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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So looking to hold my fist ever apartment party on Saturday the 23rd July. Looking for a rough guide on what sort of people would be interested in this night before I go ahead and book apartment??....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello my self and my gf be interested couples profile

Fire and ice69 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me!!

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By *onicMan
over a year ago

Dalkeith

Could be iiiiinteresting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be iiiiinteresting "

There's no could be about it if I get enough numbers it will be amazing

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We would be interested

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By *akleonMan
over a year ago

Helensburgh

I'd be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds interesting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good wee mix already I shall get enquiring . Watch this space xx

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By *akleonMan
over a year ago

Helensburgh


"Good wee mix already I shall get enquiring . Watch this space xx"

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We could do depending on babysitting

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I'd be interested as long as I'm not working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really interested in that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love to attend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep us updated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Delighted with the amount of interest for this . Will try to get round to replying to everyone's messages. With this being my first party being verified is a must. Shall keep you all posted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So looking to hold my fist ever apartment party on Saturday the 23rd July. Looking for a rough guide on what sort of people would be interested in this night before I go ahead and book apartment??.... "

I could very well be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've replied privately....Dooooooah..!

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By *eni_squaddieMan
over a year ago

midlothian

count me in...

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By *az191000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Id be interested but I'd imagine you have about 100 guys offer before me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone had any suggestions of places I could hire for the night please feel free to pm me. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So guys finally have a location for the night on Saturday 23rd July. Has been stressful and hopefully worth it. Now I can see why not many people do these parties . Anyway pay pal is in place for individuals who are certain they want to come. Pm me for details. Looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A night on the capital would be cool!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A night on the capital would be cool!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi would be really intrested in this meet can also help orginse if there's anything I can do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really needing more females or this isn't going to work

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Bump

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By *fficegirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Looks like your going to need a Niger flat

Cath xx

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By *fficegirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sorry typo, should say bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be up for going to this party...often wondered about trying to get hold of felicity lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be interested as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be up for going to this party...often wondered about trying to get hold of felicity lol"

Lolllll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry typo, should say bigger "

Plenty space

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang "

If there's not more girls interested then there is just no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope this works out for you Felicity, purely selfish in this as I would certainly like to join the fun. Fingers crossed all cums good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope this works out for you Felicity, purely selfish in this as I would certainly like to join the fun. Fingers crossed all cums good "

Haha some things are just not worth the headache

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changing this into a social event. Such an impossible bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang

If there's not more girls interested then there is just no point "

I think you're discovering why more people don't organise these things! If it was easy everyone would be doing it I think the biggest problem is there's not enough single girls who are actually swingers, and too many dick head guys bombarding girls with junk mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang

If there's not more girls interested then there is just no point

I think you're discovering why more people don't organise these things! If it was easy everyone would be doing it I think the biggest problem is there's not enough single girls who are actually swingers, and too many dick head guys bombarding girls with junk mail "

It would certainly appear that way. Ohhhh well Edinburgh just not a patch on Glasgow for these things. Was worth a try

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang

If there's not more girls interested then there is just no point

I think you're discovering why more people don't organise these things! If it was easy everyone would be doing it I think the biggest problem is there's not enough single girls who are actually swingers, and too many dick head guys bombarding girls with junk mail

It would certainly appear that way. Ohhhh well Edinburgh just not a patch on Glasgow for these things. Was worth a try "
nothing wrong with edinburgh would be the same if it was in glasgow. The biggest problem I see is the amount of guys that on face value have been accepted as going that alone will put woman and couples off. Also age brackets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on girls/couples. Please message her. I have been trying to help her with this and she is about to cancel it all. The place is stunning trust me.

Quickly get in touch with her. She has spent a lot of money to make this happen.

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds good"

Just a social night now. Think I have gained a few grey hairs with apartment idea. Unless someone else wants to do apartment night who has more experience of this kinda thing lolllll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang

If there's not more girls interested then there is just no point

I think you're discovering why more people don't organise these things! If it was easy everyone would be doing it I think the biggest problem is there's not enough single girls who are actually swingers, and too many dick head guys bombarding girls with junk mail

It would certainly appear that way. Ohhhh well Edinburgh just not a patch on Glasgow for these things. Was worth a try nothing wrong with edinburgh would be the same if it was in glasgow. The biggest problem I see is the amount of guys that on face value have been accepted as going that alone will put woman and couples off. Also age brackets"

No single guy was told their name was put down. Was aware there was obviously going to be more guys reply. It's a shame if age has put people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not ageist but I am too old to message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it cancelled?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If you dont get some single girls, you're going to have to call it a gang bang

If there's not more girls interested then there is just no point

I think you're discovering why more people don't organise these things! If it was easy everyone would be doing it I think the biggest problem is there's not enough single girls who are actually swingers, and too many dick head guys bombarding girls with junk mail

It would certainly appear that way. Ohhhh well Edinburgh just not a patch on Glasgow for these things. Was worth a try nothing wrong with edinburgh would be the same if it was in glasgow. The biggest problem I see is the amount of guys that on face value have been accepted as going that alone will put woman and couples off. Also age brackets

No single guy was told their name was put down. Was aware there was obviously going to be more guys reply. It's a shame if age has put people off "
I get that none wre told but it was also never stated no more single guys perhaps the way folk read if its not clarified they take it as given that names down are accepted as for ages im sure there are ages plus and minus that you would have no intrest in. Its entirely your choice to have it or not folk juat like as much info as possible to make a choice.maybe a social with a view to apartment party would work better would allow you to out more undesirables

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sounds good

Just a social night now. Think I have gained a few grey hairs with apartment idea. Unless someone else wants to do apartment night who has more experience of this kinda thing lolllll "
is it still on or not it can be hard to do this all your self

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds good

Just a social night now. Think I have gained a few grey hairs with apartment idea. Unless someone else wants to do apartment night who has more experience of this kinda thing lolllll is it still on or not it can be hard to do this all your self

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Well I am happy to still do it but I really need the couples and females who are interested to pm me and then I will include a couple of single males so for everyone interested pm me and we can still arrange it. I have a PayPal account all set up and need to know which sort of apartment to book. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are still very keen to attend. Are other couples coming? Xx

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sounds good

Just a social night now. Think I have gained a few grey hairs with apartment idea. Unless someone else wants to do apartment night who has more experience of this kinda thing lolllll is it still on or not it can be hard to do this all your self

Well I am happy to still do it but I really need the couples and females who are interested to pm me and then I will include a couple of single males so for everyone interested pm me and we can still arrange it. I have a PayPal account all set up and need to know which sort of apartment to book. Xx"
I've try to message you but won't let me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've added you as a friend

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sound like great fun felicity100 hope go wells

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

bumping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it I'm not welcome to attend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it I'm not welcome to attend?"

Doesn't look like it's happening. Not enough people interested xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need to know. Is it on or off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we are interested

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I take it I'm not welcome to attend?

Doesn't look like it's happening. Not enough people interested xx"

Our babysitting covers an afternoon apartment party

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By *otEdinburghmaleMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Feel a bit for Felicity here.

Edinburgh is crying out for something like this and something regular.

Watch this space, it may happen later tho year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need at least 3 couples for it to go ahead. No one has paid so not willing to book and then no one turns up and then I'm left with a 3 bedroom apartment for the night and money out of my pocket .

So again if your interested pm me. Getting closer to the date so as time goes on price could go up, so everyone needs to make there mind up or its not going to happen lol one minute people are interested then there not then they are and so forth.... xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it I'm not welcome to attend?

Doesn't look like it's happening. Not enough people interested xx

Our babysitting covers an afternoon apartment party

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Would really be from around 7:30-8pm if was to go ahead x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need at least 3 couples for it to go ahead. No one has paid so not willing to book and then no one turns up and then I'm left with a 3 bedroom apartment for the night and money out of my pocket .

So again if your interested pm me. Getting closer to the date so as time goes on price could go up, so everyone needs to make there mind up or its not going to happen lol one minute people are interested then there not then they are and so forth.... xx"

I've PM'd you to officially register my interest xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need at least 3 couples for it to go ahead. No one has paid so not willing to book and then no one turns up and then I'm left with a 3 bedroom apartment for the night and money out of my pocket .

So again if your interested pm me. Getting closer to the date so as time goes on price could go up, so everyone needs to make there mind up or its not going to happen lol one minute people are interested then there not then they are and so forth.... xx

I've PM'd you to officially register my interest xx"

Lolllll noted however it's ladies I need to make the female numbers cause I don't want a sausage fest. A T/V would be wonderful Aswell. I want a mixed group to make a awesome party maybe that's asking to much?? Think I have more chance of finding a flying unicorn

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I take it I'm not welcome to attend?

Doesn't look like it's happening. Not enough people interested xx

Our babysitting covers an afternoon apartment party

Would really be from around 7:30-8pm if was to go ahead x"

Past bed time

Better with a social first off anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in!! and i am female lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My self and my girl 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well let's do it then will pm all who is interested for PayPal details at some point today may be tonight as at work just now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, definitely up for the chance of attending, think you have done superbly well in organising this, fingers crossed for getting to tell you in person. Chaser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't get the female numbers you require it could just be a gangbang lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So up for this and im sure we can get a few girls from after 8 involed u know who lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a female friend who may be able to attend depending on childcare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a female friend who may be able to attend depending on childcare "

Well when will you know?? Need to know for Tomorrow who is 100% coming as will be getting booked tomorrow as it is only 2 weeks away this Saturday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope am still invited x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a female friend who may be able to attend depending on childcare

Well when will you know?? Need to know for Tomorrow who is 100% coming as will be getting booked tomorrow as it is only 2 weeks away this Saturday xx"

I'll get in touch. If she can't make it I'll defo be in attendance xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a female friend who may be able to attend depending on childcare

Well when will you know?? Need to know for Tomorrow who is 100% coming as will be getting booked tomorrow as it is only 2 weeks away this Saturday xx"

It looks like she's a goer!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So....... Have finally got round to messaging everyone who has shown an interest so

If you could get back to me today to say yes or no and then we can arrange payment. The mix is looking good. No single males have been added yet so we can discuss this further in pm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please put our names down x

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Can you put my name down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Delighted to say it is officially booked and paid for so can people that want to come get in touch in pm so I can send PayPal details and then we can set up a Kik group up and I can send a photo of confirmation of payment as I am aware people are unsure to pay or not due to a hoax on here a couple of years ago. This is 100% genuine and hope that it turns out a success and everyone has fun and if it's a good night may be a regular thing xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please put our names down x "

Details have been sent. Look forward to seeing you there xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sounds interesting x"

Tried to pm you lol I am out your age range can you please pm for further details xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not heard anything and as I am unable to pm your good self it looks like it's going to be unlucky for me, pity as a young female from Fife expressed an interest in attending with me. However as this was not for definite I was reluctant to say. Hopefully all goes well for this and your endeavour is rewarded with lots of fun. C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still really interested in this event...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm still really interested in this event..."

Sorry I have the single males already for this however if someone cancels will keep you in mind sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Party is cancelled do not contact me about it anymore use had your chance!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And no one paid so wasn't a scam. Only me that has been scammed so thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we told you we would be paying on Monday. You knew this in advance so do not lump us in with the rest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did offer to give you a hand with organising a party but you never messaged me

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

And just like that it was gone

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I think Felicity should be commended for trying to organise this in the first place, she put the work in and sadly it didn't work out.

Having organised just socials before I know how hard it can be to get people to actually commit and turn up. With something like this where there is a financial risk involved I absolutely get the stress of not know if you are getting enough people so that she wasn't out a not small sum of money.

So thank you for making the effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think Felicity should be commended for trying to organise this in the first place, she put the work in and sadly it didn't work out.

Having organised just socials before I know how hard it can be to get people to actually commit and turn up. With something like this where there is a financial risk involved I absolutely get the stress of not know if you are getting enough people so that she wasn't out a not small sum of money.

Lol trying being the ultimate word haha. I will have a 3 bedroom apartment to myself that evening so let me know if anyone wants to hook up

Stressful doesn't come close. More stressful than my actual job. If people that are actually serious about it and want to come then payment really needs to be made rather than making poor excuses on why not to pay or asking questions that I don't even know- is fun guaranteed??? I don't know. Is fun guaranteed it a club?? I am happy to send proof of my payment for the apartment for people thinking this is a hoax. Happy Monday guys xx

So thank you for making the effort."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Felicity should be commended for trying to organise this in the first place, she put the work in and sadly it didn't work out.

Having organised just socials before I know how hard it can be to get people to actually commit and turn up. With something like this where there is a financial risk involved I absolutely get the stress of not know if you are getting enough people so that she wasn't out a not small sum of money.

So thank you for making the effort."

Commended suggests that it was requested....

As these public/forum parties in Edinburgh continually fail it would tend to suggest that there is no great call for them. Think people prefer not to open them up to the forum and just stick with friends or acquintences- as we are all entitled to do.

If I were to do one then I would book the venue that I wanted and if others wanted to come then I would divy up the cost, and if the initial amount was too much to bare then I would just visit a club.

Maybe those that are interested can sort out set plans and not have accusations of insinuations that it was a scam or that people were out to try me get a free ride (no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think Felicity should be commended for trying to organise this in the first place, she put the work in and sadly it didn't work out.

Having organised just socials before I know how hard it can be to get people to actually commit and turn up. With something like this where there is a financial risk involved I absolutely get the stress of not know if you are getting enough people so that she wasn't out a not small sum of money.

So thank you for making the effort.

Commended suggests that it was requested....

As these public/forum parties in Edinburgh continually fail it would tend to suggest that there is no great call for them. Think people prefer not to open them up to the forum and just stick with friends or acquintences- as we are all entitled to do.

If I were to do one then I would book the venue that I wanted and if others wanted to come then I would divy up the cost, and if the initial amount was too much to bare then I would just visit a club.

Maybe those that are interested can sort out set plans and not have accusations of insinuations that it was a scam or that people were out to try me get a free ride (no pun intended)"

Keep smiling guys no one was killed

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By *avy42 n jazCouple
over a year ago

Ayr

we have did social night for over 5 years, we pay the outlay first, then its not till the last few days before it people asking if they can come, thats why we try and keep it as low cost as possible and even at that we sometimes do not cover our costs for dj, food, hall, and prizes for raffle, if you ever do one get advice from others thats doing them or have done them so you dont loose out,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we have did social night for over 5 years, we pay the outlay first, then its not till the last few days before it people asking if they can come, thats why we try and keep it as low cost as possible and even at that we sometimes do not cover our costs for dj, food, hall, and prizes for raffle, if you ever do one get advice from others thats doing them or have done them so you dont loose out,,, "

Ach it's ok if no one comes it won't go to waste. There is always a plan B . Thanks for advice tho. There was 26 people interested but I guess with what happened a couple of years ago has put people off and that's understandable I would be the same. Thanks for the advice tho guys much appreciated xxx

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I think Felicity should be commended for trying to organise this in the first place, she put the work in and sadly it didn't work out.

Having organised just socials before I know how hard it can be to get people to actually commit and turn up. With something like this where there is a financial risk involved I absolutely get the stress of not know if you are getting enough people so that she wasn't out a not small sum of money.

So thank you for making the effort.

Commended suggests that it was requested....

As these public/forum parties in Edinburgh continually fail it would tend to suggest that there is no great call for them. Think people prefer not to open them up to the forum and just stick with friends or acquintences- as we are all entitled to do.

If I were to do one then I would book the venue that I wanted and if others wanted to come then I would divy up the cost, and if the initial amount was too much to bare then I would just visit a club.

Maybe those that are interested can sort out set plans and not have accusations of insinuations that it was a scam or that people were out to try me get a free ride (no pun intended)"

I agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think Felicity should be commended for trying to organise this in the first place, she put the work in and sadly it didn't work out.

Having organised just socials before I know how hard it can be to get people to actually commit and turn up. With something like this where there is a financial risk involved I absolutely get the stress of not know if you are getting enough people so that she wasn't out a not small sum of money.

So thank you for making the effort.

Commended suggests that it was requested....

As these public/forum parties in Edinburgh continually fail it would tend to suggest that there is no great call for them. Think people prefer not to open them up to the forum and just stick with friends or acquintences- as we are all entitled to do.

If I were to do one then I would book the venue that I wanted and if others wanted to come then I would divy up the cost, and if the initial amount was too much to bare then I would just visit a club.

Maybe those that are interested can sort out set plans and not have accusations of insinuations that it was a scam or that people were out to try me get a free ride (no pun intended)

I agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow "

Yeah it's a real shame as there is a lot of us naughty individuals in Edinburgh so would have been good to meet up with different people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I Agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow "

Plenty going on though. Just not through forums or posted meets. Think that if there was an Edinburgh equivalent of Fab Fem then there may be more women that would join such events (not to single anyone out or being disparaging about others). The great thing about fab is that we can all use the site as we wish and get what we want from it. Vast majority seem to be doing that so long may it continue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I Agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow

Plenty going on though. Just not through forums or posted meets. Think that if there was an Edinburgh equivalent of Fab Fem then there may be more women that would join such events (not to single anyone out or being disparaging about others). The great thing about fab is that we can all use the site as we wish and get what we want from it. Vast majority seem to be doing that so long may it continue! "

Lolllll I will need to get some tips from single females who have organised this sort of thing before then before I can be that equivalent then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant more personality/presence wise than experience organising meets..... Known quantities so to speak. Thing with Edinburgh is that personalities come into it far more than in Glasgow as it is a much smaller pool of people. You had 26 that were keen so hopefully you'll enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So looking to hold my fist ever apartment party on Saturday the 23rd July. Looking for a rough guide on what sort of people would be interested in this night before I go ahead and book apartment??.... "

Clue and Tiddly Winks always goes down well... og an pass the parcel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meant more personality/presence wise than experience organising meets..... Known quantities so to speak. Thing with Edinburgh is that personalities come into it far more than in Glasgow as it is a much smaller pool of people. You had 26 that were keen so hopefully you'll enjoy it! "

Thanks love I fully intend to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So looking to hold my fist ever apartment party on Saturday the 23rd July. Looking for a rough guide on what sort of people would be interested in this night before I go ahead and book apartment??....

Clue and Tiddly Winks always goes down well... og an pass the parcel "

Really I didn't think off that could make up doggy bags too with condoms, mints, soap that kinda thing

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


" I Agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow

Plenty going on though. Just not through forums or posted meets. Think that if there was an Edinburgh equivalent of Fab Fem then there may be more women that would join such events (not to single anyone out or being disparaging about others). The great thing about fab is that we can all use the site as we wish and get what we want from it. Vast majority seem to be doing that so long may it continue! "
while there hasnt been many socials in edin that ive attended the ones I have ive enjoyed as there was always fresh faces what alot seem to be forgetting is the glasgow socials are mostly the same folk

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


" I Agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow

Plenty going on though. Just not through forums or posted meets. Think that if there was an Edinburgh equivalent of Fab Fem then there may be more women that would join such events (not to single anyone out or being disparaging about others). The great thing about fab is that we can all use the site as we wish and get what we want from it. Vast majority seem to be doing that so long may it continue! while there hasnt been many socials in edin that ive attended the ones I have ive enjoyed as there was always fresh faces what alot seem to be forgetting is the glasgow socials are mostly the same folk "

Gotta agree with you here ....this is no way me being derogatory to anyone running socials ....but sometimes I can be same people socialising in same circles.....it's nice to have a mix up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to this. Don't listen to negativity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking forward to this. Don't listen to negativity "

I know I can't wait any excuse for a party can't promise will be champers left and I won't haha never listened to her bull last year so won't this year either

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By *olinb1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd be hounoured to attend if required x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be hounoured to attend if required x"

I'm afraid single male spaces have been taken sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this definitely going ahead and if so my self and lauren aka fire and ice69. Another game is u get boy girl in a circle put a ice cube in your mouth you nominated a person to put it in there mouth and the winner is when it disolved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this definitely going ahead and if so my self and lauren aka fire and ice69. Another game is u get boy girl in a circle put a ice cube in your mouth you nominated a person to put it in there mouth and the winner is when it disolved "

You know it is lol

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By *nked 1Man
over a year ago

somewhere near

Been chattin to felicity for over a year now and although she's not done me the honour of meeting me ,due to both our work commitments, I gave to say she's amazing to chat to and so sexy . I'm busy that weekend but whoever is goin to her party should be privileged, she's a Beauty xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been chattin to felicity for over a year now and although she's not done me the honour of meeting me ,due to both our work commitments, I gave to say she's amazing to chat to and so sexy . I'm busy that weekend but whoever is goin to her party should be privileged, she's a Beauty xxxx"

What a lovely thing to say thank you Mr xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a gonna be a great night. We can't wait!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to come.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a gonna be a great night. We can't wait!!"

Can't wait to meet you guys xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to come. "

Sorry we have enough single males xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Week today guys. Still space for 2 couples and females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope ye finally have a success with this Felicity......deserve a medal fer up n downs .....but then again thats whats all about.

Am out of town now and struggle to get to things but might catch up in town or club in future mac

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope ye finally have a success with this Felicity......deserve a medal fer up n downs .....but then again thats whats all about.

Am out of town now and struggle to get to things but might catch up in town or club in future mac"

Thanks fingers crossed huh . All the lovely positive words make it all worth it . Looking forward to it now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can other couples who are going to this please pm

Us please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that no one been in touch we are out. Having doubts about this now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At the beginning of this friend there was a good amount of interest and through private mail like yourselves who I have kept up to date with what is happening.

However when couples start to message saying they can no longer come due to the partner working or the partner being sick then becomes impossible for this to go ahead and the latest a couple are not even together now.

Then you have the single females who were interested but do not want to come alone all

Of a sudden or they cant get their daughter to look after the dog that evening. Total and utter piss take and they say the single males are the time wasters on here. Well I would 100% disagree as the single males who were interested kept to their word rather than being full of shit and time wasters and use wonder why fuck all happens in Edinburgh???.

Nothing to do with my planning I have the perfect apartment for the evening 3 bedroom one with en suite bathrooms in each room so perfect venue. Was cheap per person and was central what more do you want??? You can see from my veris I am genuine so the fault of this is all at your own not me but yourselves. I wonder myself why I even bothered to take the time out of my busy wee life to even do this for people who are not worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the beginning of this friend there was a good amount of interest and through private mail like yourselves who I have kept up to date with what is happening.

However when couples start to message saying they can no longer come due to the partner working or the partner being sick then becomes impossible for this to go ahead and the latest a couple are not even together now.

Then you have the single females who were interested but do not want to come alone all

Of a sudden or they cant get their daughter to look after the dog that evening. Total and utter piss take and they say the single males are the time wasters on here. Well I would 100% disagree as the single males who were interested kept to their word rather than being full of shit and time wasters and use wonder why fuck all happens in Edinburgh???.

Nothing to do with my planning I have the perfect apartment for the evening 3 bedroom one with en suite bathrooms in each room so perfect venue. Was cheap per person and was central what more do you want??? You can see from my veris I am genuine so the fault of this is all at your own not me but yourselves. I wonder myself why I even bothered to take the time out of my busy wee life to even do this for people who are not worth the hassle "

*thread*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the beginning of this friend there was a good amount of interest and through private mail like yourselves who I have kept up to date with what is happening.

However when couples start to message saying they can no longer come due to the partner working or the partner being sick then becomes impossible for this to go ahead and the latest a couple are not even together now.

Then you have the single females who were interested but do not want to come alone all

Of a sudden or they cant get their daughter to look after the dog that evening. Total and utter piss take and they say the single males are the time wasters on here. Well I would 100% disagree as the single males who were interested kept to their word rather than being full of shit and time wasters and use wonder why fuck all happens in Edinburgh???.

Nothing to do with my planning I have the perfect apartment for the evening 3 bedroom one with en suite bathrooms in each room so perfect venue. Was cheap per person and was central what more do you want??? You can see from my veris I am genuine so the fault of this is all at your own not me but yourselves. I wonder myself why I even bothered to take the time out of my busy wee life to even do this for people who are not worth the hassle "

Fair enough, but nobody asked you to do this..... It was done on your own volition and then you announced that it was cancelled, that nobody should contact you about it and that you had a plan B so anyone that may have been swithering or waiting to see how work/kids/dog sitting was closer to the time would have forgotten about it was apparently cancelled. Then it was resurrected but appeared to just be for you and a few 'in the know'.

There are plenty of parties, meets, groups etc in Edinburgh but a lot are not advertised in forums as it is about getting the right mix of people and no hassle.

Enjoy the night as you have an apartment that you are keen on and can enjoy with friends

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

This isnt to get up anyones nose but throughout the post it has been off n on like a whores knickers. Edin glasgow aber dundee it really dosnt matter clear and concise will always win hands down. There can be a case of to many cooks spoil the broth. Try not to be disheartened contact profiles that showed an intrest but above all its your party have it your way

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Good luck with your party, hope it goes well. We held two parties last year and are working on a larger one later this year, and it's not easy to organise everyone.

Many people say they're interested but when you ask for the money they fall by the wayside. We started with a core of friends that we knew we could rely on and added on from there, meeting new people for socials so we could get to know them, see if they were a good fit etc, and they'd see that we are genuine.

It's a lot of hard work and some anxiety, but when it all comes together in the end it's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isnt to get up anyones nose but throughout the post it has been off n on like a whores knickers. Edin glasgow aber dundee it really dosnt matter clear and concise will always win hands down. There can be a case of to many cooks spoil the broth. Try not to be disheartened contact profiles that showed an intrest but above all its your party have it your way"

Couldn't agree more I've organised a few apartment parties and you need to be consistant and have you numbers and plan from the word go and most importantly you Need to have a shit load of patience as people can take ages to get back to you. Change their mind etf but such is life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck with your party, hope it goes well. We held two parties last year and are working on a larger one later this year, and it's not easy to organise everyone.

Many people say they're interested but when you ask for the money they fall by the wayside. We started with a core of friends that we knew we could rely on and added on from there, meeting new people for socials so we could get to know them, see if they were a good fit etc, and they'd see that we are genuine.

It's a lot of hard work and some anxiety, but when it all comes together in the end it's great

"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isnt to get up anyones nose but throughout the post it has been off n on like a whores knickers. Edin glasgow aber dundee it really dosnt matter clear and concise will always win hands down. There can be a case of to many cooks spoil the broth. Try not to be disheartened contact profiles that showed an intrest but above all its your party have it your way

Couldn't agree more I've organised a few apartment parties and you need to be consistant and have you numbers and plan from the word go and most importantly you Need to have a shit load of patience as people can take ages to get back to you. Change their mind etf but such is life x"

It was consistent via pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This party which my pal tried to organise was no fake no scam.

I have met this sexy woman in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly someone is jealous of you Flic if going about bad mouthing you to people you have met. Ignore the looser!!! We are looking forward to seeing you on sat babe, hope that champers is on ice now XxX

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


" I Agree Edinburgh events don't take off the same as other areas especially Glasgow

Plenty going on though. Just not through forums or posted meets. Think that if there was an Edinburgh equivalent of Fab Fem then there may be more women that would join such events (not to single anyone out or being disparaging about others). The great thing about fab is that we can all use the site as we wish and get what we want from it. Vast majority seem to be doing that so long may it continue!

Lolllll I will need to get some tips from single females who have organised this sort of thing before then before I can be that equivalent then "
I have organised many.

Always have a date,place,time and costs in place before posting an event or party because I think that's what puts most off is the unclear details.

As the organiser it's your responsibility to pay the booking fee in the hope that your going to have enough interest to pay the rest of the event with a bit left over for extras .

Good luck if it still goes ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this happening? We have rare child free night! We can pm you x

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So looking to hold my fist ever apartment party on Saturday the 23rd July. Looking for a rough guide on what sort of people would be interested in this night before I go ahead and book apartment??.... "

I tried to message u to ask about this but ur filters have blocked me xx

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By *cotslad2010Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

definatey up for fun on Saturday....love to meet with you

baz xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely be interested if somebody pulls out. Be nice socialise with people on here and meet in a relaxed enviroment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys with all the hassle and agro that came with this I decided to just give up on it and leave it to someone with more expertise on such things xx

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That's a pity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this off? We discussed it. She asked for our kik addy and photos, we sent and now it's cancelled.

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hi felicity. I can't get through your filters so thought I'd pop a message here. I'm on holiday so never responded to your original post. Thanks for trying because we need a good scene in Edinburgh. People are here because the socials have been great. Don't be disheartened. I'd be happy to help organise if you felt like trying an apartment party again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi felicity. I can't get through your filters so thought I'd pop a message here. I'm on holiday so never responded to your original post. Thanks for trying because we need a good scene in Edinburgh. People are here because the socials have been great. Don't be disheartened. I'd be happy to help organise if you felt like trying an apartment party again. "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's happening about this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's happening about this "

Still the same plans as I messaged you lol see you soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest did this go ahead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for a great night you sure do know how to party Flic. Feel privileged to have been on the guest list xXx

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By *c180Man
over a year ago

shotts


"Thanks for a great night you sure do know how to party Flic. Feel privileged to have been on the guest list xXx"

Thanks for great night Felicity party was good laugh xx

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