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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone.

I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?

I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.

Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv not even looked at your profile and I can say cock pics don't do you any favs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree as soon as I see cock pics I don't reply

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If you want us to comment on your profile you need to ask.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally... I look at profiles before reading a message.

A message from you would be deleted without being read based on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being married and also having an fb would make me delete your message without even reading it

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hello everyone.

I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?

I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.

Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,."
why hasn't your Fb verified you?...Surley that would help ?

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Hello everyone.

I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?

I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.

Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,."

As others have said; and from my point of view. I'd say definitely lessen the cock pics; and more body/full body pics or pics that sort of being out the curiosity in others, or artsy shots.

Profile text isn't the most positive; it's almost saying not only is wife not good enough, but fb situation doesn't suit either hence why came here; which makes it look like here is a third stop, etc.

re the verifications; that's 50-50 think it depends. Typically socials are most common for your first verification. I first met someone without being verified; it was a drink in town. you can also try putting your name down for social events/nights out/etc that are arranged on the Scotland forum etc. That'll get you verifications, and you might even meet people there that you're attracted to/mutual attraction and take it from there...

I don't even show my verifications but that minor point doesn't seem to be a barrier for me personally although may put people off. I think it's mostly down to the photos, and just what your profile says about you that is the deciding factor in that first instance though...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Hello everyone.

I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?

I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.

Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,.

As others have said; and from my point of view. I'd say definitely lessen the cock pics; and more body/full body pics or pics that sort of being out the curiosity in others, or artsy shots.

Profile text isn't the most positive; it's almost saying not only is wife not good enough, but fb situation doesn't suit either hence why came here; which makes it look like here is a third stop, etc.

re the verifications; that's 50-50 think it depends. Typically socials are most common for your first verification. I first met someone without being verified; it was a drink in town. you can also try putting your name down for social events/nights out/etc that are arranged on the Scotland forum etc. That'll get you verifications, and you might even meet people there that you're attracted to/mutual attraction and take it from there...

I don't even show my verifications but that minor point doesn't seem to be a barrier for me personally although may put people off. I think it's mostly down to the photos, and just what your profile says about you that is the deciding factor in that first instance though..."

What the gentleman said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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