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By *ndykay OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ok ladies, quick question. Following on from a conversation with a friend today....

In my experience, there are quite a number of ladies who have in the past found it difficult to orgasm during penetrative sex.

Oral or manual stimulation or toys have worked no problem.

But once they've relaxed and are comfortable they seem to orgasm more during sex.

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question furry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I orgasm more three penatrive sex than I do threw clitoral stimulation.

I find I can have multiply orgasms during sex where as if it's solely clitoral then it's a one time and I am untouchable as way to sensitive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a mixture of all helps. If just cliterol stimulation is used it gets to sensitive and not in a good way. Just penetrative sex is boring where if its all mixed up I find I can orgasm loads of times and in different ways. Which all lead to a much better experience.

Mix it up guys keep them guessing what's next . Exciting the mind is way more powerful than any toy

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

Well I used to only orgasm through cliterol stimulation but now I orgasm loads through penetrative sex though it's a different type of orgasm

I orgasm in different ways now with varying reactions shall we say ..................but an awful lot more enjoyable the key is knowing which buttons to press and when lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't often orgasm through penetration, it's mainly a mix of everything

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I find a mixture of all helps. If just cliterol stimulation is used it gets to sensitive and not in a good way. Just penetrative sex is boring where if its all mixed up I find I can orgasm loads of times and in different ways. Which all lead to a much better experience.

Mix it up guys keep them guessing what's next . Exciting the mind is way more powerful than any toy "

^^^^^ this

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By *ndykay OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

I have ways around it but just wanted to show its not just the lady I was talking to.

Everyone is different and everyone reacts differently. But relaxation and being comfortable is still high on the list in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most guys can't reach a woman's g spot with his cock and partly that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think most guys can't reach a woman's g spot with his cock and partly that too "

1. You saying most guys have less than a 2" cock? The gspot is only half a fingers length inside behind the clit.

2. Vaginal orgasms can happen when the walls are stimulated too....its not all about the gspot. There are over 2000 sensuous nerve endings just on the vaginal lips alone.

sounds like men need to spend more time watching, feeling and feeling in order to give the woman a better deal.

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian


"Think most guys can't reach a woman's g spot with his cock and partly that too "

Lol I must be one of the lucky ones Jamie can definitely find mine with his cock ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think most guys can't reach a woman's g spot with his cock and partly that too

1. You saying most guys have less than a 2" cock? The gspot is only half a fingers length inside behind the clit.

2. Vaginal orgasms can happen when the walls are stimulated too....its not all about the gspot. There are over 2000 sensuous nerve endings just on the vaginal lips alone.

sounds like men need to spend more time watching, feeling and feeling in order to give the woman a better deal.

"
I've never measured

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By *ndykay OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Whilst basic anatomy is similar, ALL women are different.

It's finding what works for the individual lady that makes life fun and interesting

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

clitoral orgasm via manual stimulation, then multiple with penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I orgasm more three penatrive sex than I do threw clitoral stimulation.

I find I can have multiply orgasms during sex where as if it's solely clitoral then it's a one time and I am untouchable as way to sensitive x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst basic anatomy is similar, ALL women are different.

It's finding what works for the individual lady that makes life fun and interesting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw feck ....no pressure eh ...

Ya mean ive too find out what works for a Lady during sexual exploration ..

Flippin heck ..

I only last 12 and a half minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw feck ....no pressure eh ...

Ya mean ive too find out what works for a Lady during sexual exploration ..

Flippin heck ..

I only last 12 and a half minutes

"
that long ??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw feck ....no pressure eh ...

Ya mean ive too find out what works for a Lady during sexual exploration ..

Flippin heck ..

I only last 12 and a half minutes

that long ??! "

I could possibly stretch it to 20 mins ..but ahll need a couple of tea breaks ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to the same friend methinks

Mental stimulation, create the perfect relaxed environment, avoid alcohol touch other erogenous spots during foreplay, slowly building the pressure up

If it doesn't work seek medical advice your dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im highly orgasmic both clitorally and penetratively (if those are indeed words...bit of a mouthful).

I agree being relaxed and comfortable are the keys. A certain sexy man helps too!

And yes, I realise I'm very lucky for an auld burd!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Whilst basic anatomy is similar, ALL women are different.

It's finding what works for the individual lady that makes life fun and interesting "
strange one but men are not the only guilty ones what works on one guy dosnt float all mens boats something that alot of fems forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst basic anatomy is similar, ALL women are different.

It's finding what works for the individual lady that makes life fun and interesting strange one but men are not the only guilty ones what works on one guy dosnt float all mens boats something that alot of fems forget"

Exactly Mr Cubes, it takes two to tango!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never climaxed through penetration alone and to be honest very few have managed at all, they just don't get it right on the button ( ) but as long as we enjoy ourselves and I do eventually climax that's the main thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I read somewhere that 95% of women don't orgasm from penetration alone !no matter the size of the manhood!

I've only ever met 2women who didn't cum through sex with me

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't cum ever .....anyone want to help

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

If not through penetration, then my fingers seems to work for the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw feck ....no pressure eh ...

Ya mean ive too find out what works for a Lady during sexual exploration ..

Flippin heck ..

I only last 12 and a half minutes

that long ??!

I could possibly stretch it to 20 mins ..but ahll need a couple of tea breaks ..

"
from what I've saw you could probably stretch most things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to the same friend methinks

Mental stimulation, create the perfect relaxed environment, avoid alcohol touch other erogenous spots during foreplay, slowly building the pressure up

If it doesn't work seek medical advice your dead.

"
haha

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I think I read somewhere that 95% of women don't orgasm from penetration alone !no matter the size of the manhood!

I've only ever met 2women who didn't cum through sex with me "
30 % of women fake it.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I don't cum ever .....anyone want to help "
really? I'm sure that will have a line of white knights ready to help you. Of course they will have to get in line behind the randy guys who want to fuck you, the dirty guys, well hung guys the seven dwarves and the pope.

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By *ndykay OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I don't cum ever .....anyone want to help really? I'm sure that will have a line of white knights ready to help you. Of course they will have to get in line behind the randy guys who want to fuck you, the dirty guys, well hung guys the seven dwarves and the pope. "

White knights, red Knights, Knights that say 'Ni'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I read somewhere that 95% of women don't orgasm from penetration alone !no matter the size of the manhood!

I've only ever met 2women who didn't cum through sex with me 30 % of women fake it. "
only 30%?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst basic anatomy is similar, ALL women are different.

It's finding what works for the individual lady that makes life fun and interesting "

Totally agree. Part of the fun is experimenting to find out what she likes.

My other half orgasms pretty easy through sex as she is very sensitive but playing with her gspot doesn't do much unless it's with her gspot toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had an orgasm from sex for years since one of my ex boyfriends. I just think his cock was the right fit lol.

The only ever time now is if they play with my clit while having sex without toys and even at that I don't count that as a real orgasm !

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Lol lol furry.....I will let u know babes......it's a desperate situation really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I read somewhere that 95% of women don't orgasm from penetration alone !no matter the size of the manhood!

I've only ever met 2women who didn't cum through sex with me 30 % of women fake it. "
maybe older women do, my generation tend to be more cruel, if ur shit they let u know it and everyone you know, then everyone they know & so on & so on until eventually you move to Rome, become a priest & well the rest is just speculation

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

With me it's practice,practice practice *g* ....I do enjoy penetrative and i so know as I found 3 weeks back when with 2 guys that if I'm on all 4,and your behind me and using me hard then varying results hehe,hence I need more, but i do tend when receiving oral,and yes have me on my back all day if you like I tend to multiple orgasm and squirt all day even if uber sensitive at the same time....its a delicious feeling

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"With me it's practice,practice practice *g* ....I do enjoy penetrative and i so know as I found 3 weeks back when with 2 guys that if I'm on all 4,and your behind me and using me hard then varying results hehe,hence I need more, but i do tend when receiving oral,and yes have me on my back all day if you like I tend to multiple orgasm and squirt all day even if uber sensitive at the same time....its a delicious feeling "

That's like the new fbuddy guide to making you orgasm

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