FabSwingers.com forum: Unpleasant surprises

By *ifferentClass OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

A bit of a minefield, but if we try not to offend then it could be quite interesting.

I always enjoy hearing stories about these meets that you want to forget! I know there's some cracking stories out there.

I once met with a couple where the lady was mute - except the bloke never told me. I thought she was either terrifically nervous, didn't like me or had very poor social skills. After about twenty minutes of awkward conversation between me and him while she just sat there, I figured it out. I was so thrown that I had to make my excuses and leave!

If I'd known about the poor woman's difficulty beforehand it would've been ok, but it was very strange him acting like it didn't exist!

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By *eyland and lyssaCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

did you not give the lady any consideration at all clearly she new what you were there for but you chose to make it awkward for yourself and for them because of someones disability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did you not give the lady any consideration at all clearly she new what you were there for but you chose to make it awkward for yourself and for them because of someones disability"

i dont think thats the case..ive been there myself..i met a cpl 2 an she was mute tho i didnt leave but everyone is diff an im no here 2 judge anyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did you not give the lady any consideration at all clearly she new what you were there for but you chose to make it awkward for yourself and for them because of someones disability"

i dont agree, i think id have been knocked for six too and would be caught up in trying to let them know it was ok and not at all a problem, thus stopping myself 'performing'.

on the other hand had they said beforehand, or even as id arrived, it wouldnt have been an issue, i think thats what the dude means.

our first meet was awful lol, was with a slightly older couple who we werent really attracted too, and they didnt seem to actually like each other much, always drawing each other growlers etc.

after a chat etc we started doing the same room fun, no swapping, and when pamela got on top of me, whilst my head was buried in her gorgeous chest i noticed the guy was 'overly staring' at her, andi do mean really really staring and she whispered to me that he was freaking her out, his misses noticed it too and went fucking loopy

we kicked them out, they broke up and both pestered us for about three months for a threesome. i actualy had to have words with the guy to get him to leave us alone, and the girl sometimes still emails us lol

freeeeaaaakyyy people

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By *ifferentClass OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Indeed, it wasn't the fact that the lady had a disability, but the manner in which I had to find out for myself that totally threw me. As I said, prior knowledge would have prepared me but the way in which it was almost purposely concealed until the penny dropped left me in a spin. Not the way to do it, I would suggest.

Anyway - worse than that was the lady with a killer body but dreadful teeth and halitosis problems. A real passion killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think they proberly should have told u they u would of felt more comfy and understood why she just sat there and said nothing...

i was with a guy we were a bit tipsy and he asked me how many guys i had slept with.. i answered ( and no im not telling) and as i cllimbed on top of him i said how many women have u slept with........ just as i lowered my self down on him he said " YOUR MY FIRST"...... If he had said before hand could have made it a bit more special for him as it kinda too me by suprise and i stopped....

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

mj you bloody did not just go, you stayed for seconds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont understand why it shocked you so much that you had to leave. I feel sorry for the poor woman as she probably has enough on her plate to deal with being mute without a guy doing that to her

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By *ifferentClass OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mr T & T - that's what you'd have done, I'm sure since nowt would stop you!

Funstar, I admit I felt badly at the time, but then thought I shouldn't be too hard on myself about it, and I was interested to see what peoples' take on it was. I did empathise with the woman, as I would anyone with a disability, but it was this freaky way they dealt with it that made what didn't have to be an issue into a really weird situation. I can only assume they had told people before, and then had meets cancel on them as a result but the guy sitting there ignoring the fact that I was sitting there trying to have a conversation with the lady who obviously couldn't was just a bit much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i guess your right hunni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a mate who woke up next to a girl who had a false leg he was very d*unk and nothing had happened as far as he could remember !! we believe she prob told him and he diidnt mind till the morning !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some very bizaare meets. There was a guy that looked perfectly hot until he smiled there were two huge black holes in his two front teeth.

There was a threesome where it turned out the couple had got completely d*unk before I arrived due to nerves.

I met a couple and the guy fell asleep in the living room whilst I was playing with his gf. Then she tried to wake him up and he wouldn't budge.

Erm I met a guy once, and we had a brilliant time, then just before he got dressed he put on one of my dresses. I thought it was funny, but I cansimagine someone else would get entirely freaked out. Luckily it didn't fit him though!

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