or twice a month to as little as every couple of months.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost? "

Never loose the excitement of meeting

Just need to keep it interesting

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Onces one month for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I think if I wasnt married with kids I'd probably meet more often but don't know if I'd meet the same guy more than once every few months as it sort of would take the buzz out of it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as a single (parent) who wants regular meets I have to say regular to me is any time I have 1/2 spare x

I have old friends on here that stop by for a quick suck while I'm making dinner lol x

Seriously tho I'd probably like to hook up 4-5 times a wk if I can not always possible tho x"

This

it's not always possible with work, family etc but I prefer as regular as possible as you can relax and enjoy each other more.

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Yeah I think if I wasnt married with kids I'd probably meet more often but don't know if I'd meet the same guy more than once every few months as it sort of would take the buzz out of it for me "

Sounds about right, we all lead such busy lives these days, there's never enough time for arranging a meet. Having 6-8 between meets keeps the excitement around it fresh I think

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?

Never loose the excitement of meeting

Just need to keep it interesting"

The day the buzz goes its time to say goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?

Never loose the excitement of meeting

Just need to keep it interesting"

Totally agree def need to keep it interesting or it becomes boaring and pointless can't beat a good meet

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?

Never loose the excitement of meeting

Just need to keep it interesting

Totally agree def need to keep it interesting or it becomes boaring and pointless can't beat a good meet

Lot's to explore

Find out what excites and doesn't

Mix it up

And a lot of kink helps

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By *abulous fingersMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Wish I could get a meet on here! Think my next ride will be my first, it's been that long

. Btw anyone looking for a heavy cummer lol

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've been seeing the same person for 11 years. It started off once a month sometimes less. Now sometimes it can be once a week for "fun" and a couple of times in between for a bit of a kiss etc. Its dangerous though because that's how you catch feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow 11yrs is along time...

And yip I agree that if you meet often over that amount of time feelings must be involved

The guy I meet from down south Iv been meeting for about 4 yrs but as I said I only really see him 3 or 4 times a yr...

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Wow 11yrs is along time...

And yip I agree that if you meet often over that amount of time feelings must be involved

The guy I meet from down south Iv been meeting for about 4 yrs but as I said I only really see him 3 or 4 times a yr..."

Its got its good points and bad points. I think very different when single though. Your situation means there are set boundaries. Slightly less risk when you go home to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes regular on here would just be meeting someone every now and again for some fun, so basically more than a one off.

The times we meet could be months apart but I'd still class that as regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the same person for 11 years. It started off once a month sometimes less. Now sometimes it can be once a week for "fun" and a couple of times in between for a bit of a kiss etc. Its dangerous though because that's how you catch feelings"

I agree, there's a couple lads I've known for 6/7 years I still meet or I'm going to meet up with again once back I'm the country. I did catch feelings with one of them but we're really good friends now and that's how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?

Never loose the excitement of meeting

Just need to keep it interesting

Totally agree def need to keep it interesting or it becomes boaring and pointless can't beat a good meet

Lot's to explore

Find out what excites and doesn't

Mix it up

And a lot of kink helps

Of course it does xx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Regular to me is whenever you can.

Unfortunately my free time is non-existent at the moment so even social meets are difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a bloke on here, regular is whenever. I would love to meet more than I do, but that's beyond my control due to the amount of ladies and couples that are only looking for other ladies and couples.

And judging by the only fabs I get on my pics, I seem to particularly attractive to the gay and bisexual amongst us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me would be nearly every night. Aint kidden lol

Insatiable appetite but prob is not too many the same lol

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