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By *198469 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow.

Looking to hit some clubs like cjs etc. Am I better going with a female or is it OK to go alone?. I'd probably prefer to go with company and be shown how it all works and shown the does and don't. If anyone could get back to me that be smashing.

Thanks x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

The key for anyone I think is regardless of whether you go alone or not, don't sit in a corner and keep to yourself. Mingle, get chatting to people and you'll soon settle in.

If you're unsure or nervous, approach someone and tell them you're new and not sure what to expect. Most people are friendly and welcoming and happy to chat

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By *198469 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow.

I am chatty and have no problem engaging in convo it's just the does don't lol. I see on here loads of couple going to cjs and if I went would u join in or wait to be asked or are u aloud in with couples. Going to the club is a must but going yourself Is off putting. Hahaha xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I am chatty and have no problem engaging in convo it's just the does don't lol. I see on here loads of couple going to cjs and if I went would u join in or wait to be asked or are u aloud in with couples. Going to the club is a must but going yourself Is off putting. Hahaha xx"

Get chatting to people, then if you're hitting it off and they want you to join them they will say so. Never just assume and suit up, lol!

There are areas where you can just watch, if you're into that.

I've been to Aberdeen without Mr a lot and everyone has been lovely to me. Chat, be friendly, and have fun. You may play with someone or someone's, and you might not, but at least you're getting yourself out there and meeting people

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By *198469 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow.

Nice one V I'll see if there's space and try hit cjs this sat.

Xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Nice one V I'll see if there's space and try hit cjs this sat.

Xx "

In that case you will need to bring someone, it's couples and fems night this sat

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By *198469 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow.

Hahaha just typical eh lol.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Friday might be open to all though, check the website

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