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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this on anyone's to-do list?

Probably not as popular as bi ffm I'm guessing....

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By *olinb1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Something I may consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its on mine, currently in process of sorting it

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By *olinb1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sounds fun

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By *akleonMan
over a year ago

Helensburgh

It's something I've never done before but I'd probably try it once. Curiosity might get the better of me

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Definitely on the to do list, hopefully meet a couple at Cj's bi night at the end of the month

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

M-Max-M

Lots of fun and defo on my to-do-again list

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By *olinb1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know it's not for everyone but we love it

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Great fun, can't wait to do it again

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Was on my bucket list but can be scored off now. Really was good I would Deffo recommend xxx

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

had a few of these and would love more.always had them in my office at work,warm and private

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Nice to see a few couple and women who are interested in these, unfortunately a lot of the people I have been with aren't into bi mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, something I've thought about too...might find the right guys some day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preferred choice of meet and the best ones we've had off here.

Mr

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

im always happy to join anyone for this anytime,just come and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done this a few times, always had great fun, never know whats gonna flop in your mouth at any given time. lol. great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely looking to get involved with this. One of my main fantasies at the moment. Has been for a little while now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite kind of meet for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite kind of meet for sure!"

So you get off on seeing two guys together?

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ihave had a few of these type of meets and hope to have more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite kind of meet for sure!

So you get off on seeing two guys together? "

I get off on having two hot guys and everyone enjoying themselves. Some guys like two women- not sure what is so controversial....

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes espescially in a earlier post he was all for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite kind of meet for sure!

So you get off on seeing two guys together?

I get off on having two hot guys and everyone enjoying themselves. Some guys like two women- not sure what is so controversial...."

I'm not suggesting it's controversial just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something i'd like to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes espescially in a earlier post he was all for it "

I was asking a question not bring controversial or a cunt, ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it just sounded accusatory or a bit off as you focused on the two guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it just sounded accusatory or a bit off as you focused on the two guys."

Yeah maybe, it was a genuine question though.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Often think some way of conveying tone online would be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it just sounded accusatory or a bit off as you focused on the two guys.

Yeah maybe, it was a genuine question though."

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for "

Sounds like a great time for all involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

Sounds like a great time for all involved "

No point in doing it otherwise!

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

Sounds like a great time for all involved

No point in doing it otherwise! "

An excellent point, not the easiest to organise though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lucky enough to have a few of these always great fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're thinking about trying it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

Sounds like a great time for all involved

No point in doing it otherwise!

An excellent point, not the easiest to organise though "

No, especially when a lot of guys here feel that they cannot be open.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

Sounds like a great time for all involved

No point in doing it otherwise!

An excellent point, not the easiest to organise though

No, especially when a lot of guys here feel that they cannot be open. "

Yeah, well think there are a few in this thread who are

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By *haz92Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's on my to do list

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By *olinb1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm sure u will get plenty offers shaz x

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Shaz you should try Cj's new mixed bi night at the end of the month if you are interested in meetingnlike minded people who would be into this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

Sounds like a great time for all involved

No point in doing it otherwise!

An excellent point, not the easiest to organise though

No, especially when a lot of guys here feel that they cannot be open.

Yeah, well think there are a few in this thread who are "

Suppose so. Prefer Edinburgh guys though.

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By *haz92Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Shaz you should try Cj's new mixed bi night at the end of the month if you are interested in meetingnlike minded people who would be into this"
I've been to most of the other nights at Cjs yet to try the mixed bi night need to get along and try make a fantasy reality

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"

And my genuine answer is that I love it. Two handsome guys and everyone enjoying themselves- little more that I could ask for

Sounds like a great time for all involved

No point in doing it otherwise!

An excellent point, not the easiest to organise though

No, especially when a lot of guys here feel that they cannot be open.

Yeah, well think there are a few in this thread who are

Suppose so. Prefer Edinburgh guys

though."

Well I'm an Edinburgh guy

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"Shaz you should try Cj's new mixed bi night at the end of the month if you are interested in meetingnlike minded people who would be into this I've been to most of the other nights at Cjs yet to try the mixed bi night need to get along and try make a fantasy reality "

Worth a shot

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Bi mmf is awesome totally love it every time x

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"Bi mmf is awesome totally love it every time x"

Lucky guys who get to play with you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my to do list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try this. Been fantasising about stroking and sucking a guy's cock before he slides into a girl. Or sucking on his balls as she rides him cowgirl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like there are plenty of fans!!!

Does seem very hard to organise though for singles..... Wonder what the solution is?!

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Big group bi orgy ? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love this kind of meeting best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to plan one

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

Definitely on Claire's bucket list

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By *ob GobbMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Enjoyed it a few times now and will certainly be back for more. Plenty of sexy combinations with bi MMF.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

given the number of people on here who are up for / enjoy bi mmf them sure those with it on the bucket list can tick it off soon

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By *ermandrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have been privileged enough to to share with a few bi-sh couples and I have loved every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done it, loved it and deff up for more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them

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By *VfunGUY007Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

First party I attended was 2 tgirls a bi couple and myself

That was interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"given the number of people on here who are up for / enjoy bi mmf them sure those with it on the bucket list can tick it off soon "

More Edinburgh guys needed!!

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By *ob GobbMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Open to PMs. Love Bi MMF meets, mind you, also love FFM meets too, but then again who doesn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"given the number of people on here who are up for / enjoy bi mmf them sure those with it on the bucket list can tick it off soon

More Edinburgh guys needed!!"

I'm in Edinburgh regularly!!!!

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I love it but trying to organise one is like chasing unicorns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be interesting would never say never

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"given the number of people on here who are up for / enjoy bi mmf them sure those with it on the bucket list can tick it off soon

More Edinburgh guys needed!!"

Surely there are more than just me

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ticked it of my bucket list ages ago and still enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id do it,depending on who it's with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi mmf is what I'm asking been trying to find right couple for a long time now

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning


"Its on mine, currently in process of sorting it "

Happy to volunteer xx

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

Will be at Shoebox next Wednesday if any ladies and guys want to arrange a mmf.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"Its on mine, currently in process of sorting it "

Happy to help you sort this out

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By *oftfocusMan
over a year ago

EDINBURGH


"

More Edinburgh guys needed!!"

Bi mmf ( or more)?

Yes,please.

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By *UN-ALMan
over a year ago

Near Fenwick

It's something I have done and would do again ??

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It's pretty much the only reason I'm on the site these days. Would still meet a tv for a 1-1 meet but other than that it's only bi mmf meets or bi parties.

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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's my favourite.

It can be hard to organise as a lot f guys like the thought more than the reality.

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's my favourite.

It can be hard to organise as a lot f guys like the thought more than the reality. "

I had my one and only ffm 3some when a guy never turned up for a meet. It was supposed to be an all bi 4some. I got over the disappointment and got on with the 3some instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still on my to do list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for select males and couples for this, been a long time fantasy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck may l throw my hat in the ring lol x


"We are looking for select males and couples for this, been a long time fantasy x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy from Glasgow who travels to Edinburgh , would also like that strap on if yours too lol x


"given the number of people on here who are up for / enjoy bi mmf them sure those with it on the bucket list can tick it off soon

More Edinburgh guys needed!!"

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

One of my favourite 3sum's ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There seems to be a lot of interest in this! All we need to do is start pairing people up now!

Anyone interested???x

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By *ack For Fun69Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

I've been lucky enough to be involved in a few of these on another site in the past, can definitely recommend. Been too long though, don't know if I'd remember what to do

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had a few... and a bi mmmf..

What's not to like

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

This is definitely on my bucket list

Mmmmmmm

Claire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had a few... and a bi mmmf..

What's not to like "

That's just greedy!!!

Love the sound of this! How do I get involved?xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lot of fun!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd love to try "

But your profile says you're straight

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Its on my wish list but I can't see it ever happening in the way I would want

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Its on my wish list but I can't see it ever happening in the way I would want "

How do you want it?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

At a guess the poolboy and the plumber vie for her affections .......as they get undressed they admit they are fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to try

But your profile says you're straight "

fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm due to add it to the bucket list.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"At a guess the poolboy and the plumber vie for her affections .......as they get undressed they admit they are fab straight "

No not quite that cheesey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a bi Mmf when I was a student which was a few years ago now. One of THE best sexual experiences I've ever had.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

we are looking for a guy for this from the Aberdeen area.pm us if your interested.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Been there, done that, loved it.

Do it again? Damn "straight".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it. Its amazing. The pleasure it brings everyone involved is amazing. Not just one person to pleasure but two and the pleasure goes on and on and on. Experienced.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"We're thinking about trying it !"

Bout bloody time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gotta laugh. So many "straight " guys up for this.

It just cracks me up.lol

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By *abulous fingersMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Mibbys aye! Mibbys naw!

I've never been asked! Just saying like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no not for me at all

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By *ifeguy14Man
over a year ago

Glenrothes

This is certainly on my to do list happy to join a couple message me if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think there's a lot of "straight" guys posting in here, you should see my inbox ??

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"If you think there's a lot of "straight" guys posting in here, you should see my inbox ??"

Don't mind if I do look at your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my to do list

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By *dcumlover2Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

Done this a few times and love it cock and pussy at the same time mmmm next on the list is bi mmff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is looking for newbie to join them in this - I'm all about learning new skils!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have enjoyed several Bi MMF's and always happy to enjoy more

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By *dybiguyMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy + EH1

Certainly at the top of my list any bi couples looking for someone to join them give me a shout

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Not for me as i much prefer FFM

My man is straight so again not for us lol

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By *pecxxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most definitely enjoyable, longing to enjoy again x

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By *ilk and sugarCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Been there done it,got the t shirt lol??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to arrange one many times but sadly it's still on my to do list

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it drop me a message anyone who's interested x

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Maybe the next time I'm in Scotland I'll have to get in touch cause its definitely on my to do list.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Mibbys aye! Mibbys naw!

I've never been asked! Just saying like!"

Probably never been invited to a bi mmf cause your profile says straight

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On my to do list "

A bi mmf is on your to do list??

Amazing how many straight guys want a bi mmf

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Ok genuine question requiring sensible answers.

Why do people on here have to have one preference or another as their sexuality? By which I mean why NOT have Straight as your preference but still want to try a Bi MFM?

As a Gay guy I clicked my preference when I joined, but that hasn't excluded me from having more than my fair share of MFM's with selected hotties from Fab over the years.

My preference is still mainly Men, just as a Straight Guy's is most likely Women. It surely doesn't ban people from being fluid in their choices given the right people & circumstances?

Take folks sexual preference as an indication of what they clicked the day they joined, read their profiles for clues as to whether that's set in stone or not, then if you feel like mailing or meeting the person/people then why not?

I've attended numerous Socials, House Parties, & other Events which have been mainly Straight Swingers, met some fabulous open minded types, acquired genuine friendships from the site (both in Chat/Forums or out at Socials, some of whom I've played with, others not.

The idea of limiting myself to one sex or the other isn't my thing, and some posts/threads on Fab reminds me of the attitude you can meet in some gay circles where folk screw up there faces at the idea of straying from the box they feel more comfortable restricting you to.

Now I'm not saying a Bi MFM is going to be everyone's cuppa, just as I wouldn't expect anyone to suddenly change their profile after trying a Bi MFM. Similarly, I'm not about to change mine just to suit the gay scene crowd or the folk on Fab who act like it's alright for them to lead an "alternative" lifestyle but not anyone else who uses Fab if they try a Bi MFM and happen to prefer one gender to another.

Apologies if this sounds a little like a rant, but my question stands... why should someone change their profile if they are willing to try a Bi MFM?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"

Ok genuine question requiring sensible answers.

Why do people on here have to have one preference or another as their sexuality? By which I mean why NOT have Straight as your preference but still want to try a Bi MFM?

As a Gay guy I clicked my preference when I joined, but that hasn't excluded me from having more than my fair share of MFM's with selected hotties from Fab over the years.

My preference is still mainly Men, just as a Straight Guy's is most likely Women. It surely doesn't ban people from being fluid in their choices given the right people & circumstances?

Take folks sexual preference as an indication of what they clicked the day they joined, read their profiles for clues as to whether that's set in stone or not, then if you feel like mailing or meeting the person/people then why not?

I've attended numerous Socials, House Parties, & other Events which have been mainly Straight Swingers, met some fabulous open minded types, acquired genuine friendships from the site (both in Chat/Forums or out at Socials, some of whom I've played with, others not.

The idea of limiting myself to one sex or the other isn't my thing, and some posts/threads on Fab reminds me of the attitude you can meet in some gay circles where folk screw up there faces at the idea of straying from the box they feel more comfortable restricting you to.

Now I'm not saying a Bi MFM is going to be everyone's cuppa, just as I wouldn't expect anyone to suddenly change their profile after trying a Bi MFM. Similarly, I'm not about to change mine just to suit the gay scene crowd or the folk on Fab who act like it's alright for them to lead an "alternative" lifestyle but not anyone else who uses Fab if they try a Bi MFM and happen to prefer one gender to another.

Apologies if this sounds a little like a rant, but my question stands... why should someone change their profile if they are willing to try a Bi MFM?"

I have to agree with all of this. As ive said plenty times before there is a real double standard on here and probably in general between men and women on this.

I'm a straight woman but I've been known to be a tourist now and again and play with other females. No one would bat an eyelid or suggest I change my fab label. Yet when its a man who wants to explore or has, people are practically out with pitchforks for them to label themselves Bi.

And on the subject of labels, mine is my name. Thats it. In my mind the only time they are ever of any use is on clothes care instructions.

Its so sad in 2016 there's still so much disapproval of what others do.

I understand people have preferences and of course we all should, but why impose our limits on other's?

A lot of people on this site seem to spend so much time fixating and questioning what other people do. Its sad. They must miss out on so much fun of their own.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I think folk see a stigma attached to bi males (fems are expected) I believe its because in general its a male driven quantity. Im one of those pesky folk who finds it weird the "straight" male thing I care not about folks sexiality I care about mine solely.

there are people through their preferance who wish not to meet with folk who engage in bisexuality (both male and female) and surely its unfair to decieve these folk and take away their right to preferance. Folk need to stop seeing bi as something wrong which it isnt but it is a neccesity to help show your boundrys

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By *eckyWithTheGoodHairWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Id love a bi mmf x mmmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is high up on my to-do list, already have a female in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes I want to try this.

Come on Aberdeen people,help a guy out

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok genuine question requiring sensible answers.

Why do people on here have to have one preference or another as their sexuality? By which I mean why NOT have Straight as your preference but still want to try a Bi MFM?

As a Gay guy I clicked my preference when I joined, but that hasn't excluded me from having more than my fair share of MFM's with selected hotties from Fab over the years.

My preference is still mainly Men, just as a Straight Guy's is most likely Women. It surely doesn't ban people from being fluid in their choices given the right people & circumstances?

Take folks sexual preference as an indication of what they clicked the day they joined, read their profiles for clues as to whether that's set in stone or not, then if you feel like mailing or meeting the person/people then why not?

I've attended numerous Socials, House Parties, & other Events which have been mainly Straight Swingers, met some fabulous open minded types, acquired genuine friendships from the site (both in Chat/Forums or out at Socials, some of whom I've played with, others not.

The idea of limiting myself to one sex or the other isn't my thing, and some posts/threads on Fab reminds me of the attitude you can meet in some gay circles where folk screw up there faces at the idea of straying from the box they feel more comfortable restricting you to.

Now I'm not saying a Bi MFM is going to be everyone's cuppa, just as I wouldn't expect anyone to suddenly change their profile after trying a Bi MFM. Similarly, I'm not about to change mine just to suit the gay scene crowd or the folk on Fab who act like it's alright for them to lead an "alternative" lifestyle but not anyone else who uses Fab if they try a Bi MFM and happen to prefer one gender to another.

Apologies if this sounds a little like a rant, but my question stands... why should someone change their profile if they are willing to try a Bi MFM?"

THIS. SO MUCH THIS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think there's a lot of "straight" guys posting in here, you should see my inbox ??

Don't mind if I do look at your inbox "

You can buy me dinner first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think folk see a stigma attached to bi males (fems are expected) I believe its because in general its a male driven quantity. Im one of those pesky folk who finds it weird the "straight" male thing I care not about folks sexiality I care about mine solely.

there are people through their preferance who wish not to meet with folk who engage in bisexuality (both male and female) and surely its unfair to decieve these folk and take away their right to preferance. Folk need to stop seeing bi as something wrong which it isnt but it is a neccesity to help show your boundrys "

well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sexual orientation as straight but I'd say I'm more hetro bendy.lol

I'd love to try bi mmf at some point just to see if I liked it.

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