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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, i would love to hear any pointers on swinging etiquette/what to do in the potential situation of bumping into your fellow swingers out n about in normal everyday situation.

I pride myself on being discrete, some friends are totally open and free about their swinging others quite rightly prefer to be equally discrete.

Is it a case of always opting for safety and never dare even say "hi hows it going" or if the circumstances seem ok to do exactly that?

Pointers or opinions on it would be appreciated, cheers

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could walk past and not say hi, I mean there is being discreet about how u came to know them but that can easy be brushed off as met em in da pub, friends are friends could u possibly walk past and say nothing?? Could u really??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pointers or helpfull opinions on whats best to do is what im asking, im not saying i 100% would ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a polite hello if the other person or persons are with company, but i have met a girl from site in asda and weve stopped and chatted away with no fererence to how we got to know each other. all depends on how comfortable you are with the person you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive bumped into loads while out an just said hi or smiled unless they alone an they come 2 chat 2 me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then again i had one girl who was extremely d*unk come up to me in pub when i was out with friends and completely embarassed me. i still cringe at it. contacted her next day but guess what... she couldnt remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointers or helpfull opinions on whats best to do is what im asking, im not saying i 100% would ignore."

do what seems to feel good for u at the time as every occassion will probably feel different, I was just saying I would always say hi but then I say hi to people just walking down the street, a stranger is just a friend I haven't met yet, dunno what advice to give that would help, I would think the people u see would send off signals with their body language as to whether they want to be acknowledged or not, Jesus who knows lol.

Just keep on smiling m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met a few peeps from here, in every day life, just smile and say hi, and leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I came across someone whilst I was alone I wouldn't mind stopping for a chat, but if I was clearly with friends I wouldn't appreciate being acknowledged.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

people can say hi without reference to where you know them from.........i don't mind it if someone says "hi _adcow" but could be embarassing if you use a slightly more risque name lol

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

well tony lol if its in asda then id ask to shag um in a quiet isle pmsl but no what ya mean lol as its happend to me when ive been wie vanilla mates lol just say they from way back lol .

im lucky wie my name lol no one will suspect anyone calling me bren unless its bitch pmsl

brenny xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I came across someone whilst I was alone I wouldn't mind stopping for a chat, but if I was clearly with friends I wouldn't appreciate being acknowledged. "

@@ Note to self @@,

If I ever see Pink while she is out with friends REMEMBER not to say GREAT Tits Pink,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never pass someone i know , no matter how, and not say hi with or without company.

Have met a few when out and about, Mrs G even been recognized and shout to while sitting in her car at traffic lights....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had it twice in actual messages on here, a random couple simply messaged to tell me "ohh we think we recognise you",lol, one couple were and are cool bout it, on my friends list etc, the other cpl less friendly bout the situation.

Like all though, im always discrete,

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have seen a couple of people from a couple of sites we have been with spoke to them said hello, also had a wee nod to say hi lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are very iffy about being reconised, i think Gordie has a face that people just remember and the fact he supports a certain team that only has about 6 fans and wear his colours with pride lol

hence why our face pics are in private and we do not accept friend invites from single guys, people with no pictures and those with no face pics.

we wouldnt mind saying hi, we do pride ourselves on being friendly but if we were the ones to actually reconise someone, we would leave them be and mabye send a wee hello over here unless we knew them as actual friends x

great subject though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main issue is that I live in a really small town and I've got quite a close knit group of friends...I'd have a hell of a time explaining just how I knew a random stranger! I can hardly say I met them way back when when I've only been living in this country for less than a year! :p

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Generally i jus smile n nod at peeps i recognise if im out n about as im normally with friends who dont know what i do or im with the kids who def dont know what i do lol

Think its jus polite to acknowledge peeps even discreetly

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe


"we are very iffy about being reconised, i think Gordie has a face that people just remember and the fact he supports a certain team that only has about 6 fans and wear his colours with pride lol

hence why our face pics are in private and we do not accept friend invites from single guys, people with no pictures and those with no face pics.

we wouldnt mind saying hi, we do pride ourselves on being friendly but if we were the ones to actually reconise someone, we would leave them be and mabye send a wee hello over here unless we knew them as actual friends x

great subject though xxx"

Damn that teams support gets bigger every year

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I think the right thing to do is absolutely nothing. If you meet someone from here or the carparks in the street, a supermarket or wherever you can never be sure what going on around you that you're unaware of. A boyfriend/ husband/ parent etc could be a few paces away and an awkward situation could arise.

A quick PM when you get online to say 'hi, nice to see you earlier' should fix any suggestion of rudeness but in any case I'd rather be thought of (wrongly) being rude than having caused a domestic problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt bother me speakin as long as someone didnt say: "Hey kinky how u doin 2day?"

Or words 2 that effect!!!

U meet ppl in all places so how do they need 2 no how, where n why etc?? xx

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