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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a little browse.

"Empahasis on fit, must be vwe"

And guys lookin for "hotties" etc

So im wondering, where do we normal everyday swingers who just happen to enjoy swinging on a (amazing but true)swingers site fit into all of this?

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really puts me off when a cpl list on their profile

profesional cp

very good looking

both fabulous bodies

looking for the same

ok...where do you find those folk? think they all away making crap porn??

some folks heads are soo far up their fabulous arses that they havent a clue what real peeps are looking for?

us,,,we fit in to the "avarage" cpls looking for a bit of slap n tickle with like minded peeps xx

average auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really puts me off when a cpl list on their profile

profesional cp

very good looking

both fabulous bodies

looking for the same

ok...where do you find those folk? think they all away making crap porn??

some folks heads are soo far up their fabulous arses that they havent a clue what real peeps are looking for?

us,,,we fit in to the "avarage" cpls looking for a bit of slap n tickle with like minded peeps xx

average auds "
yeh this also put me off

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

i canny get a meet as a single guy boohoo lol

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By *ompip3Couple
over a year ago

Paisley


"really puts me off when a cpl list on their profile

profesional cp

very good looking

both fabulous bodies

looking for the same

ok...where do you find those folk? think they all away making crap porn??

some folks heads are soo far up their fabulous arses that they havent a clue what real peeps are looking for?

us,,,we fit in to the "avarage" cpls looking for a bit of slap n tickle with like minded peeps xx

average auds "

Ah've seen you two Aud's...and your better than average! mwwaaaahhhh! xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whilst chattin to a lovely swinging friend, we got talkin about the, "what the hell do folk want" subject.

Virtual porn stars?

The majority of folks on here, not analysed it fully, but its fair to estimate, most of us are about, late 30's upwards, lookin for the fun and excitement of meeting other swingers usually and love the fun in all forms.

So like someone said, it kinda puts a shudder up me, when i see these high spec requirements, give me a fun set of people in a meet or party with that wee sexy something any day.

Just an opinion.

T xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Tony I know exactly what your saying there.... in all my time on here ive honestly never met any stunningly good loking people some pretty attractive people yes but not stunning

and for the ones who are looking for hotties or stunning looking people then they must be pretty special and few and far between but then again they do say beauty is in the eye of the beer holder lol

off to the make me beautil clinc meet all you stunningly beautiful people soon

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

opps typo Make me beautiful clinic I ment lol

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By *erfume-LoverMan
over a year ago

Lothian area

Practice Man,Practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant get a meet as a single lass wish i was a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be with most the posters so far on this.

I for one prefer average everyday people , i think its very off putting to see professional , solvent , good looking ect on profiles , i prefer one with a sense of humour so i can get a giggle when i read , some people are so full of their own self importance to see real people.

Having gone to socials and met folks as previously stated there were a few attractive looking people but nothing out of the ordinary or stunning and bodies were certainly of all different shapes and sizes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont get my wrong here, met some super stunning fabbers, and they are likewise chilled relaxed fun people.

I just mean the first impression you get, first read of profiles with as i say these almost high-spec,clinicaly accurate wants/needs,expectations,just make me frown and go, hmmmm a lot.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye don't ask ye don't get....*giggles*

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By *arryandlilCouple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

i am with you lot we are by no means "fit" as laine will tell you as she as had a closer _iew than most would want lol

larry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am with you lot we are by no means "fit" as laine will tell you as she as had a closer _iew than most would want lol

larry "

... as I said you don't ask you don't get....and in your case I said please AND thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some folks heads are soo far up their fabulous arses that they havent a clue what real peeps are looking for?

"

Nail smacked right on head there auds...

seems theres more ego in here nowadays than in simon cowells dressing room!!

c`mon folks we on here for a fun time, a good time not to make demands that we WANT.. a,b,c and d and if you dont fall into these categories you will not be replied to as blah blah blah...........

ok i can relate to age limits ( within reason) smoking/non smoking preferences etc etc.. but some folks profiles just make me laugh out loud....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to laugh at some of the demands on here...

I hit 50 in 3 weeks time.............

At 20 I was a 10st well ripped master martial artist

At 30 I was a well ripped 11st semi pro boxer who did a bit of erotic dancing on the side

At 40 I was still a well ripped bodyguard who also worked the doors of various night clubs

As I reach 50 I'm not so well ripped anymore, the head gets shaved every week My knees don't hold me up anymore like they used to..... and getting fucked to me is when someone steals the remote control and i need to get off my arse to turn the channel.

But hey, I meet folks on here and woohoo I'm 20 again....

Who gives a fuck..... we are all here for the same thing and as pointed out earlier majority of the "real" swingers are late 30's and over with the only expectation is that the other party shows up.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Got to laugh at some of the demands on here...

I hit 50 in 3 weeks time.............

At 20 I was a 10st well ripped master martial artist

At 30 I was a well ripped 11st semi pro boxer who did a bit of erotic dancing on the side

At 40 I was still a well ripped bodyguard who also worked the doors of various night clubs

As I reach 50 I'm not so well ripped anymore, the head gets shaved every week My knees don't hold me up anymore like they used to..... and getting fucked to me is when someone steals the remote control and i need to get off my arse to turn the channel.

But hey, I meet folks on here and woohoo I'm 20 again....

Who gives a fuck..... we are all here for the same thing and as pointed out earlier majority of the "real" swingers are late 30's and over with the only expectation is that the other party shows up. "

well said kaisho gonna send you a zimmer frame to help hold you up ya old dog ya ...might be reaching fifty but ive seen you and think your still pretty nifty ...oh and dont worry il do all the work wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do all the work..mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Can feel my knees relaxing already.....

oops thats something else getting harder

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

oh well i suppose someone needs to be contraversial. we do have preferences, age limits, etc,. on our profile but thats not coz we are up our own arses or think we are stunning. think we are average looking and looking for average looking back.

but as a couple looking for single guys if we didnt put some preferences up we would get swamped with messages - and again not coz we think we r the bees knees just coz of the amount of single guys on here and we like to reply to messages.

just anothr _iewpoint on why folk put preferences up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it really matter what a peson looks like , looks are only the packaging ,its the person that matters , in my opinion (for what its worth ) its only shallow people that go for looks alone

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

thats why we are not looking for male super models - i married him and yip most of the click comes with the chat/messages. however am honest and will say yes the things i find unattractive in men would not entice me to meet him

how bad does that sound but - sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No need apologise, works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone has a preferance and you dont fit in just jog by,cos there is plenty others you will be able to get on with.

and if all else fails go to clubs and meet people.

morning tony ,,

hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we think that "looking" for the same things in different ppl never works

you might have a great experience with someone and then try and compare or look for the same things in another

take each person as they cum , sorry come lol

its like anyone on here..they have different attributes that you may like in one person but not another.

people with good personality we think is a must , having a good laugh and being able to chat is a must before the clothers hit the floor lol

other than that david says he like big boobs... thats his contribution..MEN lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a lot of bitter people in here.

People are entitled to put on their profiles whatever they want,we put on our profile thatwe dont want large fat people contacting us because hey,guess what,it doesnt turn us on,what with it being a sex thing its kind of a crucial element.

For those saying people are shallow to go for looks alone,well i am sorry,for one usually those saying that arent so fortunate in the looks/body department in the first place so please spin me another tune,its all about physical attraction in the first instance,its human nature and there is no denying that,personality is secondary and WILL make or break it,i couldnt care less if a brangela cpl contacted us,if they looked stunning but are a pair of pr1cks then we will send them packing.

However,in an attempt to stop getting men who look like they are about to give birth sending us pictures yes we dont see whats so wrong with stating such a thing on your profile.

Put it this way,if you were going out to buy a car today,had what you would be happy with in your head thengot to the forecourt and the salesman tried to give you some old clapped out banger and gave you the 'oh but its got character' i dare say you wouldnt be too happy eh?

The other side of the coin as well is you have to remember some of us on here look after ourselves well,and ideally want to play with people who do the same too,if there is a spark with them then game on,doesnt mean everyone needs to look that way,but as said above if you dont ask you dont get.

What does grate me is seeing things like above,dont they realise that mst are at x stage in their life and are just happy that the other party turn up,that does make me laugh,expectations and standards must be pretty grim if thats what life has come to,if people want to moan about standards set on others profiles which they obviously dont meet for whatever reason,then jog on,they obviously werent including you in the criteria they are looking for.

maybe i should have put this in the rant thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it really matter what a peson looks like , looks are only the packaging ,its the person that matters , in my opinion (for what its worth ) its only shallow people that go for looks alone"

yes i would say it does matter what people look like!! I am definately not a "shallow" person but why on earth would i meet someone that didnt do it for me???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for a down to earth girl with a glass eye and a caliper,oh well a guy can dream lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a little browse.

"Empahasis on fit, must be vwe"

And guys lookin for "hotties" etc

I guess im saying, it works, it makes me jog on and will reduce some unwanted attention from folks who dont meet your wants.

Just a pity so many others dont jog on and still think "No thanks" means try again,lol.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody has a different _iewpoint, what I get more concerned with is the social status requirements,seeking "professional" "exceptional"-all I end up thinking is piss right fucking off-They could be a member of the royal family for all I care.Best thing u can ask for is good company, good laughs and of course always the hope the sex is good(though getting too serious about that just annoys me)- and without trying to center on certain issues about myself, I know what its like to be judged appearance on appearance-just glad I've met a good few people who give others a chance!

last point not loooking like a porn star might not be great but fucking acting like ones brilliant lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Laughs...

that's about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in your case it'd be me saying please and thank you... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shiver runs down my spine when i read of females/couples seeking guys who are vwe,make that hung like a Shetland Pony or guys who were born in Chernobyl get in touch only please,no actually make that vvvvvvvvwe aka godzilla.You guessed it they are looking for guys who can trace Red Rum in there family tree.Maybe it's envy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

il settle for my little pony xxx penny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily settle for that wine Penny xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im hoping for a meet of any sort, once people see single male in prfile i think that puts people of due to all the time wasters, well i confirm im a genuine guy

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