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Do some people bring it on themselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously folk get messages they don't like and there are going to be some completely out of order ones landing in inboxes, which is never fair and not anything I'd condone.

I do, however,see a few folk that always complain about the messages and could block a lot of it in their settings quite easily but decide not to for some reason.

They also seem to be the people that don't mind giving out abuse non stop in statuses etc

I tend to have little sympathy when that happens, what do others think?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Block and move on. Seems fairly easy to me.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah life is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts."
and to add to it we do have some male friends we have met socially and are friends with so would end all conversations which would be a shame

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts."

Yeah there's a lot of that! A lot of it is just humble bragging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts."
see to be fair about that one, I've been on fab for 8years and only discovered early this year that I could block messages from guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.and to add to it we do have some male friends we have met socially and are friends with so would end all conversations which would be a shame"

Can you not still chat to folk on your friends list even if they are out with your settings?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.

see to be fair about that one, I've been on fab for 8years and only discovered early this year that I could block messages from guys"

In 8 years you didn't realise you had filters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.

see to be fair about that one, I've been on fab for 8years and only discovered early this year that I could block messages from guys

In 8 years you didn't realise you had filters? "

That's a lot of unnecessary cocks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 2 abusive messages today for one guy because I said no to anal, so are you saying that I asked for the abuse that I got from him,

Plus are you trying to say if a woman has a short skirt on, she is asking for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seekers

I block everyone that I'm not looking to meet

My statuses are usually fun or how I'm feeling for that moment

Its only single guy statuses I see and I laugh at the need my big balls emptied 1s or need to licking pussy tonight...

Seriously ...do these statuses get you any meets guys???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attention seekers

I block everyone that I'm not looking to meet

My statuses are usually fun or how I'm feeling for that moment

Its only single guy statuses I see and I laugh at the need my big balls emptied 1s or need to licking pussy tonight...

Seriously ...do these statuses get you any meets guys??? "
it's never worked for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had 2 abusive messages today for one guy because I said no to anal, so are you saying that I asked for the abuse that I got from him,

Plus are you trying to say if a woman has a short skirt on, she is asking for it"

Wow, did you even read what I wrote? I didn't say anything remotely like that. You've massively twisted what was written, to a ridiculous level actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol welcome to tell Scottish forums lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol welcome to tell Scottish forums lol"

Lol I'm seeing what folk mean now!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.and to add to it we do have some male friends we have met socially and are friends with so would end all conversations which would be a shame"
you blocking single males wouldnt effect friends or guys that have msged and you responded would just stop any new single guys contacting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.and to add to it we do have some male friends we have met socially and are friends with so would end all conversations which would be a shameyou blocking single males wouldnt effect friends or guys that have msged and you responded would just stop any new single guys contacting"
true I hadn't thought about it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attention seekers

I block everyone that I'm not looking to meet

My statuses are usually fun or how I'm feeling for that moment

Its only single guy statuses I see and I laugh at the need my big balls emptied 1s or need to licking pussy tonight...

Seriously ...do these statuses get you any meets guys??? "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like the straight single guys that complain about getting harassed by gay/bi men? Yeah, they could use their filters but then they may not get any messages at all.

Tbh, I think they're really just look at me posts.

see to be fair about that one, I've been on fab for 8years and only discovered early this year that I could block messages from guys

In 8 years you didn't realise you had filters? "
never looked at the settings, too busy trying to perv

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"I have had 2 abusive messages today for one guy because I said no to anal, so are you saying that I asked for the abuse that I got from him,

Plus are you trying to say if a woman has a short skirt on, she is asking for it"
who mentioned short skirts?

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"I have had 2 abusive messages today for one guy because I said no to anal, so are you saying that I asked for the abuse that I got from him,

Plus are you trying to say if a woman has a short skirt on, she is asking for it

Wow, did you even read what I wrote? I didn't say anything remotely like that. You've massively twisted what was written, to a ridiculous level actually"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had 2 abusive messages today for one guy because I said no to anal, so are you saying that I asked for the abuse that I got from him,

Plus are you trying to say if a woman has a short skirt on, she is asking for it

Wow, did you even read what I wrote? I didn't say anything remotely like that. You've massively twisted what was written, to a ridiculous level actually "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously folk get messages they don't like and there are going to be some completely out of order ones landing in inboxes, which is never fair and not anything I'd condone.

I do, however,see a few folk that always complain about the messages and could block a lot of it in their settings quite easily but decide not to for some reason.

They also seem to be the people that don't mind giving out abuse non stop in statuses etc

I tend to have little sympathy when that happens, what do others think?"

I just don't get bothered and delete n move on. Seems a simple thing to do tbh.

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I thought the more 'expercienced' swingers on here. Who go to clubs regular etc, have actually read the small print

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had 2 abusive messages today for one guy because I said no to anal, so are you saying that I asked for the abuse that I got from him,

Plus are you trying to say if a woman has a short skirt on, she is asking for it

Wow, did you even read what I wrote? I didn't say anything remotely like that. You've massively twisted what was written, to a ridiculous level actually"
thats the Scottish forum we stuck up a jokey post the other day about chancers when we had put up a meet for a single fem we got quite a few responses in the right vein a few just block and move on ones ( bit extreme for chancing arm) and then a few way over the top accusatory messages of single guy bashing etc where people deliberately misread your comment to start an argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the reason for being abusive, it's not like telling someone they are hating on single guys is gonna get them to say yeah you know what your right lets meet now is it

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do some people bring it on themselves?"

In my opinion, yes.

And they can regularly be found all over the forum 'complaining' about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or in a secret group discussing it among the choose not few

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I used to get lots of messages from bi/gay/tv/ts guys offering to turn me but had no idea why I seemed so popular. I was at a club down in Derby and was chatting to a couple who pointed out I'd kinda brought this on myself. When I first joined Fab, my username was Mr_Curiosity (it's a very cool Jason Mraz song) and I was generally curious about the whole lifestyle. The husband pointed out that 99/100 guys would scan my profile and assume I was bi-curious... hence the attention. Changed my username and now get barely 10% of what I got before.

As for blocking, I only use it sparingly on people I've messaged who do the 'instant delete', more to remind myself not to message again. I've never been a 'cut and paste' kinda guy. If I've read a profile and like what I see I'll send a message saying hello with a couple of pics. As a single guy profile, most get a no thanks, but the odd one will go from being 'unread' to 'deleted' in less than a minute. Plenty of other friendly polite folk on the site to converse with.

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