FabSwingers.com forum: It finally happened to me

By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Every so often I would get a mail from a female wanting to meet and within a few messages would start the "can't wait to get my face in your pussy" messages. Tbh I always thought it was a guy. Last night got chatting and there was none of that just chatting away and I asked why she wasn't verified. Within a few min she was. So I thought bugger it we arranged to meet Friday about 30 min later she was UNLOS. I've saw a few people complaining about this and always thought move on and get over it but now it's happened to me I'm gutted. Aw well another fab lesson learned xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every so often I would get a mail from a female wanting to meet and within a few messages would start the "can't wait to get my face in your pussy" messages. Tbh I always thought it was a guy. Last night got chatting and there was none of that just chatting away and I asked why she wasn't verified. Within a few min she was. So I thought bugger it we arranged to meet Friday about 30 min later she was UNLOS. I've saw a few people complaining about this and always thought move on and get over it but now it's happened to me I'm gutted. Aw well another fab lesson learned xxx"

What does unlos mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

user no longer on site!! It just came to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use no longer on site

They have left

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By *-and-LCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It means user no longer on site. Happened to us a couple of times. Not sure what people get out of it.

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"It means user no longer on site. Happened to us a couple of times. Not sure what people get out of it."

They had been on the site ages and never got a meet with anyone them she gets one and goes. I think she just bottled it. Xxxx

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By *-and-LCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"They had been on the site ages and never got a meet with anyone them she gets one and goes. I think she just bottled it. Xxxx"

I guess so. Definitely their loss though

Xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. Their loss.

Deep breath and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you confirm that 'she' wasn't a man?

I hope you can move on in quick time, keep trusting your gut

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

It is gutting though when you think you've made a connection

And worse if been chatting for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when I had my si goes profile, I met this guy, he was lovely to talk to, I thought we got on really well...he was telling me he was just out a relationship, bla bla and missed the company. I felt quite sorry for him in a way. Anyway, stuff happened and we agreed to keep in touch, he dropped me home and I don't think I even got In The frot door and his profile was deleted! I honestly couldn't believe it!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I find the UNLOS happens just after 5 oclock .....which suggests to me ... that the guy has left the office .... gone home to wifey and to hide all evidence .. has deleted profile , that will reappear the next day ......when he will start to perve all over again ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said she got verified within a few minutes of you mentioning she had none I would be very suspicious that whoever verified her was who they really are

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"You said she got verified within a few minutes of you mentioning she had none I would be very suspicious that whoever verified her was who they really are"

Or it is a guy who has created a female profile to play these silly games and he just verified it from his own ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You said she got verified within a few minutes of you mentioning she had none I would be very suspicious that whoever verified her was who they really are

Or it is a guy who has created a female profile to play these silly games and he just verified it from his own ?"
thats what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me in the past. Even more frustrating when you don't get many responses from women lol.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"You said she got verified within a few minutes of you mentioning she had none I would be very suspicious that whoever verified her was who they really are"

this. It was more than likely a fake profile by the sounds of it so lucky you didn't meet

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It was photo verified. I'm not sure exactly how admins accept it or not but she had face pics in her friends only pics.

It's no big loss just a bit gutted as I wasn't planning anything except a quiet weekend then she came along and I thought why not.

Moving along to my next victu.... erm. Meet xxxx

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"You said she got verified within a few minutes of you mentioning she had none I would be very suspicious that whoever verified her was who they really are

Or it is a guy who has created a female profile to play these silly games and he just verified it from his own ?thats what I meant"

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Good luck. Hope you meet someone nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye the same thing happened to me as well. I was getting ready to go to a couple's house for my first meet with a couple and being a cuckold bull. Anyway just before I left the house I texted them to ask if we were still on and they just ignored me and I think they blocked my number. Learn and move on really

nothing you can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the UNLOS happens just after 5 oclock .....which suggests to me ... that the guy has left the office .... gone home to wifey and to hide all evidence .. has deleted profile , that will reappear the next day ......when he will start to perve all over again ....

Or wifey knows what time guy is due home from work and hide all evidence wifey deletes profile, that will reappear the day ....when she will start looking for that buzz of excitement all over again

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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I had my time wasted once about a year ago; never again! All about who you chose to connect with I suppose; and how well you feel you've got to know them. I'd never waste my time with a non-verified user. I'm often suspicious of a single-verification profile too; and often if you click on the profile who verified them; it'll be another suspect profile with one verification itself, etc.

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We've been talking to a Fb couple. We are sure they are genuine , the guy meets the girl and they have an unverified couple profile .

But now the girl has her own profile. He has verified her and she has verified the couple profile as if she has met the couple. .. Huh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You said she got verified within a few minutes of you mentioning she had none I would be very suspicious that whoever verified her was who they really are

this. It was more than likely a fake profile by the sounds of it so lucky you didn't meet "

Too many fakes on here. Think I got catfished tonight too but their loss. Block move on repeat.

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