FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many is too many before you lose respect. Or is it a badge of honour and the more the merrier. Some folk take umbrage at who, or how many, but they have veris galore and some from folk who have been with over 100 people!!! Surely that's a contradiction?? I don't understand the rules. If there are any?? lol.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Of coirse there is rules......your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been covered many times but it's natural that it does... Everyone has different ideas as no doubt will be expressed... For me they are a private thing, therefore I choose not to show them, likewise I like to make my own mind up about someone so don't judge someone by theirs. It is good the site has it structured that people can see that you are verified yet maintain an element of privacy should you choose that I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This has been covered many times but it's natural that it does... Everyone has different ideas as no doubt will be expressed... For me they are a private thing, therefore I choose not to show them, likewise I like to make my own mind up about someone so don't judge someone by theirs. It is good the site has it structured that people can see that you are verified yet maintain an element of privacy should you choose that I think

I'm exactly the same. They are a private thing and I'm not judgmental. I just find it funny when veris become an issue then you check theirs and the hypocrisy is hysterical. Unless it's just an excuse for saying they are not interested??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the first verification from a Member who is Genuine.

I dont need rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Brian n so is my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people use them to rate the person... 4th meet with this guy and just gets better... to me a veri should be they are real they are nice etc and they turned up thats all it needs... ive had guys leave very in depth veris and i refuse to show them peope dont need to how good i am

can find out for themselves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hidden veris ?

Means shamefull hidden meets lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people use them to rate the person... 4th meet with this guy and just gets better... to me a veri should be they are real they are nice etc and they turned up thats all it needs... ive had guys leave very in depth veris and i refuse to show them peope dont need to how good i am

can find out for themselves lol"

Lol. Can we now????

Kidding. I kinda agree BUT... Is anyone ever going to show a veri saying "looked Fook all like their pics and clearly hadn't washed before meeting" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can find out for themselves lol

Lol. Can we now????

Kidding. I kinda agree BUT... Is anyone ever going to show a veri saying "looked Fook all like their pics and clearly hadn't washed before meeting" lol. "

Obviously not... a dunno what your getting at

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hidden veris ?

Means shamefull hidden meets lmao

I don't agree with that at all. I've hidden mine but I've met some cracking people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can find out for themselves lol

Lol. Can we now????

Kidding. I kinda agree BUT... Is anyone ever going to show a veri saying "looked Fook all like their pics and clearly hadn't washed before meeting" lol.

Obviously not... a dunno what your getting at"

I'm agreeing that they should be simple statements of met bla bla bla and they were genuine, reliable, decent etc but then if the person isn't they aren't going to show that veri so it kinda means they are pointless or fake in many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can find out for themselves lol

Lol. Can we now????

Kidding. I kinda agree BUT... Is anyone ever going to show a veri saying "looked Fook all like their pics and clearly hadn't washed before meeting" lol. "

Agreed.....after the first genuine the rest is fecking pointless ..

No one needs to know who you meet ..What you do is your business...

Who is going to show a bad verification ?

Its a bit like Fabbing Pics ,,Pointless..

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

All my verifications are there for all to see and it's up to others to make there own mind up about me.

I don't really care how many others have got as it's their business as long is it wasn't 50 or so of the "looks fook all like there pics" or "could of done with a wash".

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All my verifications are there for all to see and it's up to others to make there own mind up about me.

I don't really care how many others have got as it's their business as long is it wasn't 50 or so of the "looks fook all like there pics" or "could of done with a wash".

Xxx

Fair play. That's probably the right attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a get my 1st veri, I'll wear it n show it wae pride ,it'll also be a true reflection of my profile !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hidden veris ?

Means shamefull hidden meets lmao

Your talking pish, it can save aggro by hiding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show the ones I want, and quite often swap them, and don't care too much what people think, aslong as it shows I'm genuine that's all that matters

What and when I do things on here is no one else's buisness.

Some profiles have lots of veris cos they've been to parties and clubs, so its not always play meets, but who cares if it was, we make our own choices who we have fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can find out for themselves lol

Lol. Can we now????

Kidding. I kinda agree BUT... Is anyone ever going to show a veri saying "looked Fook all like their pics and clearly hadn't washed before meeting" lol.

Agreed.....after the first genuine the rest is fecking pointless ..

No one needs to know who you meet ..What you do is your business...

Who is going to show a bad verification ?

Its a bit like Fabbing Pics ,,Pointless..

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totally agree

But as I do say on my profile I need to see at least 1 veri that isn't a cam veri...I'm a single chick meeting alone so it's a safety thing for me..plus I do look at the trail from time to time to see what kind of person that guy has meet...whether it's a certain type or any holes a goal ..can tell quite alot but the main issue Is safety for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to hide mine cos I have been judged before. Been here 4 years and my verification summary if I'm entirely honest I've not seen topped by any other male... Some are close. I went fab daft when I joined. Think we all do I was just uhm... Successful. Not done any of the fab bikes for record though lol. Funny thing is though I can't play more than I have on really as they've all bloody left!

Some woman get intrigued and enticed by the idea of a polite,educated, fit, good conversationalist they know is good is bed... Others thing urrgh fuck fucking that Haha.

People do judge even if they say they don't lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree completely, people judge you on what their first impressions are. Whether it be your profile pic, your other photos, verifications, etc. Is that wrong probably, will it ever go away not a chance.

But to get back to the OPs question. How long is a piece of string?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Cant say ive ever thought badly of anyone that has alot of veris ...im only really intersted on their veris to see if they are who they say they are and if they turn up for meets

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Agree completely, people judge you on what their first impressions are. Whether it be your profile pic, your other photos, verifications, etc. Is that wrong probably, will it ever go away not a chance.

But to get back to the OPs question. How long is a piece of string?

Length of said string is two times the length from the middle to one end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But to get back to the OPs question. How long is a piece of string?

Length of said string is two times the length from the middle to one end

Hahahaha I'm gonna steal that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some but have hidden the total count because I had one person decide to call me out in each of them. My business lol

As a single woman in the same as the lads further up the thread it's nice to be able to read some from a safety point of view even if it's just coffee meet Veris.

Sometimes I swap them about.

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