FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasting females

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Probably going to get stick for this but as a male I find there are a hell of a lot of females on this just wasting guys time! No respect in replying to arranged meets etc! Seems to be a common theme that these females who wouldn't necessary get attention away from this site are getting lots from the amount makes on this and certainly going to some of there heads

Not tarring them all with the same brush mind u just my experiance and from what I see other gust also saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you blame them when guys shower the females with compliments constantly??

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Sure they're actually women?

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

Timewasting men too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nowhere near as much as the females! Fulla time wasters and fakes...1 or 2 nice genuine girls though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand your frustration but I'm wondering at the comment in regard to "females who wouldn't necessarily get attention anywhere else"... I can't understand why anyone would want to meet someone from here they wouldn't want to meet in the "real world"

Hope you have better luck in the future OP

Fire x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yeah I'm incapable of hooking up with anyone outside of here. My arse needs its own postcode and my face is like the back end of a bus. I'm utterly desperate to waste time here with charming men who wouldn't look twice at me whilst I'm buying ten cream buns in Greggs to guzzle on in the park on the way home. It strokes my ego no end to be grateful for a shag. I just wish I was worthy of such a catch!

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

"I can understand your frustration but I'm wondering at the comment in regard to "females who wouldn't necessarily get attention anywhere else"... I can't understand why anyone would want to meet someone from here they wouldn't want to meet in the "real world"

Hope you have better luck in the future OP

Fire x"

You are quite right Fire, non of the ladies on here should be _iewed as somehow less attractive or as second class just because they are on here. The same goes for the guys, however, I do think that it is easier to strike up a conversation on here about sex and your likes and dislikes as opposed to doing it at a pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you have better luck in the future OP

Fire x

Agreed Caroline, that's the beauty of having that social constraint removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel that bad about it. Feel free to leave. Noone holding you here against your will.

If guys are giving the woman the attention. They must at least find them attractive enough to wanna shag them. Or by your _iews are the guys just time wasters also.

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

Indeed Fire, I don't know you (yet) but if we started talking in a pub I wouldn't bring up Fab or my dressing up, however, on here it is open knowledge as its on my profile.

As for timewasters, I give them the benefit of the doubt on one or two occaisions then just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must agree with the gut in here and I was even surprised when me and my girl were in 2 clubs and even my girl was getting haste by girls in 2 clubs in 2 weeks .she said if they were guys they would get decked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As opposed to the time wasting couples and guys that don't exist on here much, timewasters of all groups, just move on and stick some tunes on.

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

"As opposed to the time wasting couples and guys that don't exist on here much, timewasters of all groups, just move on and stick some tunes on."

Yes indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to get stick for this but as a male I find there are a hell of a lot of females on this just wasting guys time! No respect in replying to arranged meets etc! Seems to be a common theme that these females who wouldn't necessary get attention away from this site are getting lots from the amount makes on this and certainly going to some of there heads

Not tarring them all with the same brush mind u just my experiance and from what I see other gust also saying "

I also see your frustration here.Although what you state may sound harsh ..You do have a valid point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've been stood up countless times, it's actually a running joke with fab friends and my husband.

I resent the implication that women on here wouldn't get a backward glance in the real world though - think it says more about your personality than the rest of your post

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

3 weeks

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And moaning and threatening to leave....

Go. It's clearly not for you but do so in a dignified manner.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"3 weeks

Verified

And moaning and threatening to leave....

Go. It's clearly not for you but do so in a dignified manner.

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By *ushcpl99Couple
over a year ago

fife

"3 weeks

Verified

And moaning and threatening to leave....

Go. It's clearly not for you but do so in a dignified manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 weeks

Verified

And moaning and threatening to leave....

Go. It's clearly not for you but do so in a dignified manner.

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got ta agree , u have ur cake , u have eaten it , and now ur complaing ? Go on and leave if u wish at least that means a little less comretition for me lol . Mrb

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Not tarring them all with the same brush mind u just my experiance and from what I see other gust also saying "

Sounds the usual I can't get a meet therefore it must be the women on here type post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't moan about it on a forum either

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

Not tarring them all with the same brush mind u just my experiance and from what I see other gust also saying

Sounds the usual I can't get a meet therefore it must be the women on here type post.

Yes I think you are right, some will think as soon as they get a profile the ladies will fall at their feet.

Sometimes going to a club or event is the best way to meet people, chat and make some friends the arrange to meet later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tarring them all with the same brush mind u just my experiance and from what I see other gust also saying

Sounds the usual I can't get a meet therefore it must be the women on here type post.

Yes I think you are right, some will think as soon as they get a profile the ladies will fall at their feet.

Sometimes going to a club or event is the best way to meet people, chat and make some friends the arrange to meet later."

O true Caroline xxxx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Your right, we are not worthy of your attention on here, we're just here to tease with the pretty pictures because no other man will look at me otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh a lot o girls go for the prity boys than normal genuine folk like us .then that's why they get tome waisting. As for my self I have never backed out o a meet all my verifications stand for there self .plus lot o girls judge via looks and profile

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Why is it folk seem to have problems with timewasters....... I know its everybody elses fault I mean ffs I spent as little time as possible setting up a profile why the f**k am I not knee deep in clunge. Alternativly you could accept the blame you chose the folk who you believe wasted your time

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Well I've been stood up countless times, it's actually a running joke with fab friends and my husband.

I resent the implication that women on here wouldn't get a backward glance in the real world though - think it says more about your personality than the rest of your post "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you feel that bad about it. Feel free to leave. Noone holding you here against your will.

If guys are giving the woman the attention. They must at least find them attractive enough to wanna shag them. Or by your _iews are the guys just time wasters also.

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actually that's not true, most guys on here will deny this because they don't want to risk ruining they're chances of gettin meets on here but I couldn't give a toss lol so as usual al be honest, guys if it's been long enough since the last shag, can fuck women we don't find even remotely attractive, yes after it we feel absolutely disgusted with ourselves but we got what we needed.

Personally for me I only find a few women genuinely attractive on this site in Scotland, more down England, I made a vow to myself about 3months ago I'm not meeting any women anymore I don't find attractive and no more BBW's as a just hate myself after it.

All I have left on fab is the very few I do like but I'd never get them so I don't even look for meets on fab now, get much better luck from other sites and apps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a more serious note ..I wish some busty luscious Female would waste their time on me..

Sexually of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ya fecker ....

Surely its got to be in the personality chemistry connection...

Do i want to chase a size 8 Female in Torquay ..?

Not really when i have loads of beautiful women on my door step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to block so many guys in one swoop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to block so many guys in one swoop

Got to love these posts makes fab life easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to block so many guys in one swoop

Got to love these posts makes fab life easier

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy Women .....This way please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh a lot o girls go for the prity boys than normal genuine folk like us .then that's why they get tome waisting. As for my self I have never backed out o a meet all my verifications stand for there self .plus lot o girls judge via looks and profile "

What they go for is attraction, one girls pretty boy is another girls no no, anyone can time waste its got nothing to do with looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy Women .....This way please x

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on my way

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

What they go for is attraction, one girls pretty boy is another girls no no, anyone can time waste its got nothing to do with looks

Yep, can't stand a pretty boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting pretty sick (after like 3 weeks back) of getting told I'm a time waster because after a few days of chat I'm still not wanting to meet. Personally I think if you can't read my profile you've wasted your own time, not me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy Women .....This way please x

on my way

Mind bring your Kagoul ...Its gonna be WET !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting pretty sick (after like 3 weeks back) of getting told I'm a time waster because after a few days of chat I'm still not wanting to meet. Personally I think if you can't read my profile you've wasted your own time, not me!"
well said gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy Women .....This way please x

on my way

Mind bring your Kagoul ...Its gonna be WET !!

I've heard there's to be a downpour

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This thread really made me chuckle.

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"If you feel that bad about it. Feel free to leave. Noone holding you here against your will.

If guys are giving the woman the attention. They must at least find them attractive enough to wanna shag them. Or by your _iews are the guys just time wasters also.

actually that's not true, most guys on here will deny this because they don't want to risk ruining they're chances of gettin meets on here but I couldn't give a toss lol so as usual al be honest, guys if it's been long enough since the last shag, can fuck women we don't find even remotely attractive, yes after it we feel absolutely disgusted with ourselves but we got what we needed.

All I have left on fab is the very few I do like but I'd never get them so I don't even look for meets on fab now, get much better luck from other sites and apps."

What are you???...some sort of male Adonis that you think your so handsome that women should be privileged and just fall at your feet and drop their knickers BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY ARE LESS ATTRACTIVE?

Have you ever thought what was _iews of the 'less attractive females' that you've shagged in relation to yourself?

Obviously in your mind you think they will happily satisfied....more than likely they probably found you and I quote "absolutely disgusted with themselves' but hey ho THEY GOT WHAT THEY NEEDED '

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"How to block so many guys in one swoop

Got to love these posts makes fab life easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to internet "dating" my friend folk often just stop talking to you whether it be due to getting a better offer, losing interest, cold feet or deliberately time wasting is largely academic.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Welcome to internet "dating" my friend folk often just stop talking to you whether it be due to getting a better offer, losing interest, cold feet or deliberately time wasting is largely academic. "

Or posting stuff like this on public forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately you have to ask the question...

If you're looking for a WOMAN to get jiggy with the why on gods green earth are you on a SWINGERS site?

It's like going to the IKEA and trying to buy a Fray Bentos pie. You MIGHT find one however it's really really unlikely

Lot's of other websites where single guys are having more meets than an Argentinian butchershop.

Use the right tools for the right job buddy

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Ultimately you have to ask the question...

If you're looking for a WOMAN to get jiggy with the why on gods green earth are you on a SWINGERS site?

It's like going to the IKEA and trying to buy a Fray Bentos pie. You MIGHT find one however it's really really unlikely

Lot's of other websites where single guys are having more meets than an Argentinian butchershop.

Use the right tools for the right job buddy

You don't think there are women here?

Looking to get jiggy?

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there's women on here.

My point is that the chances of a single guy getting a meet are slimmer than Karen Carpenter after a night on Immodium.

Evident by the daily threads created by some white knight, crushed by this truth.

And yes, seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some guys forget we are outnumbered massively so even if you are a good looking guy the chances are that the lady you have contacted could already be chatting to someone she finds more attractive and therefore you may not get the response you were hoping for

Creating posts where you sound like an absolute dick really isn't going to help you either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont you think there are timewasters in all groups......men, women, couples. Sometimes its lack of confidence, sometimes they are just on fab to have their pics liked and to boost their ego (which is fine by the way). I wouldnt get too hung up on the timewasters. Thats what they like alot of them. The attention.

Oh and fyi!!! To say us ladies can only get fun if we are on a swinging site. Id much rather be getting a shag in a club or on here than going out on a saturday night and having a one night stand with some numpty who cant string a sentence together because theyve forgot to get off the jagerbomb bus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes..

Fool me once, fool you. Fool me twice, fool me.

Everything in life is a learning curve... sometimes you have a great experience, sometimes you don't, sometimes you learn. Learning is the important thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont you think there are timewasters in all groups......men, women, couples. Sometimes its lack of confidence, sometimes they are just on fab to have their pics liked and to boost their ego (which is fine by the way). I wouldnt get too hung up on the timewasters. Thats what they like alot of them. The attention.

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hah luv this

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Hope you have better luck in the future OP

Fire x"

Totally agree .

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"How to block so many guys in one swoop

Got to love these posts makes fab life easier

lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old saying...a fool an his money are easily parted

New saying

a Desperate fool and his time are easily wasted.....or is that too harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Old saying...a fool an his money are easily parted

New saying

a Desperate fool and his time are easily wasted.....or is that too harsh

Your tool is easily wasted on a desperate fool ..

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By *onto the 3rdMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Im assuming thats a GofT reference there?

Shooperb

A girl is no one...unless she's one of those time-wasters.

Ooh and witty puns too...what a dream girl you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you feel that bad about it. Feel free to leave. Noone holding you here against your will.

If guys are giving the woman the attention. They must at least find them attractive enough to wanna shag them. Or by your _iews are the guys just time wasters also.

All I have left on fab is the very few I do like but I'd never get them so I don't even look for meets on fab now, get much better luck from other sites and apps.

Have you ever thought what was _iews of the 'less attractive females' that you've shagged in relation to yourself?

Obviously in your mind you think they will happily satisfied....more than likely they probably found you and I quote "absolutely disgusted with themselves' but hey ho THEY GOT WHAT THEY NEEDED '

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some guys forget we are outnumbered massively so even if you are a good looking guy the chances are that the lady you have contacted could already be chatting to someone she finds more attractive and therefore you may not get the response you were hoping for

Creating posts where you sound like an absolute dick really isn't going to help you either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you feel that bad about it. Feel free to leave. Noone holding you here against your will.

If guys are giving the woman the attention. They must at least find them attractive enough to wanna shag them. Or by your _iews are the guys just time wasters also.

All I have left on fab is the very few I do like but I'd never get them so I don't even look for meets on fab now, get much better luck from other sites and apps.

Have you ever thought what was _iews of the 'less attractive females' that you've shagged in relation to yourself?

Obviously in your mind you think they will happily satisfied....more than likely they probably found you and I quote "absolutely disgusted with themselves' but hey ho THEY GOT WHAT THEY NEEDED '

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What I am is honest I know honesty is hard to swallow on fab because you all get so used to fake compliments that lead into ur knickers that you forget men only want one thing and will lie and say anything that makes u feel good to get it,

nope not a male Adonis and don't think women should fall at my feet, don't know where you got that from????

Yes I have thought about their _iews as I never claim to be anything special and actually don't have a good opinion about myself, "not big headed" like every other guy

Nope your wrong again, you don't know what's in my mind so ur OBVIOUSLY statement is 100% wrong

maybe a few were disgusted with their selves and if so I'm just really confused as to why they wanted me back???

As for the other reply that said "well said" it was all wrong so how was it we'll said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the saying goes..

Fool me once, fool you. Fool me twice, fool me.

Everything in life is a learning curve... sometimes you have a great experience, sometimes you don't, sometimes you learn. Learning is the important thing...

but as you well know young lady

Some people never learn, no matter how good the teacher or how obvious the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the saying goes..

Fool me once, fool you. Fool me twice, fool me.

Everything in life is a learning curve... sometimes you have a great experience, sometimes you don't, sometimes you learn. Learning is the important thing...

but as you well know young lady

Some people never learn, no matter how good the teacher or how obvious the answer"

Correct young man... I do know that well... Disappointing isn't it

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