FabSwingers.com forum: What brought you here and what keeps you here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This has probably been done to death but I'm curious to know what people's answers will be. As the title says, what brought you to fab and what is it that keeps you here?

Me personally, I was bored and googling random rubbish and next thing I know I'm on fab! I joined, had a great time and got chatty with a few people I'm now glad to class as friends. I did leave for a while as life got too busy but I couldn't stay away lol

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I was looking for some fun and good chat. Also had a fb who wanted a threesome and thought it would be a good way to find someone.

Stay cause its fun and I'm a creature of habit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was told about it by a friend and thought I would check it out lol

Just can't seem to get myself away lol

Hoping to meet new people and have met some great friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That everyone's really friendly and there are no cliques or anti cliques.

Wait. Did I say that out loud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity brought me here.....

Boredom and browsing the forums keeps me here....

But have met/chatted to some lovely people along the way.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

A friend introduced us to fab n we originally came on for a nosy. Still here as we're having a ball and have met so many great people

K x

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I came across the site by accident 6 years ago. I stay cos I still have fun, albeit infrequently but with long term friends.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I don't know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like a few of you did the same as me then lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for shoes

boy did I get a shock

A friend told us about it way back in the beginning and 7 years later still here . It has its uses if used properly. If I didn't still enjoy it I wouldn't be here

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Joined as a couple and stayed as a single

I have made some great friends on here and even get to have fun occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new.

I joined to find a new fuck buddy. I joined to find women for sex.

I've stay because it runs down phone battery, it's a good use of my time.... Hold on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend told me about it been on n off as a single and a couple for well too long, I still enjoy it but taking a wee break after the summer until Xmas as got things in my life that will need my full attention. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new. Just looking for someone to play with, so far... still looking.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I was looking for fab singers honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Originally was looking for eBay

and pressed FAB instead on google

Stay cos, well eBay ye can't get sexxxxxxyy times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsa fun

Stsy because u never know it may happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What brought me here.....I was tricked by an unscrupulous person.

Why do I stay..... I fell in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brought here by a recommendation

Stay as I have good friends here

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We joined looking for some info on dogging sites, and liked it so stayed. We've met some fantastic people, made loads of friends and have a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend recommended and somehow leave then join again lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What brought me here.....I was tricked by an unscrupulous person.

Why do I stay..... I fell in love.

That's quite possibly the loveliest reason ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cocaine dealer brought me here !

This site ruined my marriage and fuled my lust for life !

I'm a sex addict with wee penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined the site pretty much from the start..Maybe 9 years or so...

I cant recall why or how i got here ..but it wasnt my intention too meet....i maybe just got lucky sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone mentioned FAB on craigslist so curiosity brought me here originally. Came back for another go as can't really commit to anything long term just yet.

Stay due to hope and expectations. The forums aren't bad either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined six years ago out of sheer curiosity... I stay because I'm... intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stumbled across fab a while back...while in a naughty little mood....decided to join ....and don't know if I can leave...it's better than Facebook and Twitter ...like minded naughty people to chat and have fun with....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Originally was looking for eBay

and pressed FAB instead on google

Stay cos, well eBay ye can't get sexxxxxxyy times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me think the chance of having fantantistic sex with lots if sexy willing beautiful people who are on the save wave length as my self and sexy people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was at a night out in Edinburgh and went to After 8. Totally spur of the moment after a tipsy conversation. Fab was mentioned in the club and joined the following week. Bit disheartened that we haven't had an ffm but met some nice single guys. Not something we do every week but it's nice as a change every now and again x

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/mayo

"What brought me here.....I was tricked by an unscrupulous person.

Why do I stay..... I fell in love.

Unscrupulous? Chews tied on a string is unscathy,& rotten: but yer sordid exploits are yer own! That's it: wear that badge/gold star proudly! Like the lipstick stain on yer Kitkat

. Well earned/enjoyed..! That "Broken wing" matches yer "crooked halo"

? Ohhh: hot sauce on yer morning porridge? How Didya get it in the "Honey-jar"?

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/mayo

"What brought me here.....I was tricked by an unscrupulous person.

Why do I stay..... I fell in love.

"cheese"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What brought me here.....I was tricked by an unscrupulous person.

Why do I stay..... I fell in love.

"cheese"!

What's "cheese"? You mad Cuban tequila monster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was lookin for sex, now I'm only here under the illusion & hope that people actually meet for sex

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By *utdoor29Man
over a year ago

paisley

To chat about being curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, what brought me here - desperation

What keeps me here - desperation. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be on another site, it was pretty shit so started searching about for other sites... Numerous profiles and 7/8 years later I'm still here... I want to say it's because I get bored easily but let's face it I'm just a horny slag

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By *cottish30Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

Came across it on Google and came on looking to fulfill some fantasies and have fun but unfortunately none of those things have really happened 4 years later but I stay in the hope someone might be up for it

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By *udebhoyMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

was fed up being alone in work and came here to find nice horny people to visit my wee office. stay cause i find some,well sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found it by accident,after sitting drinking with mrs dlt,been on and off for over 6 years now.

Why do I stay?

Made some lovely friends,had some great times and I'm starting to realise I may have a deviant hidden inside me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Starting?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting?!

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yeah I was shy before I met you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found it by accident,after sitting drinking with mrs dlt,been on and off for over 6 years now.

Why do I stay?

Made some lovely friends,had some great times and I'm starting to realise I may have a deviant hidden inside me

May have!!! PMSL

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

I joined years back now because I was curious horny and found the site by accident and thought well fuck it maybe ill have a shot at meeting some nice girls and having a bit of fun.

but very quickly realised there was far too much competition and too many arsehole single guys who had already mostly ruined it for me before I even got there. so that basically never happened.

why do I stay. I'm not sure. I had some friends mostly gone now. used to be occasional good banter in the chat rooms and as always there the odd bit of good banter on here. (shrugs) maybe I'm just used to it now.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found it by accident,after sitting drinking with mrs dlt,been on and off for over 6 years now.

Why do I stay?

Made some lovely friends,had some great times and I'm starting to realise I may have a deviant hidden inside me

May have!!! PMSL

"
what you trying to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

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it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

Haha, who showed who now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

Haha, who showed who now?

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well you showed me how to get in it,all I did was took advantage of you once you were in it

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

Haha, who showed who now?

Well you showed me how to get in it,all I did was took advantage of you once you were in it

Still one of the funniest things to happen at the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google made me do it. Still searching for the elusive FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

Haha, who showed who now?

Well you showed me how to get in it,all I did was took advantage of you once you were in it

Still one of the funniest things to happen at the club

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haha true

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

Haha, who showed who now?

Well you showed me how to get in it,all I did was took advantage of you once you were in it

Still one of the funniest things to happen at the club

haha true"

Really needed longer legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting?!

Yeah I was shy before I met you

Lies!

it's true,I'd never have known what a sex swing was until you showed me one at the club

Haha, who showed who now?

Well you showed me how to get in it,all I did was took advantage of you once you were in it

Still one of the funniest things to happen at the club

haha true

Really needed longer legs

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I'll just tie you up and do away with the swing next time

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Someone pretending to be me, brought me here. I had to defend my name.

What keeps me here? Friends, plain and simple. It's amazing how many people can become more than just a name on a profile.

Mandy

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/mayo

"What brought me here.....I was tricked by an unscrupulous person.

Why do I stay..... I fell in love.

"cheese"!

What's "cheese"? You mad Cuban tequila monster?

What is tied to a string: ya non-reading,knitting, cat-collector!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggling to neet suitable people for a proper relationship I came on here because I do enjoy a healthy sex life. I first came here a while ago looking to meet one or two women for some hassle free mutual fun, which I managed to find. In my area that's not so easy anymore but I still have hope.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Came here in the very early days of fab from another site and never left ..not as active as early days but still some mileage left in the old boy yet

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Came here in the very early days of fab from another site and never left ..not as active as early days but still some mileage left in the old boy yet

Oi less of the old if you don't mind. You're a mere stripling!!!! Lol

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

i'm a serial datist

came here as a friend recommended. enjoy forum banter, andhave made a few friends along the way. i wouldnt say it's improved my sex life though.....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Came here in the very early days of fab from another site and never left ..not as active as early days but still some mileage left in the old boy yet

Oi less of the old if you don't mind. You're a mere stripling!!!! Lol"

Sweet talker

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

The simple answer is boredom. I'm not looking to meet people any more and anyone I have become friendly with I could contact off the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to try new things after moving to the city and not knowing anyone

Boredom and laughing at the updates from women moaning and posting like its Facebook

Must be soooo difficult having loads of people want you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend introduced me 6 years ago now. Very good friend I'm on my second profile because well I fell in love and out of love and it got messy and I didn't know about the block button !! I stay because I get to meet hot men !

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Sexual boredom and the need to tick a few boxes before I get to old

Love the chat and getting to know new people as I'm a very sociable person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually have no idea

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was told by a member on here but on another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found the site by accident. Normally I just come on a few weeks then leave and return a few months later. Have only ever met with one person though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here as I was looking to meet women older than myself which can be quite challenging on normal nights out

What keeps me here? That's a difficult one, ask myself that quite often

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Like others came here from another site quite a few years ago.I enjoy the banter in the chat rooms when it's there and going to the socials. Why do I stay god only knows so answers on the back of a postage stamp cause I would love to know.......

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Friends from other site suggested coming along, stay because I'd miss all you peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm still here cos of the banter. When I first joined thought it would be heaven . Nah it ain't like that at all. To many attention seekers including me. But hey I wouldn't leave .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got introduced to fab by a friend who nicknamed me his wee cherub name kinda stuck lol

and I stay because I've made some good friends and love my girly fun and of course as I'm learning more about bdsm it is always good to get advise on here and talk to others about it xx

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By *bolton88Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

What brought me to fab?

Looking to meet other people who are just as fascinated with sex as I am and to find out people's experience, fantasies and possibly take part in achieving some of theirs and mines.

Why I stay here? That's a good question... so far fab has not been very successful for me for various reasons that we have all had no doubt (the dissappear act where they delete thier account, the time waster, and the ignorant people who just don't reply etc)

So why do I still come back here?

Maybe cause I can at least enjoy the chats, forums, update and pics and stay in touch with this naughty little hidden world that my professional and family life don't know about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined fab for:Sex

Stay on fab for:Who the fuck knows

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By *crue1Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

well i think we are all in the same boat for the reason in joining.

but to be honest i love the forums, everyone is good crack. well done everyone who gets involved

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I was looking into buying a swing for the garden and I wanted a really fab one...

I stayed for the sex

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Was chatting to a guy from a different site and he said if I wanted to see pics of him he had some on Fab! Bizarre conversation as his parents are also swingers.

So I joined, we met socially, he ended up in a serious relationship and I'm still here 5 years later. I did have a year off to be fair for family commitments but came back and found old friends and made new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea and ummm no idea

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Was introduced by a friend from work who in her own words stated "" you need a right good shag to cheer you up""

Signed up but quickly left as couldn't deal with the barrage of attention and abuse.

Came back much more street wise and with a much thicker skin.

Got my right good shag and a few regular friends. Also stay for the forum banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity to expand my horizons...friends and cjs have done that.

Still here because I'm to naughty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a loveless marriage. No sex. Recommended by a friend. Had a few meets. Now got a regular FB and some close friends. Life happier.

DNT JUDGE ME. You dnt know ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Google Search brought to Fab, the 'Keep Me Logged In' button keeps me here.

And the occasional meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity brought me .... Being eternally single and horny keeps me here

(I am aware that being here probably keeps me single ... Its a vicious circle

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was Laine, View and a few others, including (I know!, I know!, Fugy) that told me about Fab as we all bene chatting on another site.

Just enjoy the chat and banter and meeting people whom I can call friends.

Some really nice people on Fab that make it worth coming back

awww Soapy Suds here

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

A friend

Friends made, and the banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessa)

We were looking for some adult friends that might have the same intrests and would want to link up. Sex is nice but it's also nice to share thoughts or ideas of an adult nature and not get wierd looks.

The minute I told one close friend of some of our activities. ...she drifted away. So would have liked a friend to smile and giggle with. Oh well.... keep looking.

So still looking for that rare couple.

Single guys...we don't mind and would like to have some fun one day.. 3 some or more some.

Single ladies...not many my age and most are looking for guys.

So back to couples.

We are patient, most of the communications have been very polite which is really nice. Have met some lovely people last time on the site and this time too.

Kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a 3am chat, and the Mrs confessed she always wanted to have same room sex with another couple. So I did my google thing, found fab and it escalated very quickly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When watching a porn dvd, Mrs said she would like to try fun with a woman. So found fab and it's progressed from there

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

A friend brought me here, nosiness keeps me here!!

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