FabSwingers.com forum: The usual moan

By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

We thought we had found the holy grail. A suby woman keen to play with us. Pics exchanged . Time arranged . Location agreed . Call made female to female but withheld number was first warning. Now she's disappeared. . No reason given . Totally and utterly maddening. But on this site you just need to suck it up and accept. We so want to name and shame. Rant over. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usual on here now, everytime i get even a stiff of a meet happeningvi know it wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usual on here now, everytime i get even a stiff of a meet happeningvi know it wont."

Try to relax more, if you get stiff too early you'll not last long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We thought we had found the holy grail. A suby woman keen to play with us. Pics exchanged . Time arranged . Location agreed . Call made female to female but withheld number was first warning. Now she's disappeared. . No reason given . Totally and utterly maddening. But on this site you just need to suck it up and accept. We so want to name and shame. Rant over. Sorry. "

If someone says they'll meet you it doesn't mean that they're not allowed to change their minds.

We've decided against meeting people after we said we would, the prospect of a meet turned them into I weirdo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When something sounds too good to be true it usually is, although there was one time VERY recently

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By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

If someone says they'll meet you it doesn't mean that they're not allowed to change their minds.

We've decided against meeting people after we said we would, the prospect of a meet turned them into I weirdo...

No issue with people changing their mind but surely a brief message would be possible. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone says they'll meet you it doesn't mean that they're not allowed to change their minds.

We've decided against meeting people after we said we would, the prospect of a meet turned them into I weirdo...

No issue with people changing their mind but surely a brief message would be possible. ??"
would at least have been courteous to say they couldn't meet,even if they said they had gotten cold feet would be understandable

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Being polite and explaining for sure,as not fun im sure and being courteous is the correct way...im sure you will find who you are looking for,does take time,also be willing to take the time to know them

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over a year ago

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By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

No she's from Renfrew. Still online . I'm sure she's setting up others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the feeling of being a single male on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When something sounds too good to be true it usually is, although there was one time VERY recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good genuine non time wasters turn up when their meant too,

good luck for next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When something sounds too good to be true it usually is, although there was one time VERY recently

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ok here comes a ban , I say we shld name and shame them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When something sounds too good to be true it usually is, although there was one time VERY recently

ok here comes a ban , I say we shld name and shame them . "
if names are given on forums you would get a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh at least you got so far. Never even gets of the ground with me. Lol.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I know it's frustrating when you have organised yourself to set time for a meet to be let down in such a rude way.

Me, am gutted but then I think... Well if that person can act that way, well they are really not for me and I am thankful for the lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to name and shame someone because they have changed their minds?

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona

Glasgow Zoo are displaying a unicorn for all interested........the fact that the zoo no longer exists is trifling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would the Woman in question be at fault in witholding her phone number ?

she has every right too protect her privacy.Lets face it ..you could have been a single Guy ..who knows.

After soWhtme messages and a brief chat on the phone (both females) ..Why do you think you should be granted a reason ? ..

The Woman has every right to change her mind whether it has maddened you or not.

Maybe it just didnt tick boxes for her.

No means No...

As youve said "suck it up and sccept" ....and move on from it....Naming and Shaming is rather silly when it goes against the rules of Fabswingers..

everyone naming and shaming ..well there aint gonna be anyone feckin here..

Maybe some people take the site far too seriously ...handling rejection is always a good thing to have.

Good luck with your continued search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time that happened to us I was a bit gutted....the 10th time it happened I'm a bit meh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is frustrating but totally agree she may have changed her mind, granted she could have messaged to say thanx but no thanx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would be nice if they did send a message but dosnt often happen on here for whatever reason happens to us all accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you want to name and shame someone because they have changed their minds? "
changing there mind is fine but at least let the other people know , so the can either find another meet or cancel the babysitter .

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Why would the Woman in question be at fault in witholding her phone number ?

she has every right too protect her privacy.Lets face it ..you could have been a single Guy ..who knows.

After soWhtme messages and a brief chat on the phone (both females) ..Why do you think you should be granted a reason ? ..

The Woman has every right to change her mind whether it has maddened you or not.

Maybe it just didnt tick boxes for her.

No means No...

As youve said "suck it up and sccept" ....and move on from it....Naming and Shaming is rather silly when it goes against the rules of Fabswingers..

everyone naming and shaming ..well there aint gonna be anyone feckin here..

Maybe some people take the site far too seriously ...handling rejection is always a good thing to have.

Good luck with your continued search

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By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

Why would the Woman in question be at fault in witholding her phone number ?

she has every right too protect her privacy.Lets face it ..you could have been a single Guy ..who knows.

After soWhtme messages and a brief chat on the phone (both females) ..Why do you think you should be granted a reason ? ..

The Woman has every right to change her mind whether it has maddened you or not.

Maybe it just didnt tick boxes for her.

No means No...

As youve said "suck it up and sccept" ....and move on from it....Naming and Shaming is rather silly when it goes against the rules of Fabswingers..

everyone naming and shaming ..well there aint gonna be anyone feckin here..

Maybe some people take the site far too seriously ...handling rejection is always a good thing to have.

Good luck with your continued search

We didn't suggest naming and shaming. All we wanted was a brief message saying she wasn't coming . Surely that's only polite ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you want to name and shame someone because they have changed their minds? changing there mind is fine but at least let the other people know , so the can either find another meet or cancel the babysitter ."

I disagree ..

The Babysitter has nothing to do with the Woman in question.I understand your point and in an ideal world its courteous too reply.However some people dont want too reply incase it engages into further chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be a number of reasons why they haven't replied to be fair, maybe an emergency, last thing I'd be thinking of doing is replying to someone if I had something urgent to deal with.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Pm me their user name. Xx thanks.

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By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

"There could be a number of reasons why they haven't replied to be fair, maybe an emergency, last thing I'd be thinking of doing is replying to someone if I had something urgent to deal with."

The person has been online all through this. Not a word from her. But fine you keep defending her.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Theres a few times throughout this post you claim could have done this or that which is "only polite" weirdly you seem to think this post is only polite

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By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

"Theres a few times throughout this post you claim could have done this or that which is "only polite" weirdly you seem to think this post is only polite"

No idea what that means ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why waste your time on someone ..who isnt willing to waste their time on you.

Its evident your hung up about it and you cant handle rejection.

Whether she is online or not ..its irrelevant she doesnt want too meet you .

Im sure there are plenty other women who would welcome the oppertunity.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Theres a few times throughout this post you claim could have done this or that which is "only polite" weirdly you seem to think this post is only polite

No idea what that means ???"
it means you claim that it would be polite to do this or that yet you show no politeness by bitching about a meet on a public forum.its an old one but a good one if you are having problems with timewasters........you chose them

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By *ob nice but dom OP Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY

"Theres a few times throughout this post you claim could have done this or that which is "only polite" weirdly you seem to think this post is only polite

No idea what that means ???it means you claim that it would be polite to do this or that yet you show no politeness by bitching about a meet on a public forum.its an old one but a good one if you are having problems with timewasters........you chose them "

Lol. OK . You know best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, the way you're going on about it I'm beginning to see why she cancelled...

Get over it... shit happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, the way you're going on about it I'm beginning to see why she cancelled...

Get over it... shit happens. "
u r missing the point like a lot of people on here , we r on on here for fun !!! Now am I right or wrong ? For some couples it's there way way to relax and wind down after a hard week and have a little fun . But why arrange a meet and have no point in showing up . That's my view on time wasters . Oh and come to mention it of fakes as well . Ok rant over but we have been on here 3 years now verified etc but the arseholes must be eradicated . That's just my view am sure to to told differently lol . Ps thanks for reading my rant . Happy fabbing folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, the way you're going on about it I'm beginning to see why she cancelled...

Get over it... shit happens. u r missing the point like a lot of people on here , we r on on here for fun !!! Now am I right or wrong ? For some couples it's there way way to relax and wind down after a hard week and have a little fun . But why arrange a meet and have no point in showing up . That's my view on time wasters . Oh and come to mention it of fakes as well . Ok rant over but we have been on here 3 years now verified etc but the arseholes must be eradicated . That's just my view am sure to to told differently lol . Ps thanks for reading my rant . Happy fabbing folks "

You can't beat a good rant lol.

I see your point but it has to be said that nobody on here owes anyone anything. People change their minds and maybe they don't want to feel embarrassed or maybe they want to save others embarrassment...

We've spokenot to people about the prospect of meeting but then haven't messaged again, not because we're wasting anyone's time but because life just gets in the way sometimes. We've never arranged a meet and then cancelled it though - that's bad craic, but of something didn't feel right I'd have no problem with cancelling it. Also just because a meet is arranged it doesn't mean anything is actually guaranteed to happen on it.

Anyway, I'm boring myself now as well lol

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