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By *andl kinkycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

What's everyone's thoughts on fabbers who are on here cheating on there partner..?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't agree with it. Feel sorry for the partners

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

** Runs to grab some popcorn**

John

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By *andl kinkycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland


"** Runs to grab some popcorn**

John "

Yip

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"What's everyone's thoughts on fabbers who are on here cheating on there partner..?????"
in the minority I think its terrible your just about to read how its not anyones concern...... you dont know their circumstance....... and many other enabeling lines. By cheating I take to mean doing behind their partners back while they are in full control of their facultys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck ....I thought we where gonna start talking about Football ....

Aw well ...pass the popcorn John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sharing the pop corn ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You sharing the pop corn ? Xx"

Its Popcorn ...Sure its not Cockporn your looking for ?

I might give ya wan ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl hunni I would give a new meaning to your cockporn and I bet you would lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl hunni I would give a new meaning to your cockporn and I bet you would lol xx"

Aye ..i bet you could ..

IF I LET YA ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol aye ok mr that's plenty lmao

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Who are we to judge . We certinally don't want judged for our life style . We are very open and honest . With my husband working away so long , yes I meet alone , arranged mostly but not always by him . I'd hate to be judged on that.

Married guy we like I prefer it just like guys like married woman . We don't know everybody situation at home . If it's not for you that's ok. But please don't judge

??

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By *uzzyDuck75Man
over a year ago

Glasgow & Yorkshire

If they are going to cheat then they are going to cheat no matter it's on a website, pub, work or wherever and it's that persons choice to do so.

My _iew is, if they are playing away on a website then they should admit it but similarly why do people feel the need to judge them...it's their choice to be cheat and if someone doesn't like it, then they don't need to engage with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, this is a common question on here, can't understand why as it's nobody's business.

I admit it on my profile as that's me, couldn't give a rats arse about anyone else's situation.

Everyone here is here for their own reasons, who are we to judge? Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williams"

Wow, that was deep. Also very on point and totally agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williams

Wow, that was deep. Also very on point and totally agree with you."

Thank you, I can be deep as the ocean or light as a summer breeze... the question is a serious one so I went deep...

On a lighter note... A Lion wouldn't cheat but a Tiger Wood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing, but each to their own. Karma is a Bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my thing, but each to their own. Karma is a Bitch."

Karma is an interesting principle... again not excusing cheaters but what if your husband cheating is YOUR karma for something you have done... morality is not a one way street and some people would say swinging or an open minded attitude to sex is immoral too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my business

As a married fem playing alone

Used to play as a cpl with my husband but he was fed up with the time wasters and fakes thought it's too much hassle

Hence why I only play during school hrs

Still think it's more acceptable being a married fem playing without a husband than a married guy tho on here

But as someone says we are all on a sex site

Who are we to judge anyone?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williams"
our morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I suppose and besides you reap the rewards of what you sow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it "

The parent is still punished and I didn't say I was justifying it only noting the fallibility of the human condition... I can't play violin btw but I do have big tits and red hair

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Pmsl was cheats I ment playing the violin and big tits n red hair wasnt a ref to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl was cheats I ment playing the violin and big tits n red hair wasnt a ref to yourself "

I know Mr Cubes and I agree with ya redheads with big tits like to play devils advocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people do on here and how they use the site is no-ones feckin business.

NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Btw ..ive no popcorn left ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What people do on here and how they use the site is no-ones feckin business.

NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Btw ..ive no popcorn left ...

"
throws ye dorritos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What people do on here and how they use the site is no-ones feckin business.

NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Btw ..ive no popcorn left ...

throws ye dorritos "

Whit nae dip... spose he might have his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doritos with double pussy juice dips ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doritos with double pussy juice dips ...

"

I was thinking of something more salty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doritos with double pussy juice dips ...

"
on yer bike pal . I don't share my pussy dips

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"What people do on here and how they use the site is no-ones feckin business.

NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Btw ..ive no popcorn left ...

"
but it is everyones buisness as they will be asked to partake in it. Nsa is something I believe only those in reciept of the full spectrum of whats going on can have.

Eg a cheat cant have nsa because if he/she gets foubd out there will be strings flying around everywhere.

no popcorn ta having sausage n egg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you get told the facts

Then it's up to the individuals to make up their own minds

Its when you get told that said individual is single then you get the dreaded who the f..k is txt on your phone...

It's not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time you can judge anyone is when you're looking in the mirror

That's it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"The only time you can judge anyone is when you're looking in the mirror

That's it"
when your walking down the street and cross the road as d*unken bums are shouting remember this line. We all judge its a simple fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you get told the facts

Then it's up to the individuals to make up their own minds

Its when you get told that said individual is single then you get the dreaded who the f..k is txt on your phone...

It's not nice

"

Yes. This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts on fabbers who are on here cheating on there partner..?????"
are you including members who have both a couples profile and a singles profile?

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What's everyone's thoughts on fabbers who are on here cheating on there partner..?????are you including members who have both a couples profile and a singles profile?"

That's not cheating if you have consent and your other half is aware of the profile

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts on fabbers who are on here cheating on there partner..?????are you including members who have both a couples profile and a singles profile?

That's not cheating if you have consent and your other half is aware of the profile

K x"
o know what your saying k,but it's happened to me before where someone used that as an excuse for not even chatting

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By *anginlowMan
over a year ago

Perth

Having been on here for a good while on a previous profile and receiving some real nasty messages from people. I from experience always state I'm married playing alone. I also say I know its not for everyone. Still people judge. It would be easier if people stated no married on the profile. I for one wouldn't get in touch then. Simple thing saves a lot of grief. As stated before people don't need to engage or indeed judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What people do on here and how they use the site is no-ones feckin business.

NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Btw ..ive no popcorn left ...

but it is everyones buisness as they will be asked to partake in it. Nsa is something I believe only those in reciept of the full spectrum of whats going on can have.

Eg a cheat cant have nsa because if he/she gets foubd out there will be strings flying around everywhere.

no popcorn ta having sausage n egg "

Thats in your opinion...

Theres a dew fecking Puppets about so ya may be right..

You can please some of the people some of the time..but you cant please all of the people all of the time..

Mind wipe the egg aff your chin

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By *andl kinkycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland


"What's everyone's thoughts on fabbers who are on here cheating on there partner..?????are you including members who have both a couples profile and a singles profile?"

No think D was on about people meeting etc without their partners knowing. Totally different if they have permission to do so I would say.

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify:

My comment was based on cheating as in being in a commited relationship/marriage and playing away without partners concent or knowledge. Very unfair on the other party.

If the relationship is dead (such as when two parents stay together for the sake of their kids etc) or your partners OK with it then it's not really cheating in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify:

My comment was based on cheating as in being in a commited relationship/marriage and playing away without partners concent or knowledge. Very unfair on the other party.

If the relationship is dead (such as when two parents stay together for the sake of their kids etc) or your partners OK with it then it's not really cheating in my opinion."

In a way this is my point as above... If you are going to apply a strict and pure definition, technically infidelity is sex outwith marriage so even couples swinging together, or even alone with consent are in breach of someones moral ethic such as religion, social or even THE law itself. Why else would "honest" swingers be so secretive about their activities... because they don't want to be judged by society I think most would agree.

We all like to think our own situation is justifiable no matter what that is.

Again a jaywalker and a murderer both break the law, yes punishments reflect that but both break the law.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

[Removed by poster at 22/07/16 15:04:04]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it

The parent is still punished and I didn't say I was justifying it only noting the fallibility of the human condition... I can't play violin btw but I do have big tits and red hair "

Someone say big tits and red hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time you can judge anyone is when you're looking in the mirror

That's it"

Thats because your married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it

The parent is still punished and I didn't say I was justifying it only noting the fallibility of the human condition... I can't play violin btw but I do have big tits and red hair

Someone say big tits and red hair "

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with . "

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cheated, been cheated on and been the other woman, none of it is nice but sometimes you can't really help yourself as bad as that sounds.

But recently I've gone by the saying; if you can cheat on your spouse, go home, look them in the eye and tell them you love them you're the lowest of the low. The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here has their own reasons. Myself included.

Sex addicts,

Nympos

Weirdos

Big egos

Big cocks

Small cocks

Trolls

Aggro merchants

Bunny boilers

Old boilers

Teasers

Leavers

Genuine

Fake

Sluts

Slags

Studs

Dicks

Anymore I forgot?

But all are on for that feeling you can only get with another persons skin. It's unique and highly addictive.

So respect the decent messages, a no thanks beats a f.off.

Don't think anyone is better or more important than anyone else.

We all have our reasons.

Peace and orgasms to all. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve. "

Fair play JOD, but believe it or not some folk did not and don't come here looking for sex and by that I mean the physical act... which again would be the correct definiton of infidelity, then again some would consider their partner even looking at someone else or watching porn a betrayal of sorts... and maybe they are already sad and lonely within their marriage... there are many scenarios people here could tell you that they are unlikely to express in detail on an open fourm in regard to staying in an unfulfilling marriage and just as many with a glib answer to that problem. As I said before I am not trying to justify anything other than people are fallible and make mistakes. No-one has led a perfect life or dealt with complex emotional situations perfectly every time either... I would say the important thing is learning and not making the same mistakes again... I believe it's called experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve.

Fair play JOD, but believe it or not some folk did not and don't come here looking for sex and by that I mean the physical act... which again would be the correct definiton of infidelity, then again some would consider their partner even looking at someone else or watching porn a betrayal of sorts... and maybe they are already sad and lonely within their marriage... there are many scenarios people here could tell you that they are unlikely to express in detail on an open fourm in regard to staying in an unfulfilling marriage and just as many with a glib answer to that problem. As I said before I am not trying to justify anything other than people are fallible and make mistakes. No-one has led a perfect life or dealt with complex emotional situations perfectly every time either... I would say the important thing is learning and not making the same mistakes again... I believe it's called experience "

Most mistakes aren't planned and premeditated, cheating on here is!

As for an unhappy married, deal with it, get a divorce and try to be happy.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Everyone on here has their own reasons. Myself included.

Sex addicts,

Nympos

Weirdos

Big egos

Big cocks

Small cocks

Trolls

Aggro merchants

Bunny boilers

Old boilers

Teasers

Leavers

Genuine

Fake

Sluts

Slags

Studs

Dicks

Anymore I forgot?

But all are on for that feeling you can only get with another persons skin. It's unique and highly addictive.

So respect the decent messages, a no thanks beats a f.off.

Don't think anyone is better or more important than anyone else.

We all have our reasons.

Peace and orgasms to all. X

"

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour. "

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them . "

Why hide a huge part of why you are from the one person you should be able to trust fully?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them . "

CxXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time you can judge anyone is when you're looking in the mirror

That's it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck ....I thought we where gonna start talking about Football ....

Aw well ...pass the popcorn John

"
Off to Malmo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them .

Why hide a huge part of why you are from the one person you should be able to trust fully?"

There is never going to be a consensus of opinion on this JOD. Everyone will have diverse opinions, yours isn't wrong but in many ways but I do feel it shows a simplistic understanding of human nature... and as I said, people are unlikely to go into their deepest personal business here... what if the person you love most is the least understanding of all - it happens. Why can't some football fans respect each other, why can't religious zealots let others worship as they wish, why do some folk like pineapple on pizza... so many questions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Rangers Fans ...and love Pineapple on Pizza ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Rangers Fans ...and love Pineapple on Pizza ..

"

Ya PERVERT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Rangers Fans ...and love Pineapple on Pizza ..

Ya PERVERT "

Amurnae

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Rangers Fans ...and love Pineapple on Pizza ..

Ya PERVERT

Amurnae

"

Football I forgive... pineapple on pizza is just WRONG

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them .

Why hide a huge part of why you are from the one person you should be able to trust fully?

There is never going to be a consensus of opinion on this JOD. Everyone will have diverse opinions, yours isn't wrong but in many ways but I do feel it shows a simplistic understanding of human nature... and as I said, people are unlikely to go into their deepest personal business here... what if the person you love most is the least understanding of all - it happens. Why can't some football fans respect each other, why can't religious zealots let others worship as they wish, why do some folk like pineapple on pizza... so many questions...

"

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I like Rangers Fans ...and love Pineapple on Pizza ..

Ya PERVERT

Amurnae

Football I forgive... pineapple on pizza is just WRONG "

It's alright on meringue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them .

Why hide a huge part of why you are from the one person you should be able to trust fully?

There is never going to be a consensus of opinion on this JOD. Everyone will have diverse opinions, yours isn't wrong but in many ways but I do feel it shows a simplistic understanding of human nature... and as I said, people are unlikely to go into their deepest personal business here... what if the person you love most is the least understanding of all - it happens. Why can't some football fans respect each other, why can't religious zealots let others worship as they wish, why do some folk like pineapple on pizza... so many questions...

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Rangers Fans ...and love Pineapple on Pizza ..

Ya PERVERT

Amurnae

Football I forgive... pineapple on pizza is just WRONG

It's alright on meringue "

As long as it fresh and not that hard tinned stuff yummmmmmmm

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By *andl kinkycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland


"Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve. "

Not often I agree with your comments journey but this one I agree with 100%

I feel it's wrong to play with someone's emotions...have balls and either end it or talk. I've been cheated on and and it's awful feeling. Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As 1 of the married cheaters i get why some pple dont agree with wat i do nd i respect there _iews but wat is so funny is certain pple say oh that shocking etc etc on the forums but when they pm there _iew is sooo different pmsl

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve.

Fair play JOD, but believe it or not some folk did not and don't come here looking for sex and by that I mean the physical act... which again would be the correct definiton of infidelity, then again some would consider their partner even looking at someone else or watching porn a betrayal of sorts... and maybe they are already sad and lonely within their marriage... there are many scenarios people here could tell you that they are unlikely to express in detail on an open fourm in regard to staying in an unfulfilling marriage and just as many with a glib answer to that problem. As I said before I am not trying to justify anything other than people are fallible and make mistakes. No-one has led a perfect life or dealt with complex emotional situations perfectly every time either... I would say the important thing is learning and not making the same mistakes again... I believe it's called experience "
sex is a phisical act thats not what stings the unknowing partner. its the betrayal of trust that was promised that stings

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Every situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve.

Fair play JOD, but believe it or not some folk did not and don't come here looking for sex and by that I mean the physical act... which again would be the correct definiton of infidelity, then again some would consider their partner even looking at someone else or watching porn a betrayal of sorts... and maybe they are already sad and lonely within their marriage... there are many scenarios people here could tell you that they are unlikely to express in detail on an open fourm in regard to staying in an unfulfilling marriage and just as many with a glib answer to that problem. As I said before I am not trying to justify anything other than people are fallible and make mistakes. No-one has led a perfect life or dealt with complex emotional situations perfectly every time either... I would say the important thing is learning and not making the same mistakes again... I believe it's called experience sex is a phisical act thats not what stings the unknowing partner. its the betrayal of trust that was promised that stings"

People makes lots of promises when they marry, what about the husband who commits rape within marriage, not violently but still pressures his wife both physically and emotionally to do so. Yes she could speak... Will he listen... Not always as it can be a subtle manipulation... Should she leave... Probably but what if there are children and he is a good father plus she is not able to financially.

You might ask why would such a person be here but how do many of us find ourselves here.

Again let me emphasise I am not condoning... Merely pointing out the complexities of life and people and their situations. Of course it's the betrayal of trust that stings... But the divorce rate is almost 2 in three and all those people swore to be together and the reasons they split are not always infidelity.

Lastly no one is 100% to blame in any break up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scenario then one half of a happy marriage becomes ill and the illness not only effects their ability too have sex but also their sex drive. The person has a mental disorder with their illness and can't cope with everyday life or emotions and memory is gone they also require too be cared for. So the other partner just says fuck it I'm off!! It's a long shot but as previously said marriage is a lifetime commitment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's my 10p worth.

Anyone on here married ir attached without their partners knowledge and consent is a coward. They are obviously not happy in their relationship but are too scared to confront the problems that have led them to search the Internet looking for sex. Now, obviously there are different circumstances involved that may lead people to take this course of action but ultimately it's the lack of balls to face problems and issues head on that's at the core of it.

They are playing games with people's emotions for their own gratification, it stinks and I hope each and everyone of them ends up sad and lonely as that's all they deserve.

Fair play JOD, but believe it or not some folk did not and don't come here looking for sex and by that I mean the physical act... which again would be the correct definiton of infidelity, then again some would consider their partner even looking at someone else or watching porn a betrayal of sorts... and maybe they are already sad and lonely within their marriage... there are many scenarios people here could tell you that they are unlikely to express in detail on an open fourm in regard to staying in an unfulfilling marriage and just as many with a glib answer to that problem. As I said before I am not trying to justify anything other than people are fallible and make mistakes. No-one has led a perfect life or dealt with complex emotional situations perfectly every time either... I would say the important thing is learning and not making the same mistakes again... I believe it's called experience sex is a phisical act thats not what stings the unknowing partner. its the betrayal of trust that was promised that stings

People makes lots of promises when they marry, what about the husband who commits rape within marriage, not violently but still pressures his wife both physically and emotionally to do so. Yes she could speak... Will he listen... Not always as it can be a subtle manipulation... Should she leave... Probably but what if there are children and he is a good father plus she is not able to financially.

You might ask why would such a person be here but how do many of us find ourselves here.

Again let me emphasise I am not condoning... Merely pointing out the complexities of life and people and their situations. Of course it's the betrayal of trust that stings... But the divorce rate is almost 2 in three and all those people swore to be together and the reasons they split are not always infidelity.

Lastly no one is 100% to blame in any break up.

"

Nothing quite like going completely off topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a event that could happen and the person uses fab either for social or sex just saying.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it "

It really does pain me to agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you."

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I am a cheater I let whoever i meet know i'm married . It is up to them if they want to meet me or not . Most people i have met through socials or drinks nights . Outside of that most people I've met are married too . Everyone has their own opinions of those that cheat whether they meet them or not it's the ones who hide it that cause most trouble . I may cheat but not lie to those i meet with .

Well as long your not lieing to strangers that's ok, just your wife that's being lied to.

Perfectly acceptable behaviour.

I'm not what folk would say was a normal swinger . I'm here to be Stephanie firstly as swingers are less judgemental I can socialise safely with them .

Why hide a huge part of why you are from the one person you should be able to trust fully?"

Just because i trust them doesn't mean they'll accept their partner is a tv . Would most others accept their partner was an alcoholic ? A lot of tv's in a relationship are in the closet . We have to take that burden of guilt inside ourselves knowing full well what grief it would cause if discovered .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I couldn't care less what they do.

Grandstanding it like a fucking teenager getting their hole for the 1st time is stomach churning, but then again I feel the same about non marrieds playing away doing the same.

I just leave them be

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

"
see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys) "

Humanity in harmony

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

But it's worthy of note that a hot cheating wife will be treated differently from a cheating guy.

Most who lambast the guy in threads fall so silent on threads about women

The hypocrisy is staggering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's worthy of note that a hot cheating wife will be treated differently from a cheating guy.

Most who lambast the guy in threads fall so silent on threads about women

The hypocrisy is staggering

"
couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

Humanity in harmony "

Lol nice one Steph and Kola, agreed, now if only I was still Redinthebed we could be RedKolacubes as a mark of our diplomatic understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's worthy of note that a hot cheating wife will be treated differently from a cheating guy.

Most who lambast the guy in threads fall so silent on threads about women

The hypocrisy is staggering

"

Very true View...

Many of us believe that wrongs aren't wrong if it's done by nice people like ourselves. ~Jason Rainbow, c.1979

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As 1 of the married cheaters i get why some pple dont agree with wat i do nd i respect there _iews but wat is so funny is certain pple say oh that shocking etc etc on the forums but when they pm there _iew is sooo different pmsl "

THIS is very true

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

Humanity in harmony

Lol nice one Steph and Kola, agreed, now if only I was still Redinthebed we could be RedKolacubes as a mark of our diplomatic understanding "

Pineapple cubes mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

Humanity in harmony

Lol nice one Steph and Kola, agreed, now if only I was still Redinthebed we could be RedKolacubes as a mark of our diplomatic understanding

Pineapple cubes mmm "

FRESH was Steph Fresh wans lol xxxxx

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

Humanity in harmony

Lol nice one Steph and Kola, agreed, now if only I was still Redinthebed we could be RedKolacubes as a mark of our diplomatic understanding

Pineapple cubes mmm

FRESH was Steph Fresh wans lol xxxxx"

I mean the sweeties cola cubes pineapple cubes covered in sugar damn i'm off think i've got fruit gums one of my 5 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

Humanity in harmony

Lol nice one Steph and Kola, agreed, now if only I was still Redinthebed we could be RedKolacubes as a mark of our diplomatic understanding

Pineapple cubes mmm

FRESH was Steph Fresh wans lol xxxxx

I mean the sweeties cola cubes pineapple cubes covered in sugar damn i'm off think i've got fruit gums one of my 5 a day "

Ohhhh lolol yes THEM ... god that's a blast form the past, wonder if you still get them

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I understand what you are trying to get at with complexitys though I cant agree. we make things complex where theres no need too....if a person feels as though they were/are being raped report it to the police.....staying together for the children cmon kids aint dumb and can feel any strain between two people. Usually when a relationship breaks down there is a party to blame hell ive been guilty of that. We make excuses to shift the blame or to excuse our actions. A bigger person will just admit it

It really does pain me to agree with you.

I also see what you're saying Kola... and as I have said, Infidelity is infidelity - yet again I will point out I am not arguing that point... only that people and life are not THAT simple in reality

see its not that difficult to disagree no big tantrums like sone seem to think happens two diffrent _iews on one topic (but it is really simple we make the difficultys)

Humanity in harmony

Lol nice one Steph and Kola, agreed, now if only I was still Redinthebed we could be RedKolacubes as a mark of our diplomatic understanding

Pineapple cubes mmm

FRESH was Steph Fresh wans lol xxxxx

I mean the sweeties cola cubes pineapple cubes covered in sugar damn i'm off think i've got fruit gums one of my 5 a day

Ohhhh lolol yes THEM ... god that's a blast form the past, wonder if you still get them "

Yes and i know a lovely place to get them too

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Im with fire fresh pineapple cubed in a bowl sprinkle of suger allow to mascerate. Heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im with fire fresh pineapple cubed in a bowl sprinkle of suger allow to mascerate. Heaven"

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

curious to know why you think its more acceptable for a woman.

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By *elledegoreCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why bother being in a relationship if you are going to cheat? Unless its An open relationship obviously no need to cause people hurt !

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"But it's worthy of note that a hot cheating wife will be treated differently from a cheating guy.

Most who lambast the guy in threads fall so silent on threads about women

The hypocrisy is staggering

I see nothing has changed. There will always be people who cheat albeit on here behind their partners back or down the pub when they catch a pretty girl/guys eye and others have absolutely no control on this whatsoever. If you choose to have sex with someone knowing they are cheating the circumstances surrounding it become irrelevant and you are no better than the person who is lying to their husband/wife (I include myself in this part). You can convince yourself that you are only doing it for the thrill or it's not your problem or whatever reason you choose but you could walk away nobody is holding a gun to your head. As I said the only person you can control is yourself. X

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Who are we to judge . We certinally don't want judged for our life style . We are very open and honest . With my husband working away so long , yes I meet alone , arranged mostly but not always by him . I'd hate to be judged on that.

Married guy we like I prefer it just like guys like married woman . We don't know everybody situation at home . If it's not for you that's ok. But please don't judge

??"

Well said

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it "

It's usually me who is the redhead with the big tits...

I met my ex - bf on fab. Told me he was divorcing. Turned out he wasn't and we were having sex twice a week for 6 months before I realised. By which point I was hopelessly in love with him. I tried to end it several times but he kept begging me to stay with him. Being madly in love, I did. He asked me to move in with him and have a child with him etc etc. He promised me it was over with him and his wife...

So the last time we had sex, it was amazing as always. He told me he loved me etc etc. His wife found out 3 hours later and when that happened he told me that I was to never contact him again or he was calling the police.

To say I was stunned was an understatement. So I deleted his numbers and cried for about 48 hours. He then phoned me, the only reason he did was because his wife made him phone to apologise for his behaviour. I spoke to that poor woman for hours that day. I've never been more ashamed of myself and more heartbroken ever.

So I think if someone is cheating on their partner...that's their business, but they should at least be up front about it in case someone else gets hurt.

And any other ladies finding this out....don't do what I did and stay with him. Run for the hills!!!

I won't go near married men now. 4 months on and his wife is still off work with the stress of it all and I had to literally leave the country.

Just not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you so much for your frankness Ginger, this man (and being male isn't exclusive to infidelity) has very little regard for anyone's feelings except his own. To tell you he loved you was reprehensible, especially here where, there really is no need to do so to engage in a sexual liaison. At least you could make a clean break from him and move on with your life without having wasted too much time on him. His wife does not have that luxury as I am sure you appreciate and I hope all is well with you now xxxxxxxx.

I will add my own experience... 16 years ago I almost had an affair with a friends husband... I couldn't go through with it and told him so, although the attraction was strong . She found out about the situation anyway and I had four years of abuse from her including her shouting at me in the street, resulting in me getting a lawyers letter telling her to stay away from me. He ended up leaving her for someone else anyway. The irony is just after I told him I couldn't do anything with him she confided in me that she had a short affair with her ex fiancée who had dumped her years ago but had contacted her again. This had happened at the same time as my experience with her husband. I never found out if that was the reason he left or not but she was at a loss to her own behaviour in regard to her own betrayal as she loved her husband deeply and was utterly devastated when he left... I think she still is. I found it almost laughable that she was hounding me for NOT having an affair with her husband when she HAD done so. I did understand she was just as hurt by the “intention”.

No doubt many will judge everyone in a love triangle, each one has their part to play as the deceiver the deceived and the victim but those roles are usually interchangeable.

Human beings are fallible and will always be so, it's easy to say what people should and should not do but the reality is it just doesn't happen that way and of course hindsight is a wonderful thing but cannot be passed on, only learned from hard won experience. As Mr Robert Burns (also a “cheater”) said...

O would some power the giftie gie us to see ourselves as others see us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more cheating wifes the better! lol

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over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it

It's usually me who is the redhead with the big tits...

I met my ex - bf on fab. Told me he was divorcing. Turned out he wasn't and we were having sex twice a week for 6 months before I realised. By which point I was hopelessly in love with him. I tried to end it several times but he kept begging me to stay with him. Being madly in love, I did. He asked me to move in with him and have a child with him etc etc. He promised me it was over with him and his wife...

So the last time we had sex, it was amazing as always. He told me he loved me etc etc. His wife found out 3 hours later and when that happened he told me that I was to never contact him again or he was calling the police.

To say I was stunned was an understatement. So I deleted his numbers and cried for about 48 hours. He then phoned me, the only reason he did was because his wife made him phone to apologise for his behaviour. I spoke to that poor woman for hours that day. I've never been more ashamed of myself and more heartbroken ever.

So I think if someone is cheating on their partner...that's their business, but they should at least be up front about it in case someone else gets hurt.

And any other ladies finding this out....don't do what I did and stay with him. Run for the hills!!!

I won't go near married men now. 4 months on and his wife is still off work with the stress of it all and I had to literally leave the country.

Just not worth it"

Red hair big tits.. Another 1?? I can't get over this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it

It's usually me who is the redhead with the big tits...

I met my ex - bf on fab. Told me he was divorcing. Turned out he wasn't and we were having sex twice a week for 6 months before I realised. By which point I was hopelessly in love with him. I tried to end it several times but he kept begging me to stay with him. Being madly in love, I did. He asked me to move in with him and have a child with him etc etc. He promised me it was over with him and his wife...

So the last time we had sex, it was amazing as always. He told me he loved me etc etc. His wife found out 3 hours later and when that happened he told me that I was to never contact him again or he was calling the police.

To say I was stunned was an understatement. So I deleted his numbers and cried for about 48 hours. He then phoned me, the only reason he did was because his wife made him phone to apologise for his behaviour. I spoke to that poor woman for hours that day. I've never been more ashamed of myself and more heartbroken ever.

So I think if someone is cheating on their partner...that's their business, but they should at least be up front about it in case someone else gets hurt.

And any other ladies finding this out....don't do what I did and stay with him. Run for the hills!!!

I won't go near married men now. 4 months on and his wife is still off work with the stress of it all and I had to literally leave the country.

Just not worth it

Red hair big tits.. Another 1?? I can't get over this "

Tosses her flaming mane and jiggles her big tits just to tease Romeo lololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a perfect world people would always do the right thing but how many of us have done the right thing all of the time...

There is a vast difference between the person who walks away from a checkout knowing they have not been charged for an item and the person who commits deliberate fraud of hundreds of thousands of pounds.

Both are still Theft.

Likewise there is a difference between someone who has and will always be a cheat and someone who has extenuating circumstances in their relationship and for personal reasons cannot extricate themselves from that situation.

Both are still Infidelity.

I am not excusing the acts or saying that makes it ok, it's just an observation and my take on it.

“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life."

[As quoted in Elia Kazan's autobiography, A Life (1988)]”

~ Tennessee Williamsour morality also dictates levels a parent stealing a tin of beans to feed their child does not recieve the same punishment as a multi million pound embezzeler.you always hear about these extenuating circumstance that on face value makes it ok. I just dont see it. They made the promise to who at the time they wanted be with for all eternity.or until that redhead with the big tits appeared. If something changes they should work that out.these extenuating circumstances you speak of are just enableing lines to make it sit right. for me its simple unless their partner has lost control of their facultys there simply is no excuse fix it or leave it. Or keep strumming that ickle violin someone will buy it

It's usually me who is the redhead with the big tits...

I met my ex - bf on fab. Told me he was divorcing. Turned out he wasn't and we were having sex twice a week for 6 months before I realised. By which point I was hopelessly in love with him. I tried to end it several times but he kept begging me to stay with him. Being madly in love, I did. He asked me to move in with him and have a child with him etc etc. He promised me it was over with him and his wife...

So the last time we had sex, it was amazing as always. He told me he loved me etc etc. His wife found out 3 hours later and when that happened he told me that I was to never contact him again or he was calling the police.

To say I was stunned was an understatement. So I deleted his numbers and cried for about 48 hours. He then phoned me, the only reason he did was because his wife made him phone to apologise for his behaviour. I spoke to that poor woman for hours that day. I've never been more ashamed of myself and more heartbroken ever.

So I think if someone is cheating on their partner...that's their business, but they should at least be up front about it in case someone else gets hurt.

And any other ladies finding this out....don't do what I did and stay with him. Run for the hills!!!

I won't go near married men now. 4 months on and his wife is still off work with the stress of it all and I had to literally leave the country.

Just not worth it

Red hair big tits.. Another 1?? I can't get over this

Tosses her flaming mane and jiggles her big tits just to tease Romeo lololol "

Well helloooo there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is complicated, so wouldn't judge.

Their relationship is their responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more cheating wifes the better! lol"
WRONG

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Life is complicated, so wouldn't judge.

Their relationship is their responsibility."

don't like move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about meringues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about meringues "

No, you're right (do you see what I did there lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^^^that wunmin cracks me up

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