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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what it is sometimes and no disrespect to younger people but when I see them on here I think what ever happened to going out and meeting like we did. I wanted to enjoy the night and if I struck lucky it was all part of the night out. The power of the net I would assume if I was in my twenties I wouldn't want to meet a future girlfriend on here. Comments especially from the younger appreciated.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

How you lived in your youth im sure the older generations thought was wrong and same forthe generation before. People can and will adapt to what is infront of them. If folk are doing it its right for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit...

Not something I'd wanna share if I met my future husband on a sex site

But hey...each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I'm still young-ish, I've done all the going out and hooking up with lads and it's just not something I enjoy doing anymore. I usually always end up in trouble or someone I know gets into it with someone so it just ruins it all for me. Personally, I'm not a very 'people' person anyway so I enjoy just chatting away to people on here and if I meet, I meet, if I don't, I don't, no biggie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tbh I still don't think I would be on here in my 20's. I would be out at the weekend pubs are still full at weekends so are night clubs. I would be finishing my work on a Friday and let's get out on the town, not skip the socialising and go straight looking for a shag get home and bounce on the net. How times change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I still don't think I would be on here in my 20's. I would be out at the weekend pubs are still full at weekends so are night clubs. I would be finishing my work on a Friday and let's get out on the town, not skip the socialising and go straight looking for a shag get home and bounce on the net. How times change."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I still don't think I would be on here in my 20's. I would be out at the weekend pubs are still full at weekends so are night clubs. I would be finishing my work on a Friday and let's get out on the town, not skip the socialising and go straight looking for a shag get home and bounce on the net. How times change."

your only 45, what is stopping you, get down to the ciswo

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Times have changed when younger I could do a w/end sessions. You would need a mortgage now. So folk change to suit the times. The whole when I was young thing dosnt work as each generation has diffrent factors that need to be considered

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

In my twenties I didn't really go out, and when I did I was just the fat friend that no one looked at. Much happier in my thirties but rarely go out in town because I just can't be bothered with it. Can't chat because the music is deafening, and surrounded by d*unken little boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm soooo glad I'm married lol

Think I'd be a recluse if I wasn't lol

Can't be arsed with all those bullshit lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was still in my late teens/early 20s I would still go out at weekends and be on here. As for meeting a girlfriend on here at that age I would never of actually went out with someone off here now probably due to my own in security's but now if I was single I'd much rather have a swinger gf than a vanilla one which I'm lucky to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my husband on fab....happily married by the way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you should only use fab if you're over 40, is that what you're saying? By default if you're below that age then you should just go out and meet people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lol

But I honestly couldn't imagine myself being on here in my 20s I'd rather be out clubbing and getting the buzz of getting ready with my actual mates and wondering who il meet?

Everything is soooo virtual now...just click a button see a face pic then meet

Some might say then why am I on here then...because I'm an actual swinger...well myself n hubby are ...age old question...can singles be classed as swingers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the world you live in. No one goes out and meets people now. Tinder, Grinder, Snapchat, Instagram, Vine, Facebook, Twitter, Periscope - thats how people communicate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's the sad thing

Not exactly the romantic story to tell the grandkids

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"And that's the sad thing

Not exactly the romantic story to tell the grandkids "
is romanticism not also the whirlwind effect you have on each other once you meet. I metyour mum at the local while playing pool isnt exactly romantic either lol my family didnt really get my ska or raving days but for the time it was right we are in the cyber age like it or lump it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really doubt thats peoples' main concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that's the sad thing

Not exactly the romantic story to tell the grandkids is romanticism not also the whirlwind effect you have on each other once you meet. I metyour mum at the local while playing pool isnt exactly romantic either lol my family didnt really get my ska or raving days but for the time it was right we are in the cyber age like it or lump it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hand on my heart say if I was single and met a guy on here and we started a relationship..I'd make us both come off

Until we were married that is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hand on my heart say if I was single and met a guy on here and we started a relationship..I'd make us both come off

Until we were married that is lol"
the grandkids would love that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww

..they would never know tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ye I think this was a good topic for disscution. Ye social media and the sign of today's times with it. Me and my ex went to after 8 one night and got chatting to a 23 year old guy and the first thing we said to him was why the fuck are you not out on a Friday like in the pub next door instead of in a sex club. Each to their own and it's just an opinion after all. Life's choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life was work...gym...pub...dancing...raves..shopping...going out....didn't have the internet then and it was fucking awesome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I said....

That Friday night feeling

Home from work getting ready with the tunes up sorting out what you were gonna wear

Aww those were the days lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

And the next generation will have virtual sex machines you hook up online and the opposites movements are transferred through the machine......then this generation will say in our youth we at least met and so the circle of life continues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Best sex was unexpected sex who agrees

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Best sex was unexpected sex who agrees "
nope comfortable sex is way better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never Had a 1 night stand when I was single ...wish I had

Made up for it now and weirdly I'm married lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best sex was unexpected sex who agrees nope comfortable sex is way better. "
I'm talking when you were younger as it wasn't planned don't get me wrong some were like living in a tattie field but just like getting older we strive to do better. Don't get me wrong I've aways had the gift of tongue just perfected it to different people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats the world you live in. No one goes out and meets people now. Tinder, Grinder, Snapchat, Instagram, Vine, Facebook, Twitter, Periscope - thats how people communicate. "
ye they do the pubs in the centre are still full at the weekends

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By *agger888Man
over a year ago

south lanarkshire

I find younger guys more attractive & love having my cock worshiped by younger camp guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure that it has to be one or the other.

I'm in my early twenties and on fab regularly. I met my man through this site, and we are happily in a committed relationship but we met at a social. A house party really, just like how a lot of non-fab people meet.

I go to sex clubs and private parties at least once or twice a month. I get to get dolled up, have drinks, a laugh, fun, and if I get group sex etc then its a bonus.. so I don't see the difference really.

I am bored of normal clubs/raves, with people throwing up and fighting, or pulling creeps with bad breath. I would much rather have drinks, a laugh and make friends in a more chilled environment. Plus there's the bonus of being able to open up sexually in a safer environment.

People keep telling me I'm too young for fab, or that I should be doing X 'at my age' but I think that's nonsense. I have no responsibilities 'at my age' so I should be doing whatever or whoever I want

That's my two cents on the topic hehe!

Kisses

Mrs J xx

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