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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why put a block filter on allowing you to block folk that isn't verified

But folk that are photo verified can still contact you..?

Seems a bit of a nonsense

So I block folk that isn't but then have to argue...and yip sometimes argue that just because you hold a piece of paper up with your name on it to a camera doesn't mean your verified..

Why can we have a filter for just not having a green tick??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone blocked people that weren't verified in some way then no one new could get verified and the site would fail eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Plenty of folk meet unverified guys..fems

Just saves time when guys don't read the profile then they get all stroppy why you don't meet unverified guys?

Saves time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they do but if u gave an option to block all types of verified people then potentially the site could fail.

How much time would it save in reality? Just browse past the ones without a green tick, open the ones u like then bulk delete the ones u don't. Seems simple enough to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know "
I get what your saying a verification for holding a bit of paper is very diffrent to verification by meet to a large extent I agree I place no faith in photo veri or cam veri. To those saying how would anyone new get a veri.....the same way everyone gets their first veri by getting to know someone and meet them.

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By *otandhorny400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know "
I am verified and you still haven't answered my message,guess that should tell me something I suppose?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's weird as when I click on your profile it does not tell me you have messaged me before

Think you have me mistaken for someone else

Plus...Iv blocked men at your age so..you wouldn't have been able too?

Good luck tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol awkward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know I get what your saying a verification for holding a bit of paper is very diffrent to verification by meet to a large extent I agree I place no faith in photo veri or cam veri. To those saying how would anyone new get a veri.....the same way everyone gets their first veri by getting to know someone and meet them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know I get what your saying a verification for holding a bit of paper is very diffrent to verification by meet to a large extent I agree I place no faith in photo veri or cam veri. To those saying how would anyone new get a veri.....the same way everyone gets their first veri by getting to know someone and meet them. "

How would u meet someone if everyone that was verified blocked unverified people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But not everyone does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Potentially they could though. No person in their right mind would build a business with the potential, no matter how small it is, for it to fail.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know I get what your saying a verification for holding a bit of paper is very diffrent to verification by meet to a large extent I agree I place no faith in photo veri or cam veri. To those saying how would anyone new get a veri.....the same way everyone gets their first veri by getting to know someone and meet them.

How would u meet someone if everyone that was verified blocked unverified people? "
not everyone does thats the point but hypothetically if everyone did you could attend a social it would show you were genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know I get what your saying a verification for holding a bit of paper is very diffrent to verification by meet to a large extent I agree I place no faith in photo veri or cam veri. To those saying how would anyone new get a veri.....the same way everyone gets their first veri by getting to know someone and meet them.

How would u meet someone if everyone that was verified blocked unverified people? not everyone does thats the point but hypothetically if everyone did you could attend a social it would show you were genuine"

How could u message someone to go to the social if u weren't in anyway verified n they were n they blocked unverified people?

Just giving you the reason why it wouldn't work and that's why there isn't an option for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly "

Can you not see the potential problems that would have for the site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But there is...there is an option for blocking unverified guys...

But not if your photo verified

Omg...pulling teeth here lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Ehhhh socials are on forums nothing to do with veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Plus as I said some chicks do meet unverified guys so they have the option of messaging them to meet...wait for it...then they can get verified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But there is...there is an option for blocking unverified guys...

But not if your photo verified

Omg...pulling teeth here lol"

Exactly my point, u need to give people a route into the site and to speak to people and photo verification does that.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ehhhh socials are on forums nothing to do with veris "

U cant post on the forum unless u are at least, pointlessly in peoples opinions, photo verified.

All details etc of socials aren't posted on forums either

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

Can you not see the potential problems that would have for the site? "
it would give the site no problems some will chat with unverified some will chat with photo veris only.seen in my local updates folk who will only converse if your photo veried is it so dis-similar what they are asking for? The biggest problem I see here is folk inability to accept that folk have zero intrest I wouldnt effect fabs numbers which is what matters to the buisness as I see it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not pointless...

That's the way to get into the forums

What's pointless is why have a block unverified folk button but you can still on a technicality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

Can you not see the potential problems that would have for the site? it would give the site no problems some will chat with unverified some will chat with photo veris only.seen in my local updates folk who will only converse if your photo veried is it so dis-similar what they are asking for? The biggest problem I see here is folk inability to accept that folk have zero intrest I wouldnt effect fabs numbers which is what matters to the buisness as I see it"

If u can block everyone unless they are meet verified it doesn't work. It would become far to difficult to get meet verified if you couldn't even message people. I get that people meet unverified people but if you give people the option you are leaving your Business open to failure.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Ehhhh socials are on forums nothing to do with veris

U cant post on the forum unless u are at least, pointlessly in peoples opinions, photo verified.

All details etc of socials aren't posted on forums either "
christ your seeing mountains where theres bumps a little effort and a meet veri is easy if as you say you must be photo veried. do that post on forums accept an offer of a drinks social on the forums turn up ask a member to veri in person bobs your aunty job done your now meet veried. All the op seems to be asking for is a modification to tools already there which I dont see as much. You may place confidence in a piece of paper others prefer to know they have been seen in person and turn up when they state they will

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

Can you not see the potential problems that would have for the site? it would give the site no problems some will chat with unverified some will chat with photo veris only.seen in my local updates folk who will only converse if your photo veried is it so dis-similar what they are asking for? The biggest problem I see here is folk inability to accept that folk have zero intrest I wouldnt effect fabs numbers which is what matters to the buisness as I see it

If u can block everyone unless they are meet verified it doesn't work. It would become far to difficult to get meet verified if you couldn't even message people. I get that people meet unverified people but if you give people the option you are leaving your Business open to failure. "
to my understanding fab works on numbers it dosnt matter who contacts who so it makes zero diffrence to the buisness model

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

Can you not see the potential problems that would have for the site? it would give the site no problems some will chat with unverified some will chat with photo veris only.seen in my local updates folk who will only converse if your photo veried is it so dis-similar what they are asking for? The biggest problem I see here is folk inability to accept that folk have zero intrest I wouldnt effect fabs numbers which is what matters to the buisness as I see it

If u can block everyone unless they are meet verified it doesn't work. It would become far to difficult to get meet verified if you couldn't even message people. I get that people meet unverified people but if you give people the option you are leaving your Business open to failure. to my understanding fab works on numbers it dosnt matter who contacts who so it makes zero diffrence to the buisness model"

If you cant message people the numbers decrease no? Fab works on subscription to their silver n gold badges.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Mountains to molehills again. to take your principle and 180 it members being contacted from folk they dont wish contact from instigates those to leave creating a bigger pool of unverified which given time would be a bigger problem. And would end up with something akin to pervychattersrus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what your saying is...

If fab doesn't take away it's filters it will curl up n die?

Oofft better unblock all those 18 yr old boys then ehe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people leave because they get messages from people they don't want messages from then they are on the wrong site in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what your saying is...

If fab doesn't take away it's filters it will curl up n die?

Oofft better unblock all those 18 yr old boys then ehe?"

No if fab added more filters it would be less successful. Try actually reading it with an open mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

I receive over 70 messages a day...sometimes more sometimes less...

Not because I'm anything special it's because I'm a single chick...end off...so I need to be able to filter those messages down to what I'm looking for...not the guys...me..what I'm looking for as most...not all but most do not read my profile..that states clearly...I do not meet unverified guys...so I block them..saves my time and theirs...but...what I then get is all those same guys messaging me saying...oh but I am cause Iv took a pic of me naked in front of a mirror with my name on it...erm...nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But u can see before u open the message if they have a green tick so if they don't just delete the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I'm nice

And reply

Don't you see the even if it's a no thanks

Makes all the difference

Agree to disagree Milf..

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly "

They might have had meets with other who arent verified, also being verified by a meet only shows they are real and turned up with that person doesnt mean they will with you.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If people leave because they get messages from people they don't want messages from then they are on the wrong site in the first place "
so now your advocating no filters and anyone can msg anyone im sure that would work lol.just out of curiousity do you have filters and if you do it blows away your proposal here dosnt it. Why not be happy you can msg those that allow it compared to another site that charges per msg are you not winning out this deal? Accept that others dont wish contact based on whatever reason they choose the ops original point in my eyes is should there be a diffrence between photo veried and meet veried (in regards to contactability) the simple answer in my eyes is yes there should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm nice

And reply

Don't you see the even if it's a no thanks

Makes all the difference

Agree to disagree Milf..

X"

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people leave because they get messages from people they don't want messages from then they are on the wrong site in the first place so now your advocating no filters and anyone can msg anyone im sure that would work lol.just out of curiousity do you have filters and if you do it blows away your proposal here dosnt it. Why not be happy you can msg those that allow it compared to another site that charges per msg are you not winning out this deal? Accept that others dont wish contact based on whatever reason they choose the ops original point in my eyes is should there be a diffrence between photo veried and meet veried (in regards to contactability) the simple answer in my eyes is yes there should"

I don't have filters and I'e not complained about the site once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

They might have had meets with other who arent verified, also being verified by a meet only shows they are real and turned up with that person doesnt mean they will with you."
no of course it won't but it means that they have actually met someone else from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then why give any filters?

All I'm asking for is the option of if someone hasn't had a real life meet then I can block them...which I can...but I can't if they haven't but have stood in front of a camera with their name on it but still haven't had any meets?

Just seems silly

They might have had meets with other who arent verified, also being verified by a meet only shows they are real and turned up with that person doesnt mean they will with you.no of course it won't but it means that they have actually met someone else from fab "

Cool well good luck looks like your just going to keep saying no thanks to the ones who dont meet your needs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am

Lol

Doubt it will get changed but hey ho

Just feel it would be easier on fems and guys as guys do get a bad wrap for sending messages without reading profiles so if there was a filter that stopped them great

And chicks get a bad wrap for not replying to all messages so would save everyoned time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am

Lol

Doubt it will get changed but hey ho

Just feel it would be easier on fems and guys as guys do get a bad wrap for sending messages without reading profiles so if there was a filter that stopped them great

And chicks get a bad wrap for not replying to all messages so would save everyoned time?"

All the time but i really dont care i never asked them to message me.. block and on to the next

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Lol if only

I'm actually a chick that like to reply to my messages

Weird I know I get what your saying a verification for holding a bit of paper is very diffrent to verification by meet to a large extent I agree I place no faith in photo veri or cam veri. To those saying how would anyone new get a veri.....the same way everyone gets their first veri by getting to know someone and meet them. "

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